I grew up seeing my mum's stomach flabby and for me that is normal. these days you see females training to have abs like guys and this is extremely repulsive for me. I cant stand a girl that looks like a man. the main reason they are called a girl is soft body. Why would I want a girl that her body is as strong as mine. I am not saying a girl should not be healthy and yes, this is not my mum's generation. A girl should have a flat stomach if she can, but abs don't know. what do you think?