onila:


his wife knows his assets naa, igbo woman cant dull like that
my step mother is igbo

my mother gives him all the money, she gets from the job
my father gives her enough chopping money already

my father is happy, he can finally do business with someone who wldnt cheat him
when my father does business with pple, they usually dupe him
he has suffered for years

my mother started working for my father of recent, for like 4 years now
before she was doing nothing but he still took care of her

if my mother shld eventually cheat on him, at least the money enter his children hand
so its not that bad
it stays in my family

but I know, she wldnt do that
she loves him and will want his business to do well

wait o
your mother loves your father
can you please explain this love?
is it the love a woman has for her ex husband?
or is this love still fresh and bubbling?

cococandy:

Not at all.
You know how it is.
All conjecture no proof.

thought i saw some dudes who mentioned they have embarked on soul aby spirit travel
didn't they offer to teach you how its done?

henribj:


wait o
your mother loves your father
can you please explain this love?
is it the love a woman has for her ex husband?
or is this love still fresh and bubbling?

fresh and bubbling, kind of love

[quote author=onila post=31872506][/quote]

this one na "evergreen" kind of love o
am i to understand that your dad is married to more than one woman?
or is your mom his ex wife(i.e divorced)?? and if so, she still loves him

henribj:


this one na "evergreen" kind of love o
am i to understand that your dad is married to more than one woman?
or is your mom his ex wife(i.e divorced)?? and if so, she still loves him

she d0es

hes the one that left her, unfortuantely
she never asked for divorce

onila:
she d0es

hes the one that left her, unfortuantely
she never asked for divorce

chai.. some men sha
but who can tell, only the both of them actually know the reason for the divorce

henribj:


thought i saw some dudes who mentioned they have embarked on soul aby spirit travel
didn't they offer to teach you how its done?

Lmao.

henribj:


chai.. some men sha
but who can tell, only the both of them actually know the reason for the divorce

he fell in-love with another woman

n tribalism affected the marriage
they r from two different tribes

onila:
he fell in-love with another woman

hehehehe
badt sharp man
this love wey your mama get for body, does it only flow in her blood? or does it extend into your own blood as well??

cococandy:


Lmao.

fear catch you aby?
you no wan get lost for spirit kingdom

henribj:


hehehehe
badt sharp man
this love wey your mama get for body, does it only flow in her blood? or does it extend into your own blood as well??

yea but I dont want her life

I want my husband too love me more than how I love him
by staying till the end

my mum elder sister told my mum, she lived a sad life
my mother replied and said she didnt happily

all what my siblings can do for my mother now is to do well

onila:
yea but I dont want her life

I want my husband too love me more than how I love him
by staying till the end

my mum elder sister told my mum, she lived a sad life
my mother replied and said she didnt happily

all what my siblings can do for my mother now is to do well

uhm.. tbt o, it would be very difficult for your husband to love you more than you love him
especially with that your kain dp and all those razor lines running across your face

henribj:


would you advise i give her divorce settlement if she is guilty and her actions are the reason for the divorce?

I dont know how it works abroad bt wish pple abroad, shld tell us how it works

or what the law requires you to do

henribj:


uhm.. tbt o, it would be very difficult for your husband to love you more than you love him
especially with that your kain dp and all those razor lines running across your face

onila:
I dont know how it works abroad bt wish pple abroad, shld tell us how it works

or what the law requires you to do

if the woman is guilty and she is the cause of the divorce, and the man can prove she is guilty, she does not get any settlement
and she also does not get to keep custody of the kid/s
she might get visitation, depending on the degree of her f.up

onila:
yea but I dont want her life

I want my husband too love me more than how I love him
by staying till the end

my mum elder sister told my mum, she lived a sad life
my mother replied and said she didnt happily

all what my siblings can do for my mother now is to do well

you and i know that women love more than men
its almost impossible for a man to love a woman as much as the woman loves him
women always love more

henribj:


you and i know that women love more than men
its almost impossible for a man to love a woman as much as the woman loves him
women always love more

my fathers sister dumped her husband

he begged her for 15 years
she just got married again recently to another man

in my fathers family, they are blessed like that
they keep dumping pple

so yea men love more

onila:
my fathers sister dumped her husband

he begged her for 15 years
she just got married again recently to another man

in my fathers family, they are blessed like that
they keep dumping pple

so yea men love more

no jor
women love more
your fathers family is just blessed to be filled with fine fine people
still wondering why your dad allowed that sh..it to be done to your face

henribj:


no jor
women love more
your fathers family is just blessed to be filled with fine fine people
still wondering why your dad allowed that sh..it to be done to your face

hehe thats not me

onila:
hehe thats not me

i for fear
cos i just dey imagine if ur dad travel, come return to find out say na wetin ur mama ppl don do to ur face all in the name of cultural whatever, na divorce str8 be that o

henribj:


i for fear
cos i just dey imagine if ur dad travel, come return to find out say na wetin ur mama ppl don do to ur face all in the name of cultural whatever, na divorce str8 be that o

they are already divorced

onila:
they are already divorced

i know that already
but before i knew the reason for the divorce, i thought what they did to your face was the cause of the divorce

henribj:


fear catch you aby?
you no wan get lost for spirit kingdom

Those stories na wash

cococandy:


Those stories na wash

hahahaha
how you take know?
the peeps who commented did they finally admit it was all wash? cos i didn't see that anywhere on your post
or they admitted to you privately?

If the ex marries is the husband still obliged? Just curious am not even married.

the ex husband's duty is only to the kid/s they both had while been married or before the divorce was finalized, even if the ex wife remarries, the ex husband will still have to provide support for the kid/s until they get to a certain age.
in the case where the ex husband is guilty and the cause of the divorce, he provides divorce settlement for the wife and kids, the divorce settlement is mostly a one off settlement to the wife after which he no longer owes her anything, and in some cases the divorce settlement also covers provision for the kid/s involved in the marriage, and in some cases it does not cover/provide for the kid/s in the marriage and the husband has to provide for the kid/s apart from the divorce settlement provided to the ex wife.

onila:
in Nigeria

they have no choice to stand by their feet without their husband
despite being married to a rich man before

its sad, something has to be done

They have a choice. A choice to go and work and earn their own money.

The only responsibility a man has is to his children and none else.

There's nothing sad about not helping an ex. The only sad thing is the ex refusing to take responsibility for their lives. Could you imagine a man whinging that his ex has refused to help him financially or in any other way? I thought so too.