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Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Anyi3(m): 7:15pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Optimall: Haba I don't cheat Expecting your retraction and apology in two national dailies |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by innervoice(m): 7:19pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
People have told you over and over again that you have also played your part in the breakdown of the marriage. Ask yourself what you did wrong. It takes to to tango. Your wife also asked you if you see no fault with yourself. You obviously don't. You lack wisdom. You have a lot to learn. I have the feeling that you are the bigger problem in this marriage. The fact that you put up a video of your wife and child is embarrassing. Like someone said, it says a lot about you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Nobody: 7:19pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
golddust6000: I can't judge you nor her but personally I know how authoritative they can be..It's in them. Just handle the whole mess and get it back to normal. Many people marry for papers too,you're not the first. Just try and make it work. Wish you best 5 Likes |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Nobody: 7:19pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
fem29: My dear I tire for the guy. Only the babies milk for 4 weeks is like 50 euro. If she stays in creche, it's like 500 per month. Oh I forgot. Abeg which kin country you land wey minimum wage is 300 euro. golddust6000: What do you want to achieve.i don't get it. You don't pay rent. You married for papers You double date and still keep in touch with Sandra You don't want to pay child support for your own child. Why are you actually complaining. Nagging? You get luck N'a only nagging she give you. I for Don throw you out in the cold tay tay. Carry your Yeye dishonest attitude and arrogance dey parade everywhere . 6 Likes |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Nobody: 7:23pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Anyi3: Lol...sorry guys but nah truth im be. Most though...%99.5.. Not ALL 1 Like |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by golddust6000(m): 7:23pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Chillisauce:you don finish? okay i hear you. |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
golddust6000: I never finish. Just starting....... |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Nobody: 7:27pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
@golddust6000: Please take down that YouTube video before someone steals it. Do it for your daughter, it is very embarrassing. Who is Sandra? What did Sandra tell your wife? Your wife waited 6 months to bring up the Sandra issue, what do you think happened in March/April that might have sent her down memory lane. She said you spend more time on your phone and laptop than you do with your daughter. Why?? Why have you refused to go to the village? Explain in detail. E.g: When you stopped, If your initial refusal made her angry...... Have you moved out? Has she reached out to you since you moved out? 4 Likes |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Nobody: 7:34pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Optimall: 1 Like |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by golddust6000(m): 7:43pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:Sandra was my x girl friend, i was double dating both of them 2 years ago when we were still platonic, Sandra is not her problem i broke up with Sandra as soon as she knew i was dating Sandra. i spend more time doing my school thesis. I am doing my psychology practice during weekends, i wont be able to visit her in the village, i told her that she should wait ending of this month that i will round up with my school practice. the video is know more available. |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Shollypopzz:What kind of look is that? Please,ladies, don't give me that kind of look. |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
@OP You're not man enough! |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by dustydee: 10:44pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Chillisauce:He is in Lithuania. 1 Like |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Stillfire: 10:54pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Typical black man! He won't blame himself for doing stupid things, but blame an entire continent for the stupid mistakes he made. What you and most naija guys don't know is that you have to be emotionally invested in your relationships. Women are not stupid. You must have done something and give off some fraudulent vibes for her to bring up your ex's issue. You post a topic almost every week on NL, why won't your wife complain you are not attentive to the family and emotionally invested in it? If you really do cherish your relationship, you will do all you can to alleviate all her fears which I undoubtedly know you caused. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Nobody: 12:48am On Apr 26, 2015 |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by cococandy(f): 1:28am On Apr 26, 2015 |
OP did you honestly from the depth of your heart want to be married to her till death do you part? 2 Likes |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by golddust6000(m): 12:31pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
cococandy:Never, that is impossible. Relationship in Europe is not for better for worse, but i don't want us to break up now. |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Onegai(f): 12:47pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
