naijaboiy:
[b]One thing I have concluded in this life is to never allow any woman to blackmail me emotionally.

I mean like WTF?!

You cheated on her,,okay fine. Now you're back together and she's trying to make things hard for you.

She wants to make you not to be able to forgive yourself for what you did to her.

But she's plain stùpid and childish.

Nobody deserves the right to make you Un Happy in this life no matter what happens. As long as you were sincerely sorry for your past deeds. Trust is a very hard piece to get back when broken,,i know. But you don't pay back evil with evil.

The signs are written clearly on the wall like the message to daniel in the bible. That relationship is just a "ship" that has capsized long ago.

You need to break up with her and move on. For your own good.

The mistake many guys make is to be scared of losing a girl.

That's bullshit!

Everything is just a temporal feeling. Lose that girl today and see yourself bounce back up in a couple of weeks.

Don't be too stùpid.

Use your head,,Man up and walk out of that capsized ship.

And make sure you don put yourself into such a situation in your next relationship.

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Thanks NAIJA boy...one love man..

Some things when broken, can never be fixed.

Blue pearls...thanks..

love is blind true true...

I don't think i can fall in such kind of love

wait sef ve ibeen in love before...i guess no..mayb jes lik and care type of rela..

Oga OP...i guess u shud tryb and control ur love and emotions...such typ of rela dn work...

I cnt cum and go and die for any girl

my bros y u still dey learn work till now?after I don spend time teach u plenty tins abt woman ish

the problem we have with relationships in Nigeria is openness and communication.

your gf is pissed off at you its so clear but the problem there is why wouldn't she tell you how she feels. let you know how hurt and betrayed she feels instead of trying to hurt you back.

I feel you should talk to her tell her how sorry you are about what you did. even if she doesn't want to talk force her to listen to you. express you emotions, tell her she's hurting you. then if she still feels reluctant to change then brake up.

Reasons why most relationships don't last in Nigeria is lack of communication.

tosyne2much:
Bros, abeg free that babe

Even if you cheated on her in the first place, must she cheat back to pay you back in your own coin ?

The truth is, when a lady has made up her mind to cheat on you or do something nasty, she will only need you to make a slight mistake and the next thing she does is capitalize on your mistake and put the whole blame on you

**Ladies are confused set of beings and sometimes I wonder if God Himself understands them **

Dude they are no longer dating... so please note that. The fact that they had sex after the break up means NOTHING. She is not his girlfriend and now has no right over her. He should deal with that. A man who cheats on his girlfriend never loved her in the first place. All I see is just pure undiluted jealousy because she now fvcks other dudes...Simple

LogoDWhiz:
Trust when lost, can never be restored to its default state.

I'll advice u just give up on her.

Spot on!

In addition you said you love her but you could still cheat on her? Trust especially for someone like that girl is everything. You can't win this I'm sorry. Every time she remembers what you did it kicks in again. The only time she's happy with you is when the issue slips her mind but as soon as she remember? You're next to the devil in her mind.

Case in point see how you're feeling now that she's the one doing same.

Unfortunately no one really ever recovers from this. Even you, if she gives the impression she's forgiven you, you won't trust her again.

My advice to you? What really matters to you? Is it smashing? Or you really want to have someone to love?

2sex:
Dude they are no longer dating... so please note that. The fact that they had sex after the break up means NOTHING. She is not his girlfriend and now has no right over her. He should deal with that. A man who cheats on his girlfriend never loved her in the first place. All I see is just pure undiluted jealousy because she now fvcks other dudes...Simple

Alryt bro

Get a life brother. Realign ur life with God's word.

One thing I have concluded in this life is to never allow any woman to blackmail me emotionally.

You need to break up with her and move

The mistake many guys make is to be scared of losing a girl.

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Bros u bam jare....tuale

peeparty:
my bros y u still dey learn work till now?after I don spend time teach u plenty tins abt woman ish

Bros no be so na...I no play d book well..no vex for your boy...sure sir

Mistaarhlohki:


Bros no be so na...I no play d book well..no vex for your boy...sure sir

OK sit up

refreshrate:


Spot on!

In addition you said you love her but you could still cheat on her? Trust especially for someone like that girl is everything. You can't win this I'm sorry. Every time she remembers what you did it kicks in again. The only time she's happy with you is when the issue slips her mind but as soon as she remember? You're next to the devil in her mind.

Case in point see how you're feeling now that she's the one doing same.

Unfortunately no one really ever recovers from this. Even you, if she gives the impression she's forgiven you, you won't trust her again.

My advice to you? What really matters to you? Is it smashing? Or you really want to have someone to love?

I agree I cheated...but it was never meant to happen, I got carried away..

I did love her and still do....but like its said if you love someone you should let that person go...

So I'm doing what's best for me, moving on.

I have apologized, I have done that in the presence of her parents and family members cos it got big an issue.

So I accept my fate.

peeparty:
OK sit up

Sure thing boss...sure thing... Anything for your boy?

Mistaarhlohki:



Sure thing boss...sure thing... Anything for your boy?

tk 2 originality for my head

peeparty:
tk 2 originality for my head

Ok na no time...lol

Thank you all for your honest responses and plain advice

I'm very thankful

Not to sound evil, but am glad this is happening to you, maybe this way you can see how it feels being on the receiving end. got no remorse for cheats.

tosyne2much:
Bros, abeg free that babe

Even if you cheated on her in the first place, must she cheat back to pay you back in your own coin ?

The truth is, when a lady has made up her mind to cheat on you or do something nasty, she will only need you to make a slight mistake and the next thing she does is capitalize on your mistake and put the whole blame on you

**Ladies are confused set of beings and sometimes I wonder if God Himself understands them **

gbayi