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Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 2:27am On Apr 04, 2015 |
macof: MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOU!!!! |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by macof(m): 10:07am On Apr 04, 2015 |
ColinAdua: Thank you |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by ImBae(f): 3:15pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Timbuktou: |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 4:24pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Choi! Now I see why Jack Daniels remained single all his life. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 4:35pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
macof: There is no correlation between mental instability, and the lack of desire for children. Vice versa. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by macof(m): 6:25pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: Hmm well my opinion We can't measure the mental capability or stability of a person on a scale But I say, there's something wrong with the mental structure of a man who doesn't want to procreate |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by drpips1(m): 6:26pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
boolet: lol............bros you harsh oooo , but e reach make you u ask shay... |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 10:26pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
macof: Nothing wrong with that , I met a white guy once who said he'd rather adopt one of the numerous orphans who aren't cared for than further populate the earth. The Nigerian thing is always centred on having a child who will carry on our name. 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by macof(m): 10:39pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: You can't care for adopted child like ur blood |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 10:50pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
macof: Who says 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by macof(m): 11:03pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
neoapocalypse:you know anybody Can u proof such person exists as such? |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 12:39pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
In my vicinity this Easter season, its more about weddings - traditional and church. And guys are wasting thousands of naira they need to use to do better things, on meaningless formalities involved in the weddings whatever. Imagine spending N300,000 on traditional wedding and spend extra N200,000, on church wedding, to bring in someone into my life who contributed nothing when I was suffering and struggling. And who has nothing to offer except arguments, naggings, pains, betterness, anger, malice etc. Even if am the richest man in the whole world today, I no go do am for any woman. I can't spend more than N10 on any woman's head. Check this nairaland forum. Its always about "wife sets husband ablaze", "wife cut off husband kini", "wife stabs husband over APC - PDP argument", "man caught pregnant wife making out with another man", "husband beats wife " etc. And these are the so called marriage partners? That were married for happily ever after euphoria. What is the chance that, that person you're now wasting your scarce resources to marry will not behave devilish like this? GUYS UNA DEY TRY SHA!! As for me I don't want to take that unnecessary risk. I wish guys can get some sense and self control and focus their energies on things that matters like: 1) Good job/ Good business(money) 2) Great house/home 3) Grand cars 4) Choiced accessories. If I achieve those above am seriously fulfilled. Marriage these days are seriously over hyped. I tell you. I wonder how many of these marriages can last up to 6 months. That a man and a woman are house mates or even room mates does not necessaryily mean they are still married. MARRIAGE NO BE ACHIEVEMENT O O! ABEG! GUYS GET SOME SENSE AND LIFE!! 7 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by LordReed(m): 9:32pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
ColinAdua: Chei all this venom just because you don't want to share your biscuit and closet. LoL! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Godmother(f): 9:50pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
LordReed: Lolz, don't mind him jare. His problem is just bitterness. I used to be so bitter too about marriage. Like the OP, I focused on just the negative stories flying aronund out there. But I decided to look deeper and saw that there can be and is happiness in marriage; there's companionship, friendship, love, bond, knowing someone's got your back, etc. OP needs to renew his mind as well and ASAP too. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by beckplanet: 11:13pm On Apr 08, 2015 |
op some persons took dat decision u're shying away from, to bring u to this planet earth. (RETHINK) 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 3:22am On Apr 09, 2015 |
macof: On what basis? I'm interested in why you believe this. Edit: Happy Birthday! 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 8:10pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Godmother: Hei! Chineke God! Me bitter about marriage. Is it N500,000,000? Shai! Laugh no gree me. Something I have practically nothing to gain from. When every single day I wake up and look at married people around, I feel so happy that am single, totally free with no meaningless unnecessary burden. Chai! I salute una. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 8:14pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
beckplanet: Am not shying away from marriage. Its just not necessary, these days my brother. I keep wondering why do guys waste so much money to give up this wonderful freedom that am seriously enjoying? Moreover, my parents made their choice according to what makes them happy. Now its my turn to make choice according to what makes me happy and I choose singleness for life. I have already told them. It was hard initially for them especially my father but we they saw that am serious they had no choice than to accept it. I pity them sometimes, but its my life. I don't want to sacrifice my happiness on the altar of societal conformity and parental gladness. 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 8:30pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
LordReed: Whatever!! But I do share my biscuits. Am a very generous person. Venom! for what. Am shocked that people will waste money to enter something that tomorrow they will start regretting and complaining bitterly about. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by klark3: 8:35pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
ColinAdua:May God continue to bless u for this post. U have said it all, u don't need to say more. Considerable number of women advocate & propagate d positive side of marriage, because it's an opportunity for dem to put their burden on someone's head. Marriage doesn't benefit a man in any way, but love & sex wouldn't allow many to see this, some may term ur perception abt marriage as bitterness. But that is far from d truth, 99.9% of married couples suffer silently within. A woman will offer u nothing but a life of misery, a life bereft of women is d most peaceful, just like a life with christ. Solomon married 300 wives, what did he get in return, nothing. With d recent tide of cheating, unhappiness,pains,disrespect,slavery,distrust... in marriages, I will advise anyone dat can hold himself, to forget abt marriage. Marriage is good, but singleness is better. 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Moana(f): 9:08pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Dyt:dont mind him. No one wants to marry him, thats why he is here forming single and happy 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Godmother(f): 9:26pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
ColinAdua: I just checked your dp and you are not a kid o. I was going to say you are talking this way cos you are still young. You need to start looking at the positives in marriage. Loneliness is not an easy thing. Don't wait until you are 60 and have no one to share a happy moment with .I don't think it will be fun. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by LordReed(m): 6:38am On Apr 10, 2015 |
Godmother: Well said. How preps? |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Godmother(f): 8:02am On Apr 10, 2015 |
LordReed: All fine o. Thank God |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by LordReed(m): 8:10am On Apr 10, 2015 |
ColinAdua: If I say you are misogynist or a woman hater now you will say I am lying against you. Here you are practically saying women are incapable of adding any value to a man/marriage. If I say you called marriage worthless you will cry foul yet here you are calling the effort put into it a waste. Mister just admit that you have reserved a special venom for marriage/women instead of all this beating about the bush. 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by LordReed(m): 8:10am On Apr 10, 2015 |
Godmother: Great to hear. Wishing you all the best. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 4:54pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: Now that speaks of selflessness. And yet, people are more or less prone to viewing child-free individuals as selfish SOBs. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 6:57pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul: Such a wonderful pleasure to read from you , how are you ? Never knew you aren't Nigerian |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 10:19pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
LordReed: Bros! you don't know me. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 10:25pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
Godmother: It seems you didn't start this thread from page one. Well let me furnish you with some facts. This thread is created to celebrate my 10yrs of taking the decision to stay single and still keeping to it. I woke up one morning this year and I felt so happy I took this decision ten years back. I took to nairaland inviting more guys to experience this life of bliss. And still so happy I took this decision. That picture on my dp was taken 10yrs ago when I took this decision. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Nobody: 10:39pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
Moana: I don't care. Let it be the truth its even better. I don't care whether there are women that'll like to marry their father not me. I don't think about it. I think about money and how to fulfill my dream of coming out with my own smartphone brand before the end of this year. |
Re: Reasons Why You Should Consider Staying Unmarried (FOR GUYS ONLY)! by Moana(f): 10:43pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
ColinAdua:woooooo they dont want to marry you wooooo |
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