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Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Nobody: 6:24am On May 11, 2015 |
frank317: I like reading manga a lot...and I came across one manga where one of the characters....a rather well endowed woman, asked (in a painful voice)...Why doesn't anyone look at me in the eyes.? Kind of enough reason why lusting after women isn't good. A woman is not just a pretty thing. She is....a person. Lust takes that away from her. (As an example of how lust can destroy...go read Madame Bovary. I did...and rather than feel titilated...I felt drained at the end of the book. Very very miserable). Now why did Jesus say looking after women lustfully is bad.? (And for the record....I LIKE WOMEN! ) Because Jesus wants us to look at women as a whole...not as a means of how they would satisfy us. He wants us to also learn self control.Because.....dancing on the edge of a high mountain increases our risk of dying when we fall off. Jesus....being God...sees women differently. He wants us men to see women the way He sees them...as valued creations of the Father. Not as our servants. And that thing has benefits. Now...you are going to get married. Are you going to continue looking at other women? Would you like it if yer wife checked out the nice young handsome studs around? Occasional indulgences eh? (All is fair in love and war ha ha?). Jesus wants you to learn to think about others. Not about yourself all the time. You are not a god. You are a human. Simples. 4 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by kent79: 6:24am On May 11, 2015 |
Self service, selfless service. Which way? 1 Like |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Bonapart(m): 6:25am On May 11, 2015 |
frank317:you're a lunatic.... hv noticed ur post for long hediot i know you're don't believe in God neither do believe our supreme maker exist.... so anything you say here or do is not a suprise to us again but that doesn't stop the fact that God can still forgiven your continuous blasphemy because He's a merciful God 1 Like |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Nobody: 6:30am On May 11, 2015 |
Do not gratify the desire of the flesh |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Nobody: 6:32am On May 11, 2015 |
frank317: It isn't about the play...it is about learning the virtues of selflessness....virtues that would be of help in the long run..... 2 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by nonxo007(m): 6:51am On May 11, 2015 |
frank317:If it's not a sin then why do you hide when doing it Or when confronted with the question if you do it, you deny |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by nonxo007(m): 6:54am On May 11, 2015 |
Bonapart:Bro a Christian wont use such words for correction.. 2 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by ilenaira: 7:13am On May 11, 2015 |
GooseBaba: Thank you ojare @GooseBaba. To your question we should really add, what's wrong with our own God?. To think our fervent religious 'saviours' wouldn't even be mouthing the words 'Jesus' or 'Allah' had it not been for interaction with Middle Eastern people pushing their own historical ideologies in the first place. Na wa for some Africans o. 3 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Raysly(m): 7:16am On May 11, 2015 |
emmyw: pls tell me where its written in the bible that masturbation is a sin 3 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Raysly(m): 7:19am On May 11, 2015 |
nonxo007: stop decieving yourself why do you urinate privately? 4 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by nonxo007(m): 7:32am On May 11, 2015 |
Raysly:So ur telling me uv never urinated in the street or in a public convince where people could see u 1 Like |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by delishpot: 7:34am On May 11, 2015 |
AAinEqGuinea: LoL we all are o. Judging by those photos 1 Like |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by austinesteve(m): 7:34am On May 11, 2015 |
frank317: now see why i becomes a sin, just like u said " when u see a nice car u look at it admiringly, wishing it was urs"...now when u look at a pretty girl also wishing she was urs..do u stop at that? and probably after having her u see another pretty one u'll also whish u had her too. contention is lost here as a result of lusting...don't really have much to say on d thread but just want to share my view on ur comment . |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Nobody: 7:36am On May 11, 2015 |
emmyw:prove it like u mean it, oya, ur tym starts now 1 Like |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Raysly(m): 7:44am On May 11, 2015 |
nonxo007: that's not the point, the truth is weda masturbation is good or bad there are things in life you don't do publicly check the real meaning of the word masturbation and tell me who ever make love in the street or rather have sex in public 4 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by BOWOTO(m): 7:44am On May 11, 2015 |
GooseBaba: Jesus dies for all of us, please bro try to repent, its never too late and Hes willing to accept you..... Try my God and see the better side of life. Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Kollyk11(m): 7:44am On May 11, 2015 |
GooseBaba:I need to see the weed u ar smoking. 1 Like |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Nobody: 7:44am On May 11, 2015 |
frank317:Do not mention the name of the most high carelessly...please, lest u incur his wrath |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by BOWOTO(m): 7:46am On May 11, 2015 |
Ilovelindaikeji:One cannot masturbate without thinking of erotic stuffs, its a fact, i was once a slave to masturbation, but God has delivered me, i was created to give glorg to God, and masturbating doesnt give an iota of glory to my God. |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by BOWOTO(m): 7:47am On May 11, 2015 |
