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Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by faith551(m): 11:17am On Apr 15, 2015
Ask me and I'll say "Hell no"
Masturbation is very addictive, studies show that both pornography and masturbation could be as addictive as doing drugs,........ Drugs? yea u heard right . A lot of threads advice guys to jerk-off before sex to help fight off quick "off-loading of their goods" , but I think it only gets you feeling numb and defeats one of the purpose of "IT" namely ESCTASY.
pornography on the other hand has pushed guys to the limit, guys now get turned on by weird things, some don't even get satisfaction from the normal straight good old sex and push their partners to do weird things cause porn stars have painted illusions into our minds, which is in turn becoming a normnorm. In essence I think pornography has contributed to Stretching the meaning of sex over the century to house a lot of things.

Do you support or disagree? ,Nd I think reasons could be icing on the cake

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Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by falconey(m): 11:19am On Apr 15, 2015
sure it does......... It reduces unwanted pregnancy and rape.

Op these two points beat your reasons up there.
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by justmag(m): 11:20am On Apr 15, 2015
I wonder if people ask these question right after jerking off. I give it 6 hours tops. Someone is gonna ask the same ish!!

they be like

1. I jerk off alot...is it healthy
2. I jerk off alot. ..am I alright
3. I jerk off alot...cann I still make babies.

and I be like

just jerk off and kill die already. angry

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Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by dharay99: 11:22am On Apr 15, 2015
no week widawt a self service thread... angry
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by agarawu23(m): 11:25am On Apr 15, 2015
falconey:
sure it does......... It reduces unwanted pregnancy and rape.

Op these two points beat your reasons up there.
leading youths to hell since 1000bc
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by agarawu23(m): 11:26am On Apr 15, 2015
dharay99:
no week widawt a self service thread... angry
good observation
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by faith551(m): 11:27am On Apr 15, 2015
falconey:
sure it does......... It reduces unwanted pregnancy and rape.

Op this two points beat your reasons up there.
I dnt think so Bro....
Yea it may reduce unwanted pregnancy but it's addictive as well, and believe it or not this is a real problem on its own.
Self servicing also exposes you to the idea of sex, imaging becoming addicted to it and you end up around a girl alone and the urge just hit u, u might not have the luxury of spending off to the bathroom to jerk-off u know, not when you have a tastier option. So I think it can also contribute to unwanted pregnancy.
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by faith551(m): 11:29am On Apr 15, 2015
dharay99:
no week widawt a self service thread... angry


Might be true, but no knowledge is a waste.
And by the way am new here
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by dharay99: 11:29am On Apr 15, 2015
faith551:



Might be true, but no knowledge is a waste.
And by the way am new here
wlcm...
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by HighRoll: 11:31am On Apr 15, 2015
Self servicing is really a very silly thing to do, it's just a man alone in a room,hurting his dick and sweating.

For God's sake the person f*cking the por.nstar is a man like you! Why the hell can't you forget women for a while and aim on building a successful life. I assure you, you would have to start weeding women out of your life with time because you would have too many.

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Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by Kazrem(m): 12:07pm On Apr 15, 2015
There is nothing that has advantages without disadvantages and vice versa. But no matter the advantages of self service or pornography (which i personally don't see substantial enough), its disadvantages are by far outweighs them. They are temporary solution to permanent problem. That's all. You gat to look at yourself at the end and see how foolish you are.
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Apr 15, 2015
From Experience Porn is addictive you can ask starlingslimnet

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Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by faith551(m): 1:34pm On Apr 15, 2015
Kazrem:
There is nothing that has advantages without disadvantages and vice versa. But no matter the advantages of self service or pornography (which i personally don't see substantial enough), its disadvantages are by far outweighs them. They are temporary solution to permanent problem. That's all. You gat to look at yourself at the end and see how foolish you are.

Talking about how foolish the person feels afterward, we also have to acknowledge the fact that some ppl got into it unknowingly, and some accidentally, they might get carried away by their new findings that they do not give a damn about what they feel like later on
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by Kazrem(m): 1:49pm On Apr 15, 2015
faith551:


Talking about how foolish the person feels afterward, we also have to acknowledge the fact that some ppl got into it unknowingly, and some accidentally, they might get carried away by their new findings that they do not give a damn about what they feel like later on
very true
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by K9blunt(f): 2:18pm On Apr 15, 2015
self servicing is not good and to me has no advantage, for some people it's addictive for others its just a way to control their sexual hunger. but the issue behind it is that the desire for sex can either increase or drastically decrease or make some people (male) impotent. while the women can lose interest in sex all together or make her vagina lose its elasticity, and pleasure spots which can lead to broken marriages or relationships so self service should either be crushed or reduced.
pornography is as well kinder worse but has some advantages and when I say advantages, I mean, soft porn were you come across love making kind of scenes that can be safelybemulated by couples for a lasting relationships and help educate and mend matured people but thedisadvantage lies on hard porn where one comes across marathon sex, incredible positions and disgusting activities (for instance anal sex) are practiced and many gullible people fall for such falacies and try to emulate them causing problems in cases were the man wants hard sex the woman prefers lovemaking then it becomes a thorn in the relationship. best thing is soft porn should be recommended to people with low libido on sex and people with no idea on how to perform in the bedroom.


did I just type all that! shocked
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by faith551(m): 2:57pm On Apr 15, 2015
K9blunt:
self servicing is not good and to me has no advantage, for some people it's addictive for others its just a way to control their sexual hunger. but the issue behind it is that the desire for sex can either increase or drastically decrease or make some people (male) impotent. while the women can lose interest in sex all together or make her vagina lose its elasticity, and pleasure spots which can lead to broken marriages or relationships so self service should either be crushed or reduced.
pornography is as well kinder worse but has some advantages and when I say advantages, I mean, soft porn were you come across love making kind of scenes that can be safelybemulated by couples for a lasting relationships and help educate and mend matured people but thedisadvantage lies on hard porn where one comes across marathon sex, incredible positions and disgusting activities (for instance anal sex) are practiced and many gullible people fall for such falacies and try to emulate them causing problems in cases were the man wants hard sex the woman prefers lovemaking then it becomes a thorn in the relationship. best thing is soft porn should be recommended to people with low libido on sex and people with no idea on how to perform in the bedroom.


did I just type all that! shocked


cheesy
K9blunt:
self servicing is not good and to me has no advantage, for some people it's addictive for others its just a way to control their sexual hunger. but the issue behind it is that the desire for sex can either increase or drastically decrease or make some people (male) impotent. while the women can lose interest in sex all together or make her vagina lose its elasticity, and pleasure spots which can lead to broken marriages or relationships so self service should either be crushed or reduced.
pornography is as well kinder worse but has some advantages and when I say advantages, I mean, soft porn were you come across love making kind of scenes that can be safelybemulated by couples for a lasting relationships and help educate and mend matured people but thedisadvantage lies on hard porn where one comes across marathon sex, incredible positions and disgusting activities (for instance anal sex) are practiced and many gullible people fall for such falacies and try to emulate them causing problems in cases were the man wants hard sex the woman prefers lovemaking then it becomes a thorn in the relationship. best thing is soft porn should be recommended to people with low libido on sex and people with no idea on how to perform in the bedroom.


did I just type all that! shocked


Yea u did, and u definitely got ur point across
Re: Is self-servicing And Pornography Really Helping Issues? by K9blunt(f): 3:43pm On Apr 15, 2015
faith551:



cheesy


Yea u did, and u definitely got ur point across

thanks *dancing shoki* grin

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