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I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 6:06pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
I need ur advice ppl. I'm goin tru a vry rough financial crisis ryt now as a result of a project I vowed I must complete. D truth is, my parents dnt knw abt ds project, I'm scared of lettin dem knw, esp my Dad. He'll nt encourage me @ all. He will always say I shld face my studies cuz dtz my only biz in lyf ryt nw. He luvs controllin my lyf wtout listenin 2 my reasons. We dnt really communic8 bcs I grew up in fear of him. My problem wv him ryt nw is abt my lil sis. Shez d last child n a teenager. She gvs srs teenage wahala, esp 2 my mum. Usually, wn drz an ish lk ds, I'll ask my parents 2 send her 2 my hostel so she'll stay wt me durin d hols 2 avoid all dz juvenile wahala, bt ds tym, bcs of my project, I refuse 2 let her come. She'll b a liability 2 me n dtz wt I'm tryin 2 avoid bu my Dad dznt understand. He hung up d fone on me, I dnt knw wt 2 do. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by thorpido(m): 6:14pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
What really is the project?You dey camp man for house? There is a way to get along with parents except you choose to be rebellious.Parents usually have the best interest of their children even if they are not right about some things. If you say you've got issues with your dad,how about your mum?You can't confide in her too? I want to believe if your sister is sent to you,your parents should give you or her extra money to take care of her. All in all,you refusing her raises suspicion. 2 Likes |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Nobody: 6:15pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Financial crisis? 1 Like |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 7:06pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
thorpido:LOLZ! D project is an investment biko, nt campin any1 @ home. Yea, extra money, bu ds investment is more imp trust me |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 7:08pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Shezhawt:Yeah, d biz is takin up all d money. |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by 5minsmadness: 7:20pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
yhusiee: What kind of language is this 19 Likes |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 7:21pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Huh? |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by chiboyo(m): 7:24pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
@OP, do u mind writing something we can all read and understand? 7 Likes |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Nitefury: 7:27pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Christ... @op speak (write in) English please... Only then would you have communicated.. 6 Likes |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by MARKone(m): 7:28pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
yhusiee: He is asking why are you writing like that. How old is your sister, you can send her to come and stay with me. 1 Like |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by thorpido(m): 7:30pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
yhusiee:The project is important but family too should be.What I would suggest is that you still take on your sister while at the same time pursue your project with whatever extra funds you have.It's not like your sister will be there for months? 1 Like |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Dioxidane: 7:31pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Nitefury: I was about saying the same thing... BTW, we are still waiting for you o... The Cartel tinz... Nice work! Ama big fan! |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Nitefury: 7:45pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Dioxidane: Thanks sire... **Blushing** Typing an update currently.. Just took a break to surf around |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by klark3: 7:46pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
yhusiee:Your abbreviation made your post incoherent. Be dat as it may, why did u vow to complete? & hope d project is worthwhile? Because things done covertly don't usually end well. I will advise u to 既是不是啊呀我不是不是否定量体裁衣服, and 我在于是不是不仅代表现出现代化妆品牌价值. I used chinese because of your moniker, hope u understand it. |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 8:18pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
klark3:LOLz. i understand Chinese, u no need stress |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 8:20pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
MARKone:Shez a srs minor biko. 14 |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by MARKone(m): 8:30pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
yhusiee: you how old are you. |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by BluePearls(m): 5:55am On Apr 14, 2015 |
I admire forward thinking ladies, and to think you are taking this kind of initiative at this early stage of your life is really commendable. Sometimes you just have to make some sacrifices in order to achieve certain objectives, even if it means keeping your loved ones in the dark. If taking in your sister might jeopardize that, i'll suggest you keep it that way until your aim is achieved. I had a difficult father like yours, getting through him was almost impossible. The way i see it, your dad can only accord you a lot more respect if he sees a certain level of maturity in you. which means you have to try everything to make sure the investment/project works out. If i may ask, why are you keeping this whole project thing so hush-hush? oh, one more thing, i assume you are learned, why not write better and plain English (not abbreviations) next time. Good luck. 4 Likes |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Nobody: 8:22am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Op I want to know which investment are you talking about here. if it is something that involves partnership, please run and never look back. clarify on the investment, so that i will advise you properly 1 Like |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 9:37am On Apr 14, 2015 |
BluePearls:Hush-hush cuz I dnt wnt my Dad 2 knw. He is 2 caring of us d kids such dt he dznt wnt us 2 hurt in any way bu he is over doin it. My mum knws a lil abt it tho. I'm jst tryin 2 b kful. |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Yasher: 9:39am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Family is the most important my dear. One thing I discovered is that, no parent will deliberately want to hurt their children. Everything they do, is to secure their kids which of course is their responsibility. It is unfortunate though that some parent don't know an easier way to do this. That's why they tend to be controlling. I'll advise you to open up to them and make them see reason with you. If they refuse, put your investment on hold. God honours those who honour their Parent. 2 Likes |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 9:40am On Apr 14, 2015 |
intbizoil:I knw wr ur comin frm bu trust me, I'm in my ryt senses. D investment is a personal tyn, I hv ds mentor lady who is in2 it n tries 2 help me wn I need it,@ no cost BTW, dts basically all. Av no partners. |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Dheartless: 9:50am On Apr 14, 2015 |
you need patience, it shows in your writings. be patient with your parents, in no time you will be in control of almost all your dealings. take your sister in if your dad insist, tell him to send cash along side that you don't have enough, keep your project as secret as possible from your sister. that's all folks. 1 Like |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 9:59am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dheartless:Y dz evry1 tnk drz smtyn wrng wt d way I write!!! |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 10:00am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dheartless:Y dz evry1 tnk drz smtyn wrng wt d way I write!!! I mean, u all can read it, cnt u? |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Dheartless: 10:02am On Apr 14, 2015 |
yhusiee:what did you say/write? please explain.... |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 10:04am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dheartless:Really? |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Dheartless: 10:08am On Apr 14, 2015 |
yhusiee:I know the word "really" that is a good development, keep it up, in no time you will be in control. just be patient. 9 Likes |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by DAF15: 10:13am On Apr 14, 2015 |
yhusiee:corrected op please proof read your project carefully |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 10:30am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Dheartless:LOLZ. Go joor! |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by Dheartless: 10:37am On Apr 14, 2015 |
yhusiee: |
Re: I Said "NO" To My Parents!!! by yhusiee(f): 10:40am On Apr 14, 2015 |
DAF15:Now, ur wt I call a perfect gentle man. Tnku #courtesies# |
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