[b]After a long time schooling from kg class probably some to a Ph.D level I had wished they will be a section in the curriculum to accommodate romance and relationships, sadly there are none, with the spontaneous rates of break-ups, divorce and bending relationships, I have in one way or the other noticed there are some Toxic myths that this modern day relationship have implanted in us that destroy our relationships, so don't fall prey of them

1. Love is all you Need we all need love since is a prerequisit but believe me it won't get you beyond the alter, a woman can tolerate your love preaching and stories to her but when she demands money for her upkeep and you can't provide, your love is dead on arrival, keep love aside and get you pocket loaded every letter of the word "Love" will fall in place never think love can save your relationship, am sorry to disappoint you, that is a very fat lie

2.Once We Get Married, Then Everything Will Be Perfect *clears my throat* that what most of our ladies believe , if things never worked out during the relationship don't think they will during marriage, first you have to realise that "Marriage isn't a magic pill to fix or improve a relationship" marriage comes with it own entire
Troubles, emotions and heavy commitments, make it work before even marriage because you will get dissatisfied during marriage too

3. You complete each other * another story for the gods*Complementing each other is definitely a benefit of a good relationship, but expecting another person to make up your shortcomings is an unrealistic expectation ,if there are shortcomings in your woman or guys life never think you can cover them up, it won't last, rather be ready from day one to accept and live with it that way rather than having a target that is unrealistic,.

4. Am your responsibility your his responsibility probably to an extent never think your relationship will work on autopilot when you depend everything on him, you need to clinch to each other and not the other way round, kick that mentality aside and release your responsible for your actions and inactions if not your guy will definitely take you for a ride

5.Relationships Are Hard Work.When you believe that relationships are hard work, then your love life becomes about as much fun as cleaning the toilets and floors, Don't try to work your azz to keep a relationship it does not work that way, instead of you working that hard i will advise you channel that strength to our power sector , Relationships do, however, require attention but not spending 24/7 for him or her, just be yourself act normal and believe you will be adored the way you are

Above all take time and meditate on this myths, you will thank me later

Source: harrysterol [/b]

Kaare

Emhicee:
Kaare

Ogbeni which 1 be kaare again na.? Abeg talk wetin person go understand no be town hall meeting we dy emm simdam500 u still dy politics section?? U wan contest presidency

meats

krall:
meats

e b like say una d weed carry enter dis section o

Oya pele. Change the topic to things you know about relationships/marriage

harrysterol:
e b like say una d weed carry enter dis section o

ehh??

Emhicee:
Oya pele. Change the topic to things you know about relationships/marriage

them no go correlate with my write up those are the myths believed on

Modify am make e correlate.

True talk

Emhicee:
Modify am make e correlate.

u d use me play abi

mizkeleke:
True talk

yeah

Nice one op

This is fp worthy.

Truth is hard to hear but all those points are true.

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Make ah comment in case e knack FP..

Nice points..

Why i go use you play? You be toy?

Am not married but i know these things are true. Nice one op

Dimples192:
Nice one op

This is fp worthy.

Truth is hard to hear but all those points are true.

Cc
Ishilove Rocktation farano please do the needful

demmy0325:
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u don cme again

lagmostkuit:
Make ah comment in case e knack FP..

Nice points..

e be like say them the share money for there?

harrysterol:


Cc
Ishilove Rocktation farano please do the needful

Just sort out you use of They're when you mean there are and They when you mean there. You do it more than once. Mho.

diddydiva:
Am not married but i know these things are true. Nice one op

is for the single too

Dimples192:


Just sort out you use of They're when you mean there are and They when you mean there. You do it more than once. Mho.

pointing the search light

op you try wella

harrysterol:
is for the single too

i know that mister. But only d married ones can know d value of this write up. they are in it.

harrysterol:
u don cme again

.. Wot i do..?

AfricanApple:
op you try wella

so no bottle of orijin for me Before them ban am

diddydiva:
i know that mister. But only d married ones can know d value of this write up. they are in it.

marry me now na

demmy0325:
.. Wot i do..?

nothing

harrysterol:
marry me now na

Dont derail ur thread dude,its fp worthy

diddydiva:
Dont derail ur thread dude,its fp worthy

iron lady

No3 tho...buh this ur Topic is smhow