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| 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 10:36am On Apr 04, 2015 |
1. His compliments feel like too much. Like any athlete, he’s put his practice time in, and he knows the tricks of his sport. It’s easy to become blinded by flattery, especially when it’s coming from a guy who you’re into — but if he’s known you for two weeks and he says you’re “the most incredible person I’ve ever met,” realize that this, while possibly true, is also possibly a play out of the weasel handbook. 2. He frequently doesn’t answer your texts until the next morning. You spent all of last night staring at your phone in 30-second intervals. Maybe there was something wrong with your cell service? Should you call your provider? Then, right smack in the middle of your work day, he finally hits you back with the story of how he fell asleep or accidentally got too drunk to come over. If you were his main squeeze, he would’ve anticipated your text just as much as you were anticipating his. He may indeed have fallen asleep … at some other girl’s house. 3. He never wants to go out. People who are going out … go out. If he’s keeping you hidden like some dirty little secret, that is likely what you are to him. 4. He has a generic nickname for you. Bae. Babe. Hun. What these names have in common, beyond their inherent obnoxious qualities, is that they are interchangeable and perfect for the fella with far more baes than he deserves. 5. He never wants to cuddle. There must be a day at d-bag school when they tell you that if you don’t cuddle with a girl, then you can’t possibly be accused of manipulating her emotions. If he shies away from spooning and jumps out of bed as soon as you guys are done, this is his way of “protecting your feelings.” Let him spread that good samaritan spirit elsewhere. 6. He “jokingly” insults you. Another common player trick, popularized by “The Jerk’s Guide to the Universe” (aka “The Game”), is “negging,” or attempting to woo a girl by subtly insulting her. Examples of this are statements like, “I bet you look really hot in a shirt that actually fits you right.” Be on the lookout for this asinine behavior, and tell him to try peddling his sleazy wares elsewhere. (He already is anyway.) 7. He’s always hesitant to make set plans. He thinks he can hang out Friday, because he knows there’s a chance some other girl will hit him up. Don’t let yourself be his last best option. Set this dude free and save your Fridays for something more productive and meaningful … like re-watching all of “Gossip Girl.” 8. There are pictures of other women all over his Facebook. Maybe that’s his platonic friend. Perhaps that’s an old picture of an ex. Probably those are all your Eskimo sisters. There’s a reason for stalking men on Facebook: we should never let sleeping dogs lie to us. Snap out of denial and unfriend this fool faster than he can try to guess your cup size. http://www.mtv.com/news/2102787/hes- playing-you/ The players in the house, I call on you to add more to the list.  |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Tallesty1(m): 10:37am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Ok |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 10:39am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Most girls know when a guy is playing them,but they are blinded by love 2 Likes |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 10:40am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Tallesty1:  |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 10:42am On Apr 04, 2015 |
kitnah:I concur. A girls love is so powerful and affectionate. |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by buygala(m): 10:42am On Apr 04, 2015 |
He discharges you immediately after sex.... he has barely pulled off his condom and he is already talking about being late for a very important meeting... before the poor girl says jack, she is out on the street with a generic 'I will call you, sweet'  He doesn't call or wanna see her when he knows she is on her period. ... Since sex is kinda restricted during that period ( unless for crazy dudes like me who have found a beautiful way around it  ), he has no use for her.. So he goes AWOL for the 5 or 7 days when the punanni is leaking, and suddenly resurfaces with copious excuses as to his absence and half-hearted apologies, then wastes no time in unceremoniously sticking his cockk in  She always notices that her periods always inexplicably come late anytime she fuccks him.... This is because she has been unwittingly taking Postinor or some other oral contraceptive, which are notorious for delaying menstrual periods. . Dude is not interested in any long-term commitments with her, talk less an unplanned pregnancy... So he always manages to stealthily drop one or two Postinor tablets into the juice or whatever drink he serves her after the sex activity ... That's the only romantic post-sex time the girl gets from him.. that's when the player will be like ''Baby, You look sooo fabulous... I just can't seem to have enough of you ...Let us have some juice while I make us some indomie... Don't wear your panties tho... we ain't done with each other yet  "2 Likes |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Emhicee(m): 10:42am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Orisirisi |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by TRADELYN: 10:43am On Apr 04, 2015 |