Ilovelindaikeji:My sister you cannot argue with these people, just pray for them, our God is merciful. |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by BOWOTO(m): 7:48am On May 11, 2015 |
Kollyk11: People have no fear of God. |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by BOWOTO(m): 7:49am On May 11, 2015 |
Raysly:Urine smells. 1 Like |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Raysly(m): 7:58am On May 11, 2015 |
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Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by stupep: 8:15am On May 11, 2015 |
frank317:I wonder ooooooooo 1 Like |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Dolypson04(m): 9:25am On May 11, 2015 |
plaetton:That's the level of misplaced priority in our society. 2 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Timoleon(m): 9:30am On May 11, 2015 |
austinesteve: now dis response fall my hand.....if u see a 2012 model n u admired n acquired, if d 2013 comes out, does it den become a sin to admire n want that? 2 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by nutarious(f): 9:56am On May 11, 2015 |
Well, have read from page to page all comments and xtian seems to blame atheist for what they believe but either we all like it or not we were once atheist before we became theist. I was once an atheist, and I defend my believe am not surprised by what they are saying but am a curious person and I want to match reason, logic and fact to mean a determinant for a topic. K, so masturbation..........................lets deal with it with fact and logic before we bring in morality. First why would you not wanna masturbate when u are 70-80. If u are 80 would u still wanna masturbate, some1 will say at, 70 ur libido reduces yes, but it's still there, so would u wana masturbate at 70. It's just like saying hahahahaha Hemp is good mehn, would u wanna smoke in front of ur grand children. Answering this with logic is capital No. U can see this is not religion, but logic. Now what's the difference BTW now and full adulthood, logic is that what u find amusing now will eventually become less amusing or become extinct. K, another logical angle is, looking at a car is entirely dift from looking at a Girl, while its prove that u can look at a car and want it it's not entirely true for everybody, many people eighter for they have their own car or that it's not something within their budget wouldn't even want it for they are logical they can't get it, the difference is, when u look at a woman, u first see a human but if u further look then u start seeing the features that made the woman, now psychologically u are going to get some activity in ur brain sensitive to what u viewing then imagination follows. This can never be compared to a car where all u think is I want the car that's all, but in looking at a woman and her features u set activity rolling in ur cerebral. Someone said this is normal, but most crime that has to do with sex itself dosnt start that day, the activity u set to become imaginations will build up and u have to have an answer to it for in u ur anatomical being has been griped by what u sence and that had build up. Another logic, if u leave the scene of the car then u will surely forget the car or might not lay much emphasis on it, but after imaginations of a lady features u are in trouble of a continuous probe by ur members. Another logic and the one that is contender is addiction, u easily get addicted to masturbation. Just do it once and u will know it can't be stop easily, it will get to a time it affects ones mentalty. Another logic is, since masturbation is inferior to see u must have to think in an inferior way to masturbation, first u must think of a subject or porn or lady to help u start it, this from logic is against the intent of the purpose ur organ is created for. Makes u inferior and has been the all round quilt associated problem for guys thereby causing inferiority complex. Lastly from evolution and science, this practice is found strictly in humans and not other primates shows its an abuse of nature. My point are, logically it's not something u wanna be proud of irrespective of you been a theist or atheist. How do we solve it, medically, there has never been any clinical nor well research way to stop it other than religion. So when u say Medically it's good and it says don't become an addict. Which literally means no solutions if u can't control it. 90%cant. So how does the psychological effects gets solved. Medicine has no answer other than religion. Jesus knew u won't escape this so don't even try rather u can learn self control, u could see a girl and not see her feature cos u have given urself self control. So for anybody going thru this hear me, the grace of God is greater than ur sin, so when u find urself hook try and get closer to him for Apostles Paul call it the law of flesh. Don't allow anybody condemn u, work self control out gradually and I pray God's radiant love help u do out. Shalom 2 Likes |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by chibyralph(m): 10:42am On May 11, 2015 |
frank317:May God Save your soul... Amen |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by Gracebegatme: 10:46am On May 11, 2015 |
GooseBaba:Son of man you have lifted up urself against the Lord of heaven by showing contempt to his awesome power,you are mocking God in whose hand your breath is,and through him you've come to be,if otherwise you know what this means-MENE TEKEL UPHARSIN.shalom |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by austinesteve(m): 11:03am On May 11, 2015 |
Timoleon: and u think we should treat humans ( women) like cars also? |
Re: Self-service, Selfless-service And Nigerian Christian Morality. by nutarious(f): 11:04am On May 11, 2015 |
U think this guy started in a day? Nope, it built up and he dosnt have an answer to it. So in reality it makes him inferior. Such is Masturbation, medicine don't have answer for it if u got addicted then how do u liberate urself. Self control. Shalom
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