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I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Nobody: 9:10am On Apr 21, 2015
This is someone who has been my best friend from uni days.
We graduated n every one went hustling. I ran into him n d fire rekindled. Just few months into the relationship we found out both of us r AS and of course we can't marry for the fear of having SS.

The problem here is, he's lonely n I am too.
We so love each other like brother n sister would.
Am so used to him as I type but we can't dare to tie d nut.

What do you guys think we should do at this point, hmmmm AS is kinda disease aswear.

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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Adeyeancah(m): 9:13am On Apr 21, 2015
Are you not the same lady in love with your boss?
Now I don't believe you!

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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Nobody: 9:13am On Apr 21, 2015
Just let it go for d sake of unborn children
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Nobody: 9:14am On Apr 21, 2015
cry Ehyaa cry

Love hurts jor
Just let it slide
You'll see someone better than him
It only get better smiley
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by pwerrymansion(f): 9:16am On Apr 21, 2015
Is this guy your so called acclaimed boss u r in love with? Nne fear God oh!!!!!!!! undecided

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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by dharay99: 9:16am On Apr 21, 2015
Adeyeancah:
Are you not the same lady in love with your boss?
Now I don't believe you!

buhahahahahah grin grin
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Nobody: 9:17am On Apr 21, 2015
If u two love each other so much, then get married.
u never know what God can do smiley
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Hila12(m): 9:19am On Apr 21, 2015
Well if you plan to adopt children you could.

But otherwise, It's advisable to end the relationship. He could become your best friend you know.
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Hila12(m): 9:23am On Apr 21, 2015
EroticAngelina:
If u two love each other so much, then get married.
u never know what God can do smiley

Fair enough, but 'love' at the expense of health of innocent unborn kids is selfish.

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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Eyepencil: 9:27am On Apr 21, 2015
Which advice you wan hear again? I fit dash you our gateman that is if you are interested
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by eldnixII(m): 9:30am On Apr 21, 2015
Kill ursef na....always d best solution go ask mama patience.... angry
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Nobody: 9:31am On Apr 21, 2015
@adeyeancah in love but not dating as such I still have lience to date while I await d God sent man. Isn't it? Least d feeling gets overwhelming.
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by rawpadgin(m): 9:31am On Apr 21, 2015
pwerrymansion:
Is this guy your so called acclaimed boss u r in love with? Nne fear God oh!!!!!!!! undecided
BUSTED!!! grin

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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Adeyeancah(m): 9:35am On Apr 21, 2015
BoldJenny:
@adeyeancah in love but not dating as such I still have lience to date while I await d God sent man. Isn't it? Least d feeling gets overwhelming.

okay,mo ti gbo o o.....
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by rawpadgin(m): 9:36am On Apr 21, 2015
ur 2 threads are about marriage. well, its understandable
u re in ur late twenties so desperation don dey creep in
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Cutehector(m): 9:44am On Apr 21, 2015
rawpadgin:
ur 2 threads are about marriage. well, its understandable
u re in ur late twenties so desperation don dey creep in
by the time she reaches 35... Ehen wait wait wait... Any babe dat is AS, I no dey marry ooooooooooooooooooooo!!! Chikina!I dnt even knw why am killin myself chykn all ds babes when maybe dr genotype sef fit be SS..
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Exjoker(m): 9:51am On Apr 21, 2015
Adeyeancah:
Are you not the same lady in love with your boss?
Now I don't believe you!
How did you know the guy she is talking about is not her boss
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Cholls(m): 9:52am On Apr 21, 2015
my sister what nonsence! Why are you afraid to marry someone you love is it compulsory you have children.

See,let me inform you life in its self is a risk no one knows the future.

This life is not A-Z

My sister on the other hand if you think not having a child is a risk you wouldnt like to take then please dont marry that brother.
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by khalleb(m): 9:55am On Apr 21, 2015
my advice for is that never try to get married to him

but you can let him be your PERSONAL ENGINEER he'll be taking care of the engine whenever the engine needed to be service and aswel do the general overhauling
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by bettercreature(m): 9:59am On Apr 21, 2015
The last time i checked,you were in love with your boss
Damn!!! you are so desperate
are you that old or what?
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Ezenwa11(m): 10:18am On Apr 21, 2015
Don't try it. Cool down for Jesus. Your man is coming.
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by joseph1832(m): 10:29am On Apr 21, 2015
BoldJenny:
This is someone who has been my best friend from uni days.
We graduated n every one went hustling. I ran into him n d fire rekindled. Just few months into the relationship we found out both of us r AS and of course we can't marry for the fear of having SS.

