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Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by Nobody: 5:03am On Mar 27, 2015 |
Ewuro4, I wanted to make sure this impressionable young man at the crossroad of life doesn't get misguided by foolish advice Dats all Read his post and read your advice once more If you still don't see how eediotic it sounded ,what more can I say ? No need huffing and puffing Just pointing out the obvious No biggie 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by Ewuro4: 5:08am On Mar 27, 2015 |
babyosisi: And you moderate advices on this section? werey.... Misguided Like your dummy follow follows ? Just listen to yourself. You're losing it Beatrice, you need serious grind from Azubuike. Modafoka.. Just buzz off my space. Last warning. |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by Ewuro4: 5:14am On Mar 27, 2015 |
babyosisi: You don rent liver to finally type my name ? Hehe Just listen to yourself... Who do you think you are? You only come online to compensate for what you lack in real life. If you want someone to correct, you know where to click.. Excuse me, Buzz? |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by Nobody: 5:19am On Mar 27, 2015 |
Priceless007: Back to topic Listen dear Cost of college is no chicken change Sometimes one has to lay low to obtain what they desire in life Your eye has to be on the ball ,which is your future education Loyalty pays great dividends If you leave this house and go to your menial job because you are " bored" you could have lost a great opportunity Go and buy books and read Take up a hobby Write stories Start a small handyman business fixing things for neighbors for a fee if you are handy You should be studying seriously to pass JAMB with a good score so what time do you have to do anything else? 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by Ibangap(m): 7:35am On Mar 27, 2015 |
Ewuro4:And what is wrong with him being a houseboy? Though I would advice him to leave the house get something doing just like he used to, by so doing he might be able to save up some more money, cos I know how it feels to be jobless and idle, considering that he used to work and make money before now. And I believe that's why he's gambling because he seems not to be getting the kind of money he used to get while working, I'm not saying it's good to gamble though. Just my thoughts. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by Ibangap(m): 7:45am On Mar 27, 2015 |
babyosisi:Good advice. But if you say he should stay, and he eventually manages through this year and by next year he sits for another jamb examination and peradventure doesn't make it again, what then? Sounds like loosing on both sides, don't you think? He's 23 for heavens' sake, he should be making money working not sitting around waiting for help from people. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by kaboninc(m): 8:24am On Mar 27, 2015 |
Please oh, someone is seeking for advice. Let's advise! Thanks! 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by Cashio(m): 9:52am On Mar 27, 2015 |
this is my 2 cents op. Discuss de issue with ur boss. make him see reasons why u have to work. u are above de age of sitting idle depending on a man for all ur needs and considering de fact that he is married with kids. men will fail you(especially married ones) DO NOT PUT UR EGGS IN ONE BASKET!!!! talking from experience 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by Ewuro4: 2:38pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Ibangap: There's nothing wrong with being a houseboy but that wasn't his initial proposition, besides they already have a Jss3 girl maid . For a gambler , I'm only conserned about his concentration to study in that environment, the boy is burdened with chores that he forgot to procure his JAMB slip to write his exam. Also, Madam is already feeling uncomfortable and will soon throw him out and these same crowd with still call him lazy/burden when he creates another thread for that. What's wrong with pre-degree program instead of warming couch all day and mowing lawn? I don talk my own abeg. Ibangap: Really? No need oh ... Let him continue trying to be wole Soyinka and Achuebe and madam will be smiling . Abi no be same Nigeria with flooding job opportunities? #NL.. preaching what they can't practice since 1850# kaboninc:okay |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by Ibangap(m): 3:51pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
@Ewuro4 I get your point. Though I'm not saying he should leave or stay, I'm just weighing the pros and cons of the 2 options he's got. Too many conflicting ideas here, and I'm not even sure the young man has gotten the solution he was seeking for by opening this thread. BTW, what's your problem with babyosisi You knw her somewhere? Pls lalasticlala should move this thread to the FrontPage so others can share their ideas with the op. |
Re: Please Help! My Current Situation Is Depressing. by ogawisdom(m): 6:35pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Priceless007: If u r nt lazy then u need to go n work here r a few things u can do 1. Find someone to ride keke for on hirepurchase 2. Learn how to drive n u can apply to companies, schools, etc as a driver 3. Remove ur shirt n go to a building site to help out as a labourer u can make 3 to 5k daily 4. U can become a luxurious bus conductor too 5. Borrow small money n start trading on sth 6. Why nt register with a company n sell their products on commission basis 7. Go n serve as a computer operator in a biz center n get paid 8. Stop gambling its a characteristic of extremely lazy ppl Finally Pity party will nt lead you no where, at 23 u r a man d4 go n earn a living Goodluck to u |
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