I am just basically wondering. You know after all the break-up and heart break palava. You run into an ex after a long time and they looked worse than you left them, is it normal to feel secretly happy that things are not going well for them, and you yourself are looking too good to eat. What if it is the other way round, u think you are looking better than d ex, while the ex thinks they are looking better than you. Is that most girls find it diifficult to meet up with an ex after a long period of time, because they are afraid they will not look good enough for their ex to regret losing them.

Share your experiences with running into an ex.

Seriuos responses please.

Kpele. . .
If I'm lukin' beta dan my X, den it's quite normal. I ALWAYS do/luk beta dan my Xs, so i guess its only natural. . .

do u always sound so pompous

Its all in your mind set.just feel good about yourself at all time no matter the situation you tend to find your self.
Most people feel inferior when they come across a more successful person,that perception would not give you a good courage to get on,what you need do in respect to the topic of discuss is to talk things out and motivate your selves with
mind stimulating discussions.

I Grow daily and when I say 'Grow', I mean in EVERY AREA!!!   
A Guy that thinks after a period of time I would still be in SAME shape I left  HIM
should have a rethink.
I'm always in fine fettle anyway and when I run into an EX . . .
I have a way of provoking comments like . . .''You look great''
and of course, the li2 discussion always ends with . . .''You shouldn't have . . .I wish . . .''etc.

hmmmm

Ben20001:


hmmmm

Stop hmming . . .Tell 'em how you felt the last time we met.

@ topic

My exes' favorite phrase is: men you look hot!

"I know idiot!"

@michellin89,

u remember the last time we met that i said

"girl u look fat"

and you said

"thanks i know"

?







_{u sounded too proud up there}

Unfortunately, I'm the one always looking like crap!

@spikedcylinder

for once in my live here i have seen a real humble chic

yes you are the best

if not that i got engaged last week

i would have got you ho**ed

What do you expect? they look berra than me? Hell no mehn cmon, if i got a hint i'll be in a party so as my ex, i bet you i'll be in the finest of all things so as whoever is going with me a gf,lover,waever. I dont mind going shopping 10pm or 6am the party day.
So looking berra than my Ex is the way to go i dont expect less cos if they do look berra i might get   again

Missy B:

Stop hmming . . .Tell 'em how you felt the last time we met.

so you now introduce me as your Ex *^{can't beleive she left me for another dude}

Ben20001:



so you now introduce me as your Ex *^{can't beleive she left me for another dude}

Ex ke??
I thought you were some1 else . . . .
Of course . . . You'll always be my one and only Darling.

hehehe. . .because I'm beginning to smell rat o

What you smell is Loff not Rat!!

my mind rest

tonye-t:

@spikedcylinder

for once in my live here i have seen a real humble chic

yes you are the best

if not that i got engaged last week

i would have got you ho**ed

LOL.

Darling, remain engaged.

Yes I have experienced this. But, I am not secretly happy or anything. I'm a very loving and forgiving person, and I don't wish strife or hardship on anyone, ever. I care about each individual regardless of what terms we left on. Instead, I just try to be cordial and always uphold my own self.

hmmmm. . . thank gawd for you

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I know a couple that when they meet later on the guy was probably still on d dating scene dumping girls n being dumped while the girl was married , very much in love and was heavily pregnant. He sid she was the most beautiful pregnant woman he had ever seen (considering the fact that most heavily pregnant women look shapeless and fat). Till today he beats himself for leaving her. lol

tonye-t:

@michellin89,

u remember the last time we met that i said

"girl u look fat"

and you said

"thanks i know"

?







_{u sounded too proud up there}

Just because I refused to be a size zero??

rhufffryda:

(considering the fact that most heavily pregnant women look shapeless and fat).

What!?! Are you serious? Pregnant women are the most beautiful and attractive of them all! A pregnant belly is a thing of beauty!!

huh , i met an ex- girlfriend last year after many years of been apart, boy this chic wouldn't just let me go. She looks  quite okay inspite of she having a baby for a guy she claimes not to really like and she complained i look too good for her to resist so like old firewood, we spark fire.  jt

Yes i have.

Tee hee hee . . . .  , this most def. gives new meaning to the term. . . .Good riddance to bad effing Rubbish!!

Like for real!

dont know, but lately i saw my ex and i said to myself "babe were u blind when u were goin out with this guy,so luks like shit" and he said, u luk gud , wow uv so grow and i said thanx,
all this according to ma mum is not as if the person hasnt been taking care of him or her self but becos u dont seem to appreciate him or her as you used toyou dont see em a pretty or handsome , probably becos uv seen beta fishes in d river or, hell there are loads of reasons,
PEACE

mindset thingy, , for me, seeing my ex looking good makes me feel even better, even if we didnt work out, he wasnt d worst mistake i eva made!

arianne:

mindset thingy, , for me, seeing my ex looking good makes me feel even better, even if we didnt work out, he wasnt d worst mistake i eva made!

Sure?? even when another girl is enjoying all the goodies??

This reminds me of my ex who was actually my first boyfriend,then i was still so naive and was in secondary school o u can all imagine how a secondary school girl would normally look like.we broke up because i cldnt cope wt his behaviour he chases anything in skirt.i moved on with my life and dnt see him for like 3yrs.by then i was a campus babe and i had all the right things in the right places.was going 4 lectures one day when i saw someone seriously looking at me.i stopped and he came 2 meet me i kdnt even recognise him,he was looking so bad,shabby and unshaven.and men i was looking hhhootttt.dguy was jst looking at me.i tot he was going to faint.i was so happy with mysef and asked him how life has been treatin him though dnt realy need an answer to that it was so obvious.i told him to excuse me cos i dnt want to be caught with him.though i feel 4 him but it serves him the hell right.