kitnah:  You mean...LoVe = MoNey? BTW, Happy birthday! 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Ladybluecash(f): 10:43am On Apr 04, 2015 |
kitnah: |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Ladybluecash(f): 10:43am On Apr 04, 2015 |
kitnah:jos lik me |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 10:45am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Some are true @ OP 1, 2 & 6 |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by vizkiz: 10:45am On Apr 04, 2015 |
rubbish! I have 3 girlfriends Tracy Vanessa Shade and I do all these shiit whenever I am with them so what the furck? No just come here come dey pour sand for your fellow nigga beans |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by YUNGLURD(m): 10:46am On Apr 04, 2015 |
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| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 10:47am On Apr 04, 2015 |
vizkiz:Pervert! Vanessa is enough |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by vizkiz: 10:50am On Apr 04, 2015 |
1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 10:54am On Apr 04, 2015 |
vizkiz:Vanessa is better than the both of 'em; I can attest to that |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 10:57am On Apr 04, 2015 |
1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Tattooboy: 10:57am On Apr 04, 2015 |
buygala:bingo! @op; no 3 is so on point |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 10:58am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Ladybluecash: My sis,I knew he was playing me,but I realised I'm too valuable to be taken for granted |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by vizkiz: 10:59am On Apr 04, 2015 |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 11:01am On Apr 04, 2015 |
I hate it when a GUY starts exposing his fellow guys..... I hate it!! I swear!! |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Ladybluecash(f): 11:02am On Apr 04, 2015 |
kitnah:hmmmm babe u r right dear..... He's actually playin me bt he's damn serious nw, we met sum mnths ago. He treated me lik a game nw its my turn to show him hw it is played 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Ladybluecash(f): 11:03am On Apr 04, 2015 |
kitnah:hmmmm babe u r right dear. He's actually playin me bt he's damn serious nw, we met sum mnths ago. He treated me lik a game nw its my turn to show him hw it is played 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by dharay99: 11:05am On Apr 04, 2015 |
coming from Mr d¡ck? Hmmm, I see. |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 11:05am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Ladybluecash: I'm happy for you Abegg,don't play him o |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Ladybluecash(f): 11:08am On Apr 04, 2015 |
kitnah:You r correct dear, we met last yr nd he was playin me bt nw he's damn serious, too late for him, he treated me lik a game nw i wonna show him hw it is played. Mak i no lie i truly love him tho 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Ladybluecash(f): 11:10am On Apr 04, 2015 |
kitnah:lol, its my turn to play back cos of d lies he told me den |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 11:13am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Ladybluecash: Don't over-do it sha Do it moderately Let him know how it feels to be played  1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 12:31pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Prior to what missclasssy said yesterday, this section is biased. I created a topic only for you guys to abandon it cos it wasn't created by tosyne or emu.smith, this is indubitably atrocious and annoying; ergo this is why I said this section is filled to the brim with apotheosis characters, y'all are myopic to the fact that its greatly demeaning the prestige of this section. Its frustrating and scathing to other members personality. I'm outta here! 2 Likes |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 12:32pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
D1ck: Haba lol Give it time its still early . 1 Like |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 12:37pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Lala247:Its really annoying, they are all commenting on one silly thread about a troll asking who naij.aboy and ori.gin. Meanwhile I only created this topic because of yesterdays complaint about Romance section prestige......Damn |
| Re: 8 Signs That A Guy Is Just Playing You by Nobody: 12:38pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
D1ck: Its true i feel ur pain ... Dont get angry maybe this might make front page who knows |
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