The problem here is, he's lonely n I am too.
We so love each other like brother n sister would.
Am so used to him as I type but we can't dare to tie d nut.

What do you guys think we should do at this point, hmmmm AS is kinda disease aswear.
If I was a christian I would tell you to marry him that miracle happens, that God will take control bla bla bla.

But I am who I am. So I'll tell you this, follow your heart and your brain.... That's the only thing I can say.
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by YUNGLURD(m): 11:29am On Apr 21, 2015
Adeyeancah:
Are you not the same lady in love with your boss?
Now I don't believe you!
bursted
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by domopps(m): 9:05pm On Apr 21, 2015
Tell him and not us!





Marriage ain't compulsory!







Cheeeers
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by Mannylex(m): 9:16pm On Apr 21, 2015
Confused attention seeking lady. first you created a thread about loving your boss, then 40minutes later you created this. .. I'll pass.








Have no fear; Mannylex is here

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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by mike6544(m): 9:22pm On Apr 21, 2015
Hmm
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by ideology(m): 11:30pm On Apr 21, 2015
BoldJenny:
This is someone who has been my best friend from uni days.
We graduated n every one went hustling. I ran into him n d fire rekindled. Just few months into the relationship we found out both of us r AS and of course we can't marry for the fear of having SS.

The problem here is, he's lonely n I am too.
We so love each other like brother n sister would.
Am so used to him as I type but we can't dare to tie d nut.

What do you guys think we should do at this point, hmmmm AS is kinda disease aswear.
Never say never.

If there's a will, there will be a way.
Pray to God, listen to His response to your spirit.

Seek parental and medical advice.
There's always a way.

Above all, always be positive about life.

Finally, ask yourself the period you were apart, how many real men did you meet??
How many really loved you??
How many did you really love??
how many were AA or AS??
do you really love him or your BOSS??

Faith, Hope and love abides forever.

Its unfortunate, many don't still understand the power of (Faith, Hope and Love )
Meanwhile, Love is the greatest.

Ps: we have too many couples who are not genuinely in love, viz: we have marry couples who did not many the ones they truly love.
Those homes to just there, no spark, no romance, they just look happy facially and in public.
Money is covering up for real love.
Husbands don't feel excited to get back home, not that They dislike their wives, that spark is just not there and they are doing nothing to build it.
Spending more time with friends increases, silly and avoidable mistakes sets in, then cheating, marriage collapses or they just manage for the sake of their kids.

WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT??
if you believe in a God, just talk to Him, He will guide you.

God bless you.

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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by demmy0325(m): 11:37pm On Apr 21, 2015
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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by wheesin(m): 11:46pm On Apr 21, 2015
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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by obyrich(m): 4:16am On Apr 22, 2015
BoldJenny:
@adeyeancah in love but not dating as such I still have lience to date while I await d God sent man. Isn't it? Least d feeling gets overwhelming.

But you just you were lonely implying not being in any form of relationship.
Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by sakaguchi(m): 5:23am On Apr 22, 2015
The decision is yours to make. Marry the one you love and adopt kids, or get kids from a husband you may or may not love later.

Sometimes sha! I wonder why people make AS such a big deal. Its a gift from the almighty to save us from Malaria plague. I hope you know the probability of birthing a sickler in an AS / AS marriage is 25%? I think its a risk worth taking and not all conceptus/embryo must be born. You know what I mean.

All the best reaching a decision.

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Re: I Love This Guy But We Can't Marry by unikazzy(m): 6:51am On Apr 22, 2015
BoldJenny:
This is someone who has been my best friend from uni days.
We graduated n every one went hustling. I ran into him n d fire rekindled. Just few months into the relationship we found out both of us r AS and of course we can't marry for the fear of having SS.

The problem here is, he's lonely n I am too.
We so love each other like brother n sister would.
Am so used to him as I type but we can't dare to tie d nut.

What do you guys think we should do at this point, hmmmm AS is kinda disease aswear.
she must be a movie writer......watch out for her next story..... Coming soon

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