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Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by otr1(m): 8:14pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Woged2005:How I wish all our ladies would be half as reasonable as you are. You see, the man in question is just the same as an average lady you described @bolded above. 3 Likes |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by sevule(m): 8:15pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
@poster Your friend is obviously scared because the man invoked God. God HAS NEVER been a God of confusion. If the Holy Spirit spoke to HIM and said that she would be his wife, then the Holy Spirit would also speak to her and confirm same in her heart. As it stands she has no interest in the guy and the guy is SIMPLY LAZY!!! The bible clearly states that a man that does not provide for his own family is worse than an infidel. For goodness sake this man that is 36 years old is still waiting for the outcome of his father's case!!! Does he sound like a serious man? He is already boasting about money that is not his and he has not interest in making his own money. My problem with your friend is that it sounds as is she is easily swayed by material things because there is absolutely no reason that she should be giving this guy ANY AUDIENCE! He is 36, lives with his mom, is waiting for his father's court case and has never worked in his life!!!! And your friend is ACTUALLY contemplating [b]MARRYIN[/b]G him?? Sometimes the gullibility of some women never ceases to amaze me. Abeg brothers never finish for church. Your friend should take this matter to prayer and if she still feels he is not right for her, she needs to cut him off and look to another. If she decides to marry him despite all the red flags all I can wish her is best of luck 2 Likes |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by sleekman(m): 8:19pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Perhaps I Was Hasty In My Reply. People Of D Spirit Might Seem Lazy But Neva Call Them Lazy. If D Holy Spirit Is Truly In Him Then Test D Spirit In Him. Obviously Ur Friend Isnt Spirit Filled Otherwise She Would Have A Discerning Spirit 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by steppin: 8:19pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Chibuhealth:I wish I could. 2 Likes |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by evea: 8:20pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
SmartFaces:if the mother will support ur decision to help him, tk dis advice. plan with the Mother 2 cut off any form of support for him. He should be on his own. If it is 2 denial him 4 months 2 help him get 2 his feet den do 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by YoungDaNaval(m): 8:22pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
happyjuliet:Ermmm......Ermmm........but he's rich now! 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by YoungDaNaval(m): 8:26pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
happyjuliet:Ermmm......Ermmm........but he's rich now!! 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by sleekman(m): 8:27pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
arsetalks:Canal Man, U & I Have No Biz. D Spirit Of God Has No Biz W/ Human Tot. A Spirit Filled Man Is Lead By D Spirit. No One Knows What Direction D Wind Bloweth. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Eltino10(m): 8:28pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
I don't want to counter you because u connected the Holy spirit to your story... But I think that God grants us our heart desire,from what u wrote this guy is nowhere what u desire So I will advice you go back to prayers to be sure that the voice u heard was of the HOLY SPIRIT 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by shaizegotswag: 8:32pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Please op how can I contact you for personal issues? Thanks 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by creamylicious(f): 8:40pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
steppin:hian! what's a 36year old doing in his mums house if not for poverty n desperation on d girls part? 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by arsetalks(m): 8:45pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
sleekman:Canal man? Wow. Coming from someone who is playing religion. Didn't your bible say you should not judge? Did you not just condemn me? Bloody hypocrite. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by kikelomojessy(f): 8:47pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
That guy fits the description of 'the loafer' in the play 'the seven sins'. He said God told him u ar his wife,please help me ask him if God told him u did not love him and ask him not to work? My dear GF, get ready to be his mummy puppet, na u know as u take want am. 2 Likes |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Totfulguy: 8:48pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
nnafather: I hereby erect an epitaph to this degree of nonsense! Never heard a comment this clueless. Again, I have learnt how not to think. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by sleekman(m): 8:49pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
arsetalks:I Didnt Judge U. From Ur Replies Ure Obviously Canal 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by arsetalks(m): 8:53pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
