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Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by Nobody: 6:10pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
willexyaho:he talk say make papa and mama no dey spoil there pinkin He come add say at age 18, make papa dey drive pinkin commot for house, say make them go dey work, After some time he come say imagine papa go dey give pinkin 250,000.00k as chop money ohh! Say them go go look for work come dey say make them owner of the work increase their salary pass there papa own. Na there I stop shall 2 Likes |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by J4parry(m): 6:15pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
So true but a lot of us young men are already on our own, our parents are the ones that now visit us occasionally. Thanks for the letter in any case. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by oluamid(m): 6:16pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
As much as this is a very good write up and I can relate with what the OP has said, yet, this is not representative of the average Nigerian family/parents. Most Nigerian parent are hustling to put 3 square meals on their kids' table. They take loans from their business/workplace to pay their children through school. OP's submission is more about the 1% who are in the corridors of power, the super rich who made their money from stealing from govt coffers. 1 Like |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by UncleDeeee(m): 6:19pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Can somebody please summarise this story |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by Ezenwa11(m): 6:20pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
I hate reading copied unedited text. This is first class plagiarism. Please quote the source of your story next time. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by ednut1(m): 6:22pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
so true. d first job i did as a student in uk. was in Aston villa stadium. saw lots of students white, european blks. nd i was surprised. cos i tot dey no need money |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by teetuu: 6:25pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Nice one! Food for thought dear parents.. Think and act!!! |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by chire(m): 6:27pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
This is a very good article. The poster is very accurate and spot on. This is a serious problem. I can authoritatively say that the problem of over-parenting has eaten deep into our university system. I regularly meet with parents whose children have bad grades as a result of unseriousness. You can not but feel sorry for Nigeria if you see how these parents try to use money to change their children's poor grades. God help us. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by Nobody: 6:30pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Ezedon:lol, has a Masters. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by twosquare(m): 6:33pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Dey there dey deceive una sef....in a country where economy seems to grind to a halt...companies running to ghana....no stable employment for those who are ready to work, na one pikin wey just one do holiday job go now get...I don't support overparenting but the writer of that article should wake up and stop dreaming...this isn't UK...... 1 Like |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by Bollinger(m): 6:36pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
raayah: I did not say it was perfect. There are some things we take for granted. You need to live on both perspectives to understand my point. Africans live longer, have better health long term, appreciate family, are more matured over all. In the west you'll see a 30 year old acting like a 12 year old, just because he never mature properly nor had the proper guidance. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by twosquare(m): 6:38pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Viciyus:no mind d mumu...all what he wrote was possible because those guys have advanced economy in europe...but here wey be say africa's economy wan commit suicide for atlantic ocean, about to jump in.....what can only be learnt is handwork skills(vocational) |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by Barblow(m): 6:40pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
A word is enough for the wise! |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by jazzy4naija(m): 7:01pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
http://leadership.ng/opinions/420723/letter-to-nigerian-parents for those of u that love source abi sauce |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by JayJustus(m): 7:26pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Viciyus: I don't blame you for your swift judgment...I suppose it's as a result of what you hear and see...I save money, I do gigs around (play bass guitar for bands, busker on the streets, play at pubs), I make beats and sell, I sell second hand electronics and help people sell theirs too thereby getting commission, I cook and sell (cos I study culinary as a minor), I do homework for people and get paid, I make lotsa friends around so I get free food half the time...so don't come judging people around when you apparently know nothing about who they are in actuality...so ferme ta bouche my nigga |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by peteruuu(m): 7:32pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Nicr... I love this |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by GoldHorse(m): 7:43pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
