There is a correct time for everything, and before
that, you must not overwhelm her by saying ‘I Love
You’. Here are 8 reasons why you must never say
those three words too soon.
1. It Kills The Excitement
Believe us, the best parts of a relationship are the
early beginnings where this is a certain amount of
uncertainty in the minds of both partners. Going
weak in the knees just looking at her, getting goose
bumps every time she touches you, spending nights
talking to each other over the phone – all this, once
lost may never come back. By saying ‘I Love You’,
you put a full stop to this excitement.
2. Your Obsession Is On Display
It makes you look like a possessive, obsessive,
desperate fool who wants nothing but a girlfriend in
life. If you plan to spend your future with her, she
better be impressed by your personality. Don’t
come across as an insecure guy greedy for love.
3. You Fail To See The Reality
There’s a difference between infatuation and love –
a difference only time can make clear. By
confessing your so-called love for her, you force
your mind to believe that you actually love her. Your
feelings may die down with a few more dates, but
you’d be forcing yourself too hard to believe that
she really is the one. Not just that, it puts immense
pressure on the girl too. You’re better off without it,
man.
4. It Could Lead To A Heartbreak
Like men, a lot of women too are commitment
phobic. While you may be all set to take the plunge
without even thinking about it thoroughly, it might
put the girl in question in a dilemma. And you know
how it ends when a woman isn’t sure of her own
feelings. You may end up losing what could have
been yours, had you given it some more time.
5. You’ll Be Judged
Even if you mean it, wait for the perfect time to say
it. It’s not hard for men to fall in love in just a few
days. But most women, my friend, are judging every
move of yours. You may come across as vain and
immature to a woman if you say ‘I Love You’ too
soon. This ruins your chances totally. Do you want
that?
6. What You See May Not Be Real
To love people, you have know them very closely, if
not inside out. Chances are, you were trying really
hard at being ‘courteous’ and so was she. That
might not be the real her. You must spend enough
time with your date in order to know them
personally, beyond their job descriptions and
favourite drinks.
7. It May Result In A Disastrous Relationship
Saying ‘I Love You’ could also make the girl believe
that she loves you too. And once the words are
exchanged, there’s no damage control possible. A
half baked relationship where the partners are
clueless about how they really feel and yet, commit
to each other for life is the worst set up ever. It will
only end in bitterness.
8. It May Draw You Two Apart
Once awkward around each other, there is only
little you can do to make up for it with your girl.
Even though she may go on to love you in the near
future, rushing in to commitment may just ruin your
chances. She might get creeped out by your ‘love’
and decide to move away.

I dont say those three words except when asked to.



#nowplaying. 'I Love You' by Celine Dion

true that

Love your self first before you love any other person.

Oh


I
See...

Your mouth will shrink

ronald4lif:


Ka nukwa...

Owu ashi?

ronald4lif:


Ezigbo asi. Na gwa umu asa na furu fa na anya mana onu mu ga di ofuma, ogalo shrink ohh.

Odika I wu onye Anambra.

Why do some guys say it so early in a relationship? It can't be the real thing if you say it the first week you date.

dovelike:

Odika I wu onye Anambra.

Gbam. Anambra ga mu si eje.

ronald4lif:


Even first month isn't so appropriate.

I think it's bs to say it before the first three months (honeymoon period)

ronald4lif:


Gbam. Anambra ga mu si eje.

Ok. Mu a bu onye Imo.

is this nairaland or igboland

GhostProtocol:
is this nairaland or igboland

Help me ask dem

ronald4lif:


Well, maybe. When one love they don't necessarily have to say it, their actions tell. Though saying it reassures the person but it goes more than just saying it. Those words have been seriously abused, already.

I absolutely agree. Men have abused that word for entry to the holy land

ronald4lif:




You both should calm down please.

ronald4lif:


Women are also complicit. They use it gain favours.

Hmmmmm I hear ya

Chiam55:


Help me ask dem

don't mind those igbo lovers, forbidden love

I shouldn't have told rokiatu I love her soo quickly, now she won't return my calls

ronald4lif:


Onye Imo na Yank. Biko je'be ogbodo gi ga biri.

Lol. Nsobu adi ri

ronald4lif:


Well, maybe. When one love they don't necessarily have to say it, their actions tell. Though saying it reassures the person but it goes more than just saying it. Those words have been seriously abused, already.

Perhaps

GhostProtocol:
is this nairaland or igboland

That is the worst derail ever on Nairaland.

He derailed this sensible thread for the (op) very bad.

MrBasketball:

That is the worst derail ever on Nairaland.

He derailed this sensible thread for the (op) very bad.

Very serious derailment!

This thread must be somewhere in Enugu by now, smh

shits again on this thread and move on without cleaning anus ¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