white wedding or traditional marriage which one do yo prefere?

The traditional wedding, it's a whole lot affordable.

Traditional marriages rock my boat anyday,anytime.

I'm bored at and rarely attend the so-called white weddings.what makes it 'white"?whose culture or identity is that?whats its origin?

no preference.love both!

Traditional, court and white wedding. Mr. B had better be prepared.

In my own understanding both are good for the couple.

1. Traditional Wedding Protects the Man interest, even though the man do spend alot of money doing it. In Traditional Wedding the woman did not have any say or belonging in the property of the man.

2. White Wedding Protects the Woman interest, The woman has more right in this type of of marriage.

who cares which one just get married

can't i just have a simple marriage, i dunno if it should be traditional, or modern, or court,

Traditional wedding does it for me anytime anyday

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In my own understanding both are good for the couple.

1. Traditional Wedding Protects the Man interest, even though the man do spend alot of money doing it. In Traditional Wedding the woman did not have any say or belonging in the property of the man.

2. White Wedding Protects the Woman interest, The woman has more right in this type of of marriage.

Traditional wedding is the main thing, you can go with your wife/hubby when dowry is paid.

White wedding is the useless, and waste of money.

Dowry is paid in Islamic marriage,without it,the marriage is void.

Traditional all the way

OPTION- C (both)
Make I no fool myself cos na d two dey wait me.

eghost247:

who cares which one just get married

Both, If you can afford it.

I prefer traditional wedding. So much display of culture

Don't want to hijack the topic, but I have no clue about these types of wedding. I do know the implications when a court wedding is broken (divorce), but what would be the implication if a traditional wedding is broken? (divorced status too or just separated??) - Is there any legal issue done with a traditional wedding? (Above it is mentioned it has benefits for the man)

all of the above

Traditional wedding all the way.

Both! and the beauty of this is that these days, a couple can do the two the same day but if I was really forced to choose it would have to be the traditional one because everywhere in the country a marriage is considered legal once the bride price has been paid - it's so important that it can be done in absentia where the couple is in diaspora.

Traditional Marriage.

It is the only type of marriage recognized by God in the Bible. I wonder where, when and how Church Wedding became a part of Christianity and Christian doctrines. Folks, read your bibles and don't believe what anybody tells you, they are all false teacings.

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Ladies, be careful what u wish for, though traditional weddings are more homely, less expensive and recognised by your locality, it should be noted that

1. It recognises the man as superior to the woman cos she was bought with a price rather than they being partners.
2. It allows polygamy unlike other forms, hence your hubby can always take multiple wives once he feels like and if he mistakenly impregnates ur househelp or any stray slut, he could be forced to marry her by tradition against your will.
3. It allows divorce easily for even very thrival reasons and doesn't mandate any settlement for the woman even if not her fault
4. The man's property still remains his and his family's own and they have the rights under customary laws to kick u out for some unfair reasoins once he dies.
5. Traditional marriages are not recognised in the international community, hence giving the man a right to marry an oyinbo lady outside which becomes the legal one even though u were there for several years.
6. Some of them involve some fetish rituals, libations to gods or fore-fathers, this unknown to many have some very strong spiritual conotations which later come to affect the family in future.

So if you have to choose, b wise or rather top it up with a more protective form

ifyalways:

Traditional marriages rock my boat anyday,anytime.

I'm bored at and rarely attend [b]the so-called white weddings.what makes it 'white"?[/b]whose culture or identity is that?whats its origin?

But it was not the English people who named it white wedding, i'm 99% sure it was an African who used the phrase white wedding for the very first time.

It is not just about that day, it is not just about 'getting' married but 'staying' married, it is not how ,but how well! hmm,

Traditional. WHen i get married I only want a traditional marriage.

Any one my hubby-to-be chooses. If he throws the ball into my court; i choose a simple traditional and court wedding. Dowry is being returned now since daughters re not for sale. Who says i cant wear wedding gown for my court wedding which is what church wedding entails.

Traditional marriages does not protects the woman's interest, since most African traditions permits polygamy.

AJJ:

Any one my hubby-to-be chooses. I

so we were just having this conversation today (not about our marriage o) . Talking about compromise.

I think in anything, I should get to decide this.

I dont care about white weddings, tbh. I want a traditional wedding, with a pastor and a court certificate, etc. Anything that makes it legal and makes sure that I get half of anything (incase he fcuks up).

But traditional wedding is the only one that matters to me.