Yadoctora:
Don't you ever ask your child to beat their mother. That is beastly.unthinkable

Herzumpther:
Lol. A friend that will die for you? I'm seriously looking for that kind of friend and i pray i find one soon. Do you have such friends? IMO i don't think a friend can die for me, maybe i will find one in another planet and not earth lol..,don't mind my jokes, i don't belive such people are still around.....at least not anymore. Good morning.

obiksam:

He said jokingly ask her

okotv:
they exist because I have found one. Good morning

Herzumpther:
With you i will say yes but mind you, i don't mean jesus, jesus 4 me is my all. Good morning. I'm gettin stronger by the day.

okotv:
Jesus has already died for us, he isn't going to die again. I actually can due for you after all my career makes me put my life on the line for the country. Good morning, Of course, you mist get stronger. Dad is back and is expected to sleep with us at home tonight

Yadoctora:


Did she take it as a joke? That is a costly joke.

Herzumpther:
Thank God. O.g.a. is coming today too.

okotv:
am so happy for you. Send my regards to him o cause his boy is always loyal.

Dheartless:

that is the point
why will she react that violently to a joke ( whether costly or not)?
beating her 3yr old daughter, slapping her husband and threatened with a weapon all because a joke was costly
to think of it, how costly is the joke?

Yadoctora:


Are you her husband or why are you so pained by my comment?

I dont care about her reaction. I said and insist that it is wrong to ask a child to spank their parent whether joking or not.

Herzumpther:
Lmao. Yes sir but soon you will have to be doing it yourself.

Yadoctora:
Don't you ever ask your child to beat their mother. That is beastly.unthinkable

Ewuro4:


I'm positive it was said jokingly but I guess she's not mentally part of the family to think a toddler will hurt her.

That woman needs Help.

It is well.

edwife:
This woman might be sick,she exhibits all the signs of a depressed individual.I don't think it is postnatal depression because she started running away right from the beginning of the union.

Something is definitely wrong with her but in a country like Nigeria,it is difficult to see that.

You better find this woman help before she end up harming those little one.

duduade:
Why is it only you that have friends who have marital problems like this..?

obiksam:
She have finally sue her husband to customary court after abandoning him and the kids after a year plus demanding for desolution of there marriage, refunding of bride prize, custody of the kids packing of properties and car. Please kindly comment an advice to my friend he have gone for first hearing but the only question his wife and she comfortably tell the chief judge that she dose not want the marriage she came with her father and that she have gotten a private job in lagos and hv two bedroom apartment. Pls dose customary have jurisdiction to Handel this case when they did white wedding but did not do court marriage? I believe that there is some thing wrong with her wife and family. After one year she just manifested from no were demanding for children you don't even no how they where. God forbids bad thing.

Allioluwasegun:
I think the problem is more of spiritual than physical so it is not ordinary.The man has to arise in prayer and fasting for the wife so that God can deliver her.

asadike:
3 things are involved here. 1st,she has a lover somewhere or 2, she is using that as a way to get back at him or 3. She is taking too much from d man and needs solace somewhere else. In view of this, I think u are both wrong a


Beeing friends or playmates in marriage doesnt come easy. It takes fear of God and divine love for that to happen. Its more difficult when the woman have victim mentality. Pray God to give a partner you will truly love and be submissive to.

Above all, a marriage is working or not lies more in the hands of the woman - Proverbs 14:1. Many go into marriage for marriage sake while others prepare themselves to be good wives. So make yourself ready - Proverbs 31:10 to end





nd need to see a marriage counsellor if you can't talk things over. How can u ask your 3yr old to spank your wife? What are u teaching her? What does communication look like between u and your wife? You guys are not just married, your wife should be your best friend, playmate, lover, confidante and your sweetness. You guys should confide in each other. If she comes back, Pls get a church leader to talk to her or even a functional umuada. Pls, I know am not married yet but I don't believe in divorce,your kids deserve to be taken care of by both of u. Try and find out d root cause of your problem and settle amicably. I wish u d best.

asadike:
3 things are
involved here. 1st,she has a lover somewhere or 2, she is using that as a way to get back at him or 3. She is taking too much from d man and needs solace somewhere else. In view of this, I think u are both wrong and need to see a marriage counsellor if you can't talk things over. How can u ask your 3yr old to spank your wife? What are u teaching her? What does communication look like between u and your wife? You guys are not just married, your wife should be your best friend, playmate, lover, confidante and your sweetness. You guys should confide in each other. If she comes back, Pls get a church leader to talk to her or even a functional umuada. Pls, I know am not married yet but I don't believe in divorce,your kids deserve to be taken care of by both of u. Try and find out d root cause of your problem and settle amicably. I wish u d best.