sleekman:By calling me a canal man what were you implying? You guys are quick to point to the holy spirit whereas GOD is absolutely against laziness. The bible said I will bless your land, your cattle and your herd, what can the guy in OP claim as his land? His cattle or herd? Let's stop playing GOD in everything. He gave us a brain for a reason. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Funkychic(f): 8:57pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
nnafather: And how in d world would he feed her, not to talk of the kids? at 36, still depending on somebody? he must be very lazy to d core and as well shouldn't even be thinking of any lady to suffer in d name of marrying her!...mtchewww 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Tekzyflex(m): 8:58pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Left my father's house at the age of 23 because I had a little misunderstanding with him. Am 30 and have settled with him long ago. He do seek my advice on issues because he's no longer feeding me. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Caleycash(m): 9:04pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
ovalrose:Shey na u go marry her abi...I dey pity many girls 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Nobody: 9:04pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
offense number 1: You lied against the holy spirit she is your wife. God is not an author of confusion. offense number 2: You are lazy Offense number 3: You are on the receiving side. You are 36, No source of income. Please are u a graduate. Any lady that marry this boy will REGRET for the rest of her life. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Acidosis(m): 9:06pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
If the guy's father is Dangote, let her go ahead with the marriage plans. He's simply managing the family wealth. The word laziness is a product of our imagination. Lazy people earn more than the most hardworking folks. If money isn't a problem, what else does she wants? A hard working truck pusher? 3 Likes |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Funkychic(f): 9:06pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
@36 and lazy to do any work? and Holy spirit ministering to him about his wife to be?...Hehehehehe.....dat man must be d dreamer of d 21st century. someone should help me wake him up, abeg 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by AODT(m): 9:08pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
My dear, if you know what is good for you, think it through before going for him. Marriage is all about decision not somebody trying to coarse you with Holy Spirit or whatever. Also for a man that wants to get married ahaaha! he should be able to show some independence from his parent except you will be fine when they will be dictating when to sleep with you. Lol Finally age is nothing but a number. If he applies his heart to wisdom at 24 years, he will be far better that a fool at 40 years old, and am sure you agree with me. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by sule5727: 9:10pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
SmartFaces:all dis ajebo's dats d way d behave well jst shine ur eye may be is because of d money dats y u still keep him,wat if d mum is not alive wat ll happen...he ll spent all d wealth uselessly nd dat ll be d beginning of ur suffering with him shine ur eye!! 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by sleekman(m): 9:14pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
arsetalks:Elijah Slept All 9t And Most Of D Day 4 2weeks. Was He Lazy? Jacob Whom God Loved And Esau He Hated. Jacob Was In D House Most Times But Esau Worked As A Hunter. In Isaiah D Lord Says Its Not By Power Nor By Might But By My Spirit. Children Of Faith Dont Labour D Way D World Sees It. They Are Directed. 3 Likes |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by crisycent: 9:22pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
Dude is in his second childhood. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Nobody: 9:22pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
edwife: Thats if he would even have the energy to impregnate her... 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Emeskhalifa(m): 9:40pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
I don't see anyting wrong with that. He's living with his mum prolly coz she don't want him to be far from her the mom isn't even complaining I will advice the girl to jus learn how to love him. Besides he's doin as bein directed by the LORD. Afterall sef he is the next of kin. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Vithouston: 9:51pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
This guy must be a yoruba guy. Very lazy and tribalistic set of people. At 45 they still live with their parents. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Nobody: 10:12pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
SmartFaces:She just graduated...others are submitting CVs...she is waiting for marriage...una...see am? The only reason some ladies attend a university. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by ehis05(m): 10:12pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
She shud wait 4 d holy spirit to reveal it to her too...after all d same holy spirit wey tell mary say she go conceive....still reveal himself 2 joseph explain hw tins b...so make she wait.. 1 Like |
Re: He Is 36, Still Stays With His Parents And Wants To Marry Her. Help!!! by Nobody: 10:16pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
ehis05:Don't mind them...women perfect all they want. They only cry or seek solution when it backfires. Her mind dey there! I know a lady that married a 33yr-old just realising the guy's father has cash. 1 Like |
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