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She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Booyakasha(f): 9:46am On Apr 02, 2015 |
I know I'm not even supposed to be talking about because this is too embarrassing. I don't have a micro penis or something either, an average one. I was just talking to my girlfriend about sex in general and she told me how while fingering she would fantasize it to be bigger. She said when she's masturbating she's wanting it bigger :/ God! pornography has our ladies have unrealistic standards !I know, I should not be that shallow to think about it too much, but I can't help. I've been thinking about it since she has said it. We wanted to get engaged this june but now I feel devastated. How could I marry a lady who'd fantasize about bedding something or somebody that's not me. This, fucking state of self sorry and self-pity is killing me. I am a good looking, muscular guy - I get that a lot, and never had problem with girls. But this one fucking line, this one girl has taken away all my self-confidence. I feel devastated. I don't want to admit the fact that I'm being too shallow, even to the point that I don't like the idea of marrying her anymore. I just feel like disappearing somewhere, or just turn back time and never bed her so I wouldn't have heard this. All that I know is that I will never be able to drop clothes with a female ever again. I don't know what to do now. I know it should not matter to me, but somewhy it does, and it is killing me. Why not anybody else? Why her, the girl I planned to marry in the next 3 months. God fucking shit, everything is ruined ;/ |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Nobody: 9:48am On Apr 02, 2015 |
She wants it big? Of cuz we all want big things in life |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Tallesty1(m): 9:51am On Apr 02, 2015 |
You think you have a problem? Read mine. I really need to see a doctor now to have my wedding ring cut off from my jonny after my mistress found the ring in my trouser pocket and got so mad at me and stuck it on me while I was asleep I don’t know what’s worse: 1) Having my mistress find out I am married. 2) Explaining to my wife how my wedding ring got on my johnson 3) Or finding out my thing fits through a wedding ring. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by snadguy007(m): 9:55am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Thank God she told you now. |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Enegod(m): 9:57am On Apr 02, 2015 |
porn makes women to have unrealistic sexual expectations from men! But Op, if you really have a 3" kini....thats a big problem |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by englishmart(m): 9:59am On Apr 02, 2015 |
rubey:why don't you prefer a molue bus to a lamboughini? Shey molue is bigger 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by englishmart(m): 10:01am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Tallesty1:your case is worse than that of Job in the bible |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Princecalm(m): 10:04am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Am sure u were the one that brought that conversation and it turned badly on u |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Fairgodwin(m): 10:08am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Bros I can understand how you feel. Quite embarrassing, so to speak. #please take heart. But on a more sincere note, I think you should suspend the wedding for now, to at least really think things through, and also possibly, to gain your confidence back (at least). If I were in your shoes, that's what I'd have done. |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by dharay99: 10:10am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Tallesty1: cut ur tin off then...abi 1 Like |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by tohpahz(f): 10:17am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by ireneony(f): 10:19am On Apr 02, 2015 |
increase the size na |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Houseofglam7(f): 10:30am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Whoa! @OP, I can't say I understand how you feel but I really wish you didn't find yourself in a situation as this. Truth is, she's probably seen and tasted bigger and she ain't 'feeling' you at all. Talk to her about it, make her understand it's hurting your ego real bad and you may call off the wedding or put it on hold pending when you get your act together. My 2cents. I stand corrected though. |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by georgementday(m): 10:39am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Size is not really important in copulation but d ability to satisfy ur partner which can depend on many factors unless it is Rothmans cigar size in length and circumfrence,in dat case look for a beautiful dwarf who can adapt to ur kinikon. |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by TheChosenOne1: 10:46am On Apr 02, 2015 |
rubey:Lool..Big things like"Big Problem"? |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Booyakasha(f): 11:15am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Houseofglam7:she hasn't tested anyone... she just have that fantasy. and my .... is average. |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Booyakasha(f): 11:20am On Apr 02, 2015 |
A relation of a long time. You have no idea how bad I feel. I just don't want her to have this relation of compromise. As gay as it may sound, I have truly loved this girl. Apart from this state of inferiority complex she has pushed me into, i can't stand the thought of her compromising with somebody who's not upto her expectations for the rest of her life. She will only end up cheating on me with some guy, the type of which she fantasizes about(Big d... guys). This sucks. |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by DExplorer1: 11:32am On Apr 02, 2015 |
Enegod:Don't judge too quickly. Same applies to men. The urge for those crazy positions could be unrealistic too. 2 Likes |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Booyakasha(f): 12:04pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
DExplorer1:Word. |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Nobody: 12:40pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Tallesty1: LWKMDFH. hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Nobody: 1:02pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
You need to fu..ck...ig come down to earth and stop acting like this is the end of the world. You are a human being for God sake and people are gonna criticise no matter what. Learn to take it like a man and move on. So what if she says your pen....is is small did you make yourself? And I am surprise at your age you haven't figure women out yet to know they freaking have no clue what they want. yes I am a woman and I say so. When it's too big we complain when its small we complain even when it's medium we complain. All you gotta do is just do your best and leave the rest. LMAO my nigga did I hear you say you want to leave her because of that? Haahaahaaah nigga your ego to so frigle and your self esteem too low. I remember I once dated a guy.....and I said the exact same thing to him, even though his peni....s was not really small I just wanted to provoke him. All he did was teach me a little lesson in bed. I had to beg him and he made fun of me saying " I thought it was so small and yet you can't handle it" lol we laughed about it later. Learn to joke like her sometimes. She will learn that your self esteem is indeed high and she can't shake your confidence. 8 Likes |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Tantidora(f): 1:36pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Booyakasha: hw are u sure of this she has test a big one th@s why she is nw making comparism.. 1 Like |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Booyakasha(f): 2:02pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
rokiatu:thank you, i understand you and your post is gratifying.. just so you know, i have never had s*x with her we were just having a normal discussion when she said she preferred bigger joysticks. i just can't help the fact that she probably would look for someone with big d' to satisfy her sexual fantasy when we're married |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Booyakasha(f): 2:06pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Tantidora: Everyone has some fantasy tanti. like, sometimes when you wish you were with your favourite celebrity. or how i preferably will want to be with rihanna. okay. |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by xtervaganza(m): 2:35pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Dear op , someone just gave you an advise. Read her comment and agree with her. Life is too short to dump the love of your life over a small matter like dat |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by lovelyadeola(m): 2:49pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Booyakasha: You can still get bigger naturally with longer length and wider girth without any side effects.. . . Meanwihle Checkout my signature for more info . How To Increase Your joystick Size Naturally (No Pill No Device No Surgery) https://www.nairaland.com/2200574/how-increase-joystick-size-naturally/1#31946911 |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Mprex(f): 3:02pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Booyakasha:you havent had sex with her and you are already having fears grow up |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Houseofglam7(f): 3:23pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Booyakasha: Oops, sorry. Either way, you just gotta embrace your **** size coz its gonna remain that way for the rest of your life, except you choose to alter it. You are perfect just the way you are bro. Embrace it. |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by ITbomb(m): 4:07pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
You no get Star bottle for your house? |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by alterswerve(m): 6:12pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Booyakasha:Sir, I'll tell you the truth. The size of the aforementioned device doesn't really matter. As far as you can stimulate the clytoriz, bro, gbagbe! Aim for the clyt, and she'll forget bout d size. I'm serious |
Re: She Took Away All My Self Confidence, I Am Devastated :/ by Calebosko(m): 6:27pm On Apr 02, 2015 |
Tallesty1:hahhahahahahahhaahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahhahhhahahahahahahahahhaahahahahaaahhah o boy u don kil me na so ur jt smal reach |
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