Please i need your advice on this, There is not a week that i dont have sex. Everytime i try to avoid it
the urge comes back. I know most guys here are going through the same thing. How do i overcome this
habit because i see it as a bad one. As am growing older i want to stop some childish stuff and this is on
my number one list and i want to learn how to stay with just one girl... Please advice your Bro

Sex is good. .. Premarital or not, it's the best kind of exercise, stress reliever, and brain enhancer

Why would anyone want to stop engaging in such a necessary activity as sex?

MY ADVICE... Maintain one partner, But please continue having sex, if you really want to live a long, healthy and sane life

Pray to GOD!

Are you if marriageable age....if yes
I think it's best you get married.
On the other who are you having sex with, olosho or your girlfriend.
that will help us in answering the question more comstructively.

tosyne2much:
Amputate ur joystick. It worked for me

Lol....dat sounds like suicide...Advice rejected

ASK ME AGAIN

buygala:
Sex is good. .. Premarital or not, it's the best kind of exercise, stress reliever, and brain enhancer

Why would anyone want to stop engaging in such a necessary activity as sex?

MY ADVICE... Maintain one partner, But please continue having sex, if you really want to live a long, healthy and sane life

Na force! Is sex the only form of exercise? Why don't u recommend swimming. He wishes not to engage in premarital sex. We should respect it and advice him if you have any. If you don't then don't shove your own opinion down his throat. Whatever happened to open mindedness.

Avoid sex arousing materials like magazines, movies and conversations and make friends with people who share the same opinion and standard as yours.

vfactor:


Na force! Is sex the only form of exercise? Why don't u recommend swimming. He wishes not to engage in premarital sex. We should respect it and advice him if you have any. If you don't then don't shove your own opinion down his throat. Whatever happened to open mindedness.

Dude stop hyperventilating unnecessarily


it seems you need to have good sex more often... Your perspective is all fuccked up

I merely gave the op advice which he is at liberty to heed or ignore.... Does my comment sound to you like I have him at gun-point?

onosprince:
Please i need your advice on this, There is not a week that i dont have sex. Everytime i try to avoid it
the urge comes back. I know most guys here are going through the same thing. How do i overcome this
habit because i see it as a bad one. As am growing older i want to stop some childish stuff and this is on
my number one list and i want to learn how to stay with just one girl... Please advice your Bro

get intimacy gadgets

1) Make up ur mind to stay away from pre-marital sex.
2) Stay away from places/persons that will awaken d urge.
3) Seriously, Pray to God to help u thru d holy spirit. if possible fast.
4) Have d mindset that u are in charge/control of ur body, dat ur body is not in control of u.
5) Wenever d urge comes, keep telling urself that "I can stay without premarital sex, sex is not everything".


*I pray u will overcome this & dat my typing will not b in vain. AMEN

You can't stop.

Once you've started, forget it.

In your next life, don't start what you can't finish.

mooremedia:
Are you if marriageable age....if yes
I think it's best you get married.
On the other who are you having sex with, olosho or your girlfriend.
that will help us in answering the question more comstructively.

Am not ready for marriage for now and i have sex with my girlfriends and i use protection always.

Xplicit1:
1) Make up ur mind to stay away from pre-marital sex.
2) Stay away from places/persons that will awaken d urge.
3) Seriously, Pray to God to help u thru d holy spirit. if possible fast.
4) Have d mindset that u are in charge/control of ur body, dat ur body is not in control of u.
5) Wenever d urge comes, keep telling urself that "I can stay without premarital sex, sex is not everything".
*I pray u will overcome this & dat my typing will not b in vain. AMEN

Thanks i will try this.

tosyne2much:
Amputate ur joystick. It worked for me

so, if you don't have a "joystick"...
What do you Play "Games" with?

whizjay:






so, if you don't have a "joystick"...
What do you Play "Games" with?

Cuddling rocks my boat

MzNelly:
You can't stop.

Once you've started, forget it.

In your next life, don't start what you can't finish.

really? How do you know?

blublahd:

really? How do you know?

I read.

Plus experiences from others.

onosprince:
Please i need your advice on this, There is not a week that i dont have sex. Everytime i try to avoid it
the urge comes back. I know most guys here are going through the same thing. How do i overcome this
habit because i see it as a bad one. As am growing older i want to stop some childish stuff and this is on
my number one list and i want to learn how to stay with just one girl... Please advice your Bro

it's simple na. Break up with your girlfriend and stay single.

deejay2x67:
it's simple na. Break up with your girlfriend and stay single.

Okay

So simple
Just SuperGlue your Deek

Xplicit1:
1) Make up ur mind to stay away from pre-marital sex.
2) Stay away from places/persons that will awaken d urge.
3) Seriously, Pray to God to help u thru d holy spirit. if possible fast.
4) Have d mindset that u are in charge/control of ur body, dat ur body is not in control of u.
5) Wenever d urge comes, keep telling urself that "I can stay without premarital sex, sex is not everything".


*I pray u will overcome this & dat my typing will not b in vain. AMEN

lol. All this epistle Is useless if he is still going out with a girl. Let him not kip girlfriends period!

MzNelly:
You can't stop.

Once you've started, forget it.

In your next life, don't start what you can't finish.

lol I seem to disagree with you. My comment might sound lame unless you believe in the power of the Holy Spirit. Do you?
If you don't, i hold my peace.

deejay2x67:
lol I seem to disagree with you. My comment might sound lame unless you believe in the power of the Holy Spirit. Do you?
If you don't, i hold my peace.

I do.

Proceed.

MzNelly:


I do.

Proceed.

good. I know this brother that was a sex addict. He had girlfriends that do satisfy his sexual urge. His girlfriends couldn't keep up with the pace, so his case exacerbated to picking prostitutes. Yea it was that bad. This brother stayed clean right from the day he accepted Jesus. He later got married after some years. This is not a fictitious story. He counselled me the day i became born again.
So it's possible to 'finish what you started'
But with the help of the Holy Spirit.

deejay2x67:
good. I know this brother that was a sex addict. He had girlfriends that do satisfy his sexual urge. His girlfriends couldn't keep up with the pace, so his case exacerbated to picking prostitutes. Yea it was that bad. This brother stayed clean right from the day he accepted Jesus. He later got married after some years. This is not a fictitious story. He counselled me the day i became born again.
So it's possible to 'finish what you started'
But with the help of the Holy Spirit.

I see.

Alright then.

Thanks.

tosyne2much:
Amputate ur joystick. It worked for me

funny!

Have fought this battle once and I won..... do you really wanna stop dis?

MzNelly:


I see.

Alright then.

Thanks.

uwc

starlingslimnet:
Have fought this battle once and I won..... do you really wanna stop dis?

Yes i want to.