cococandy: OP still needs a bed and somewhere to be comfortable and someone taking care of him, for now. He still wants to be using her to make himself comfortable whilst he is building his own life, then leave her eventually and he is shocked that she is not taking his nonsense. And worse, he expected all of us to support his fraud and perfidy. You better keep up your end of the bargain, since you knew you didn't love her and were using her. I mean, how can you say "I was looking for someone to help make my residency permanent", and "I'm not expecting us to last but to break up, but not just yet" and expect anyone to believe you didn't marry that lady because you wanted to use her? I'm glad she found out but I'm sad because somewhere there is a decent Nigerian guy who wants to marry for honest loving reasons, but guys like you make it hard for foreigners or even Naija girls with papers to trust them. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by An0nimus: 2:04pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
golddust6000: Why? When do you feel is the right time to break up? 1 Like |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by cococandy(f): 2:18pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
golddust6000:Really? So people who get married in Europe never Intend to live the rest of their lives together? That mindset is what you went Into the marriage with and I'm not surprised it affected the marriage. What you want and what actually happens are not always the same thing hence my question. If you actually wanted to be with her till death do you part but it didn't work out then that wouldn't be entirely your fault. But you didn't even want the marriage for real. ok you wanted to break up when you've become settled and stable. If really you believed all along that it wouldn't last, then I don't know what you're complaining for. She must have sensed in your attitude that you weren't in it for the long haul. You probably weren't emotionally available too. You for just tell her say Na business arrangement so that you will pay her and she will overlook anything else you do. I learned that's how some guys do it to avoid being asked to be a real husband or father when all they actually want is just a stepping stone to paper and stability. 3 Likes |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by bebe2(f): 3:36pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Can u imagine? 150€ for a month? For a whole pikin? Dat can't even feed a chihuahua and he is shouting. Well I don't blame him, just dat oyinbo too dey mum, if aliens ever come to this earth na oyinbo e go first give belle. |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by bebe2(f): 3:41pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
golddust6000: Yeahhhh I understand jare, u expect u guys to breakup but not now wey ur kpali never permanent abi? Bro pls, use ur mind na |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by golddust6000(m): 4:50pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
bebe2:Check the minimum wage in Lithuania, cost of living, before you type. |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by golddust6000(m): 4:58pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
cococandy:75% of Lithuanian couples are divorcee, What i meant about " don't want to divorce now" was that i knew that she has been acting funny since we had our baby, i went through her Facebook messages, charting with her friend about our marriage, telling them that she Thank her god that she have a baby now that time is not on her side. even she went and hide our marriage certificate so that she can divorce easily. Well she is begging me now to come back, but i wont. |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by cococandy(f): 5:16pm On Apr 26, 2015 |
golddust6000: Ok. So what's your thread about then? Do you need advice on how to go about picking up your life again? |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by justwise(m): 10:55am On Apr 27, 2015 |
golddust6000: Sham marriage gone wrong, you never loved her, you pretended just to get a paper and now she outsmart you. Bro you can't eat your cake and have it, you avoided paying fees because her, you knew how the culture is but you still went ahead because you had a plan. This is what you get for marrying a woman for anything other than love. This got nothing to do with being European woman, African women are not any different. |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by justwise(m): 11:09am On Apr 27, 2015 |
golddust6000: Yes you wanted to wait until you get your EU passport then you do a runner, EU women are smarter now. Don't waste your money going to court, you are not going to win jack, you made a mistake by marrying her for wrong reasons. Start looking for a place now and paying child support until your baby turns 16 years of age. 1 Like |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by NickiRoman: 5:47pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
At times I wonder if people ever just sit down and think,Guys like you are the ones tarnishing the image of our Nigerian brothers. You are incredibly self centered, I don't even care about you and your sham of a marriage, am only concerned about that child, the child you obviously don't care about. No child deserves to grow up in such a toxic environment, yet all you can talk about is how it's not yet time to get divorced, not even thinking about all this is affecting your own child. I Pity You. 2 Likes |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Ewuro4: 7:45pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Thread owner banned from his thread eh? You go hear wen, I told you to shut up and stop opening your yansh. Even the NL time travellers will advice you join. |
Re: My Nagging European Wife. by Rickywowoz: 9:09pm On Jun 30, 2015 |
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