Arranged marriage or love marriage which one do you prefer and which one last longer in your opion? well I am sure love marriage is a big hit for most people, but sometimes we choose partners who are physically attractive to us. Physical attraction creates strong emotions, which we might think is love, but it really is just infatuation. During this passionate stage, we overlook the other person's flaws and habits, because we believe that we are in love, and love is all that matters. Then reality strikes, the infatuation wears off, and we start to see the flaws and we get annoyed by the habits. on the other hand in arranged marriage, you may not like the person at first but as time goes by you begin to create love for the person.

Love marriage all the way for moi!!

I knew it all the girls will say that

Wetin be arrangy marriage, shuo? In this day and age? Na dem sabi.

Dread arrangee marriage like a plague o, my bros and sis. They never last because they were not meant to be. Make the choice yourself even if it is a wrong one (God forbid) .

arranged gini? unless someone is willing to die of rat poisoning

i rather be single for the rest of my life than do arranged marriage for the rest of my life lol

Right now . . . anyone will do

as long as d guy fits into all my criteria, love will flow later

Love marriage

Tgirl4real:

Right now . . . anyone will do

as long as d guy fits into all my criteria, love will flow later

Tgirl4real:

Right now . . . anyone will do

as long as d guy fits into all my criteria, love will flow later

^{*Submitting application ASAP!*}

LOVE Marriage.

I wanna marry base on LOVE!!

Does anyone mind defining what is meant by Love Marriage?

I watched 20/20 last night and they talked about marriage. Only 5% of arranged marriages, at least in India, end in divorces, while 50% of "love marriages" end in divorces.

Just a thing to think about.

theopops:

I watched 20/20 last night and they talked about marriage. Only 5% of arranged marriages, at least in India, end in divorces,

would you divorce if you knew your parents will kill/disown you if you left?

Think about that.

Tgirl4real:

Right now . . . anyone will do

as long as d guy fits into all my criteria, love will flow later

Why all of una dey shine ya eye. I prefer if a trusted and matured person arrange my wedding based on the standards we both know of already. Love will certainly flow later.

_{Debosky, let's see the application na, but u need to submit it to the person doing the arrangee}

Maybe arrangee marriage is the way to go sef. Saves one all the bloody hassles of dating.

spikedcylinder:

Maybe arrangee marriage is the way to go sef. Saves one all the bloody hassles of dating.

u can say that again girl

Arrangeee?

MrCrackles:

Arrangeee?

If the good lord can arrange you for me now, ehn ehn.

spikedcylinder:

If the good lord can arrange you for me now, ehn ehn.

LOL

Arranged Marriage.

Sisi Jinx:

Arranged Marriage.

So you know a thing or two about arranged marriages and you have been doing anyhow since. Where is my husband?

spikedcylinder:

So you know a thing or two about arranged marriages and you have been doing anyhow since. Where is my husband?

Rotflmao!! Check now. . .


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There is nothing in the books which states you can't have love in an arranged marriage, the only difference is. . . it is does not overshadow everything else.

Sisi Jinx,

Me sef dey wait o. Na better guy make u arrange o. Mail me for the criteria

Tosin abeg go and sleep. I have taken all of Sisi's brothers (and cousins too).

you sef go sleep too

spikedcylinder:

Tosin abeg go and sleep. I have taken all of Sisi's brothers (and cousins too).

Only u

This na naija o, we no dey India

Anyway, I no want any of sisi's brothers, I want a handsome, rich, intelligent, young, tall (not like NEPA pole o ), dark Nairalander

Anyone fitting this criteria should submit CV to Sisi jinx ASAP

Yes . . . I forgot to add, he must be a BORN AGAIN christian o, not just a church goer [size=4pt]I know 99.99% are disqualified already[/size]

Hehe!!

Lurvv marriage!