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Is He Decieving Me!!! by bmoses(f): 7:45pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
I'av been dating this Guy for 9month now. The problem i av with him, is calls. Each time i complain,he alway say, he dont like making calls, that he truely love me but he cant just do the calling. He can stay up to 1-week without hearing from me and he will still b okey. To me, i av been doing all d calls and am tired of doing it all alone. am emotional weak. My friends, what do u think? is he playing on me? mature advise, plssss. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by iceberylin(m): 7:46pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
The niggaz is so #Broke.... #BELIEVE 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by dharay99: 7:47pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
b4 u ppl strtd dating, was he dsame way like ds? If yes den stop complainin, if no, den do d needful |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by bbeckky: 7:50pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
A whole week without hearing ur voice unless u call him? Babe I don't think d guy is rily in2 u. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by beycity(m): 7:52pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
You guys dont get to see and yet he does not call you .... Just move on. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by mirexxx(f): 7:52pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
i'll advise you to quit that relationship! it'll take you nowhere. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by naijaboiy: 7:53pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
There are other ways he can show he cares without calling. I'm not disputing the fact that communication is very essential in relationships but it may also be through other means. Do you people chat regularly? Does he send you text messages? Do you people meet often? If all the questions I asked above are in the affirmative then you don't really need to get worked up. He just may be that type of guy. Personally,,i don't do much of calls either but I make sure I cover it up in excessive chatting,,text messages and voice notes. So the fact that he doesn't call doesn't mean he's deceiving you. However,,if he's not also making efforts in the other aspects to strengthen the communication between you two then there is a problem somewhere. Don't get yourself too worked up for now. 5 Likes |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by Nobody: 7:53pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
[size=15pt]9 months,shey na pregnancy? [/size] |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by naijaboiy: 7:54pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
mirexxx:Seriously? |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by thorpido(m): 7:56pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
If he doesn't call,how about visits?Do you get to see often. Some guys don't like to make calls but they make up with it with visits. If he does neither and like you say,you are tired,then.......quit. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by Ab025(m): 7:57pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
@poster he luvs you but just isn't into you. 1 Like |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by Hazardd(m): 7:58pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
mirexxx:just like that.. lol |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by Nobody: 7:58pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
bmoses:I think you should give me your number.....na joke i dey oooo......but gurl is perfectly okay....you just got some works to do |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by mirexxx(f): 7:59pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
naijaboiy:yeah! trust me I've been through the same thing and the relationship went sour! |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by mirexxx(f): 8:01pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Hazardd:her choice |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by Dolypson04(m): 8:01pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
bmoses:It's so simple. Tell him to send card weekly while you do d calling. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by naijaboiy: 8:02pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
mirexxx:Yea but it may not be the same thing. Someone like me i'm not much of a "call guy" but I do other things to maintain a stable communication. Once in a while I call and we'll talk for long period of time. That's why it's advisable for her not to jump into conclusions first. Except there are other bad characteristics the guy may possess. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by mirexxx(f): 8:05pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
naijaboiy:true! |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by gateofheaven(m): 8:08pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Lols that your guy calls one special girl once in every 15mins. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by spanzed(m): 8:08pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Does he behave like that b4 u accept to date him?? |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by yomi007k(m): 8:08pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
bbeckky:Calm down b4 u misadvice person. Did u ask hoW often dey see each other? |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by Nobody: 8:12pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
bmoses: How then does he show he loves you, if he doesn't like communicating with you? (Cos that why people make calls, to communicate). I seriously doubt that love. And I think its right u doubt him too. Don't call him for one week let's see what he does. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by clemz85(m): 8:16pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
dharay99: #gbam |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by jerecrown(m): 8:20pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
He is a broke guy, still watch him |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by bmoses(f): 8:22pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
sha, he is working, so, he is not a broke type. as long as he can stay without calling me, he can also stay witout seeing me. his excuse is always busy n not a call type |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by Nobody: 8:25pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
The mumu op is not even replying you guyz |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by milvet(f): 8:35pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
bmoses:babe u neva answer all d questions pple dey ask u for here |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by bbeckky: 8:41pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
yomi007k:Wt d way she presented d story it's obvious dey don't c too often na. @least if dey c in btw d 7days she wudnt av said 'He can stay up 2 a wk wtout hearing frm me' |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by Nobody: 8:48pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
No one can tell you if he is playing you for sure the point is you have talked, there is no improvement on his part you are tired of doing the calls so stop and if the relationship dies because you stopped working so hard so be it. |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by Nobody: 8:51pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Lol..100naira recharge card to make calls isn't too much. "Excessive chatting" does not and should not replace phone calls. 1 Like |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by phlio(m): 8:56pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
am not an advocate of break up or make up.just weigh ur options and do the right thing |
Re: Is He Decieving Me!!! by champion69(m): 9:01pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
He likes you but don't love you, d relationship is still on because of ur efforts. Whenever u decides nt to call him again, dat will b d end of d relationship. In summary, he is not into u. |
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