True talk! |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by smartmom(f): 8:09pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Ezedon: Wake up and smell the roses joor. Havent you heard that the certificate has been located and viewed on social media? Leave that dead issue alone! It bears no relevance to the topic anyway! 1 Like |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by smartmom(f): 8:23pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Wonderful write up. I only hope parents will straighten up and take bold steps in the right direction. Matter of fact, unless you teach your kids that you expect them to contribute to your upkeep even if you can afford it, they will not learn responsibility! Yes, let them know they are obliged to give back after been raised and kept by you. The kids that are being raised with a wrong sense of entitlement is completely wrong. My graduate son stopped expecting money from us since he started earning during his NYSC.Any money he received was a 'loan' and is expected to be paid back. As his mum, he pays me back. His dad waives his off most of the time but it is never any money beyond what he is earning! |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by God2man(m): 8:40pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
I hear you. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by zoomzu(f): 9:02pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Lekki Housewives |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by Tshaphilo: 9:04pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Thanks a lot for your letter but the ppl that needs to read it may never see it. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by gabicon: 9:05pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
I beg to defer with the writers opinion I schooled in UK and I did see a lot of young people work and earn a living which was as a result of the way their system is runned and trust Nigerians they adapted to the system most working like their UK counterparts and even paying their fees. Why was this possible because they have a well structured payment system, there is little difference between the high ended earner working in KFC in UK is OK to pay ones bills and have a little savings, how much is being paid to people working in mr Biggs in lagos? What is the cost of living in Lagos? The total population in UK is the population of the amount of youths in Nigeria, the fact is that our employment industry is messed up and the youths have been groomed to be layed back because of the insufficiency of the employment industry. I for one do not support people without jobs living a flamboyant lifestyle, the reason being that this is possible is that our workforce system is broken. Then there is this thin about unemployable graduates, I have seen a lot of graduates who sat at home for years hustled to go abroad for further study or work and get good jobs in fact the western countries have passed laws to eject our people from overseas because they are taking all the jobs there. The question is why isn't this happening here at home? I am not saying all our graduates are top notch but what of the good ones? Also its not bad for a parent to give his child a launching pad in life some of the most successful people in the world have benefited from I.e bill gates, dangote, JP Morgan etc. Striking a balance is the key to success we should go beyond or behind board. 2 Likes |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by gnykelly(m): 10:05pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
see the number of view and compare it to Toto decay own. OP no one want the truth. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by naijafresh: 10:22pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Ezedon: And you believed that crap? So if you can't find your secondary school results that means you didn't go to secondary school? What else did PDP tell you that you believed? I am of no political inclination (all parties are the same) but I didn't believe that one bit. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by pragmatistm(m): 10:35pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
I really love the part that says: jazzy4naija:Nigerian youths of today think money can be picked on the streets FOC. SMH. As a lecturer I see such students everytime who think you should award them scores without attending a test or practical class. In their words "just help me sir". Over pampered generation. Shame unto their parents. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by Nobody: 11:41pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Ezedon: Nigwrians are synonymous with mediocrity. @topic, Only very few wealthy parents put their children through normal life to test the hard knocks. I for one will horn the skills of my kids at tender ages. By 20, my son should be a full blown architect, builder, musician, financial expert, business guru and more. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by preferred29: 11:51pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
In as much i love your writeup i want to include something , i have heard this same message by bishop Oyedepo and i hate it. Im a parent now but my up bringing was bad, my spirit was killed by my parents especially my father. He want us to be close now but its too late. Im trying my best but d past hunts. My point is this u as a parent should bring your child up in d way of d Lord and pls listen to them too dont just assume Mr & Mrs know all. My first son prefers to b with me always, y? i listened, i got closer i play with them. I dont just shut them down in d name of discipline. What im saying is that not when you lost your children during formative age now you come to say blabla. It does not work. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by Originalsly: 12:38am On Apr 06, 2015 |
blank:At least once a month. Truth is bitter. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by Craigston: 12:52am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Narcissistic parents. I, sometimes, declines from parents if I see they're breathing hard to make it. I don't expect anything from anyone. If they come, I accept them. If not, forget it. I hope to take a job soon. Lemme try something new. |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by CassetteBoy(m): 11:14am On Apr 06, 2015 |
jazzy4naija: great write-up. I definitely can relate to this. I am an aerospace engineering graduate currently job hunting. Any tips or advice you give would be highly appreciated |
Re: Letter To Nigerian Parents by bukatyne(f): 11:18am On Apr 06, 2015 |
Godson201333: This is another level bros What is wrong with a mother seeing her son off? Random checks sef once a year is still OK. |
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