ireneidiva:

At 36? Are you ok?

happyjuliet:
Dis is really absorb hw can a man of 36yrs till be relying on his mother dat lady should better run, if she knows wat is gud 4 her.

Chillis:
Na wah.
You people should start using your brains for goodness sake.

How can she marry this kind of person with this description?


After you end up complaining and frustrated.

Is she that desperate?

SmartFaces:


He said he is waiting for Indegine slot of his state to work, after service, he stayed in the house for 3good years till late last year he got a job with ministry of education as a teacher.

For the ambition, he always says, he will be a very wealthy man, that if his dad wins the case with the gov't over land that he will be swiming in money.

SkinnyDude:
wow, And U Got Exactly 36likes For This Post.

SmartFaces:


He said he is waiting for Indegine slot of his state to work, after service, he stayed in the house for 3good years till late last year he got a job with ministry of education as a teacher.

For the ambition, he always says, he will be a very wealthy man, that if his dad wins the case with the gov't over land that he will be swiming in money.

SmartFaces:


My dear i tire oh! Her pro blem is that her guy is not ready now, other suitors are not coming. so she is scared that they may not come again and she could get late.

I have been able to discourage her from such thought. because God is never too late in his time.

SmartFaces:

He is 36years of age, still lives with his mum, feels very lazy and scared to do anything for himself to generate income, depends on his mum for virtually everything because she is rich, had never taken any form of responsibility what so ever, yet he wants to marry her.

happyjuliet:
Dis is really absorb hw can a man of 36yrs till be relying on his mother dat lady should better run, if she knows wat is gud 4 her.

SmartFaces:


She is 26 and just finished with youth service. Hopeing to get something doing.

okoocheche:
The money is there, good. Girl , try this with him. Try to change him to what you want. Encourage him to get a job. But first, involve him in morning and evening exercise. Make him see that nothing good come easy, even living his mum, his dad is not staying with his mum, why him? Thanks

MRMICKMEN:


you gave so much insight to the guy and his family so i think u are the person in question,stop hiding it.

SmartFaces:
She is my client and this is the story.

He is 36years of age, still lives with his mum, feels very lazy and scared to do anything for himself to generate income, depends on his mum for virtually everything because she is rich, had never taken any form of responsibility what so ever, yet he wants to marry her.

Can he make a good husband and father considering the fact that he is so so lazy?

Can he give anything whether love, money, take responsibility, just name it considering the fact that he has been on the receiving side from childhood till now?

Can he be romantic enough and be good on bed, considering the fact that he forms to be so churchy and righteous...He spends all his time in the church and other religious gatherings.

More so she does not love him or even have an atom of feeling for him, but he said "The Holy Spirit Ministered to him, that she is his wife"

What should she do?

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lawanson44:
That guy must be yoruba. They are the only ones who live with their parents till the age of 57

SmartFaces:


He said he is waiting for Indegine slot of his state to work, after service, he stayed in the house for 3good years till late last year he got a job with ministry of education as a teacher.

For the ambition, he always says, he will be a very wealthy man, that if his dad wins the case with the gov't over land that he will be swiming in money.

Onegai:


Pop's this poster a bottle of chilled Orijin and serves it with a plate of hot nkwobi for this comment.

She is just one greedy girl whose eye is chooking her. So the marriage will end up in disaster and you will be back here with Part 2 of the movie to play for us.

A smart, calculating, cunning woman would have weighed her chances of controlling him (diplomatically), managing his mum and sucking up to her and confirming his wealth, so that at the end of the day, she laughs last. It is not every woman who has that kind of mind, your friend clearly doesn't. If she did, she won't be asking you for advise, she would have brought her asoebi for you. That's how some girls end up marrying regular guys whilst some others end up marrying Prince William

Dheartless:

I thought you said he doesn't have a job and doesn't want to work?
how come three years after he left school,he could able to hold on to a job he got (even though its a teaching job)?
or are you just trying to accuse him of being lazy because he doesn't have a well paid job?

all he needs is the ambition of getting rich, so if one way fails, he certainly will find another as long as he hate being poor.

however if truly he his lazy as u claimed.... she/your friend should get herself a life and stop looking for who to depend on, she is just 26 and also a new graduate, she has a life to build rather than worry about marriage and searching for the financial capabilities of others.

stagger:


The same Holy Spirit said that "for this reason (marriage), a man shall LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER and shall cleave to his wife and they shall become one flesh".

The Holy Spirit cannot contradict His Word. The Holy Spirit did not minister jack to that guy. He should leave his parents and get engaged in an income activity and stand on his own before talking of marriage.

drimpeccable:


The guy should follow @LekeAlder on Twitter and read yesterday's edition of #Letr2Jack. If that doesn't help, the problem is bigger than we think.

SmartFaces:


Am not trying to paint him black in any way dearie.

Not having a job is one thing, not having a well paid job is another but the worse of it all, is not having the self will and motivation to do anything when the job hasn't come.

For god sake when i was still in school, i did lots of positive things to make ends meet. To mention a few:
1. I made hair in the hostel and sometimes went out for home services. Trust me, prostitution of any level while in school is not an option.

2. I made different beads designs and bangles for sale to students and people around, i even go to some shops to sample them.

3. I sold pure water in bags and retail... with that i sold 1000 bags in four days. Making it a total of 2000 bags in one week and one day.

I had a few other things i did then but if it were just to be these 3, you will agree with me that i was making something for myself. i did not wait for my parents all the time. infact before theirs came, i had sorted myself out.

Being in the house for 3years is not the issues or a crime but he lacks the self will and strength to anything for himself. We have lots of graduates without job around and some of them are self employed or doing some sort of positive hustling.

Don't you think that such a person will make his wife and kids suffers in future if white collar job fails? You see, that's my point.

How are you doing today and preparing for the election? Happy weekend.

mannyiyke:
Op,there's sth u're not telling us here. You said in one of ur posts here dat he's a teacher in the Ministry of Education, if that's d case then he's not lazy at all. Ur friend wants a rich guy. You also said he's a graduate. Dat guy is not lazy at all. His problem which is not a problem if ur friend tells herself d truth is dat he's not financially buoyant. I believe dat when things get well for him, he can then rent a house and start living alone. One problem with girls of nowadays is dat they're impatient and are always looking for rich guys. That guy is hardworking meen! Is it because he's a teacher and churchy. She doesn't know what she wants. She hates unreasonably. Pls tell ur friend to make amends. U lied earlier dat he doesn't work only to later tell us dat he works as a govt sch teacher. This is pre-meditated hatred from ur friend.