She said her neighbour is gettin married dat wat is my plans for her, ever we since we started datin she neva pop up dis question,sometimes I do bt she neva respond properly,I was surpised when she asked me dis same question 2day,pls note we both are in our 30s,gradutes and also have got a job,I love her and my plans is for us to get married as we sail along,Guys if u were in my shoe wat would u tink or rather say to her?

is she her neigbour?

She's in her 30's and you are still planning? . . . please don't kill that girl's time ...

just tell her d stuffs u typed up there

shekina

Belle is wat u are thinking bros I lie? Maybe she wan push belle come

Bros abeg u wicked! U r plannin to marry her in ur 30s. There is God...

Just tell her!

johnydon22:
She's in her 30's and you are still planning? . . . please don't kill that girl's time ...

Pls note am nt wastin her time we both already knw we are gettin married am nt like oda guys who aint got conscience jst suprised she asked me dis same question I do asked her and she neva respond properly,however she has been informed dat she is my first and d last I wish to spend d rest of my life with nw and 4eva.I love her so much.

Tell her u want her to be the mother of ur children
Tell her you want to share everything in this life with her

And watch her smile

jayedu108:
She said her neighbour is gettin married dat wat is my plans for her, ever we since we started datin she neva pop up dis question,sometimes I do bt she neva respond properly,I was surpised when she asked me dis same question 2day,pls note we both are in our 30s,gradutes and also have got a job,I love her and my plans is for us to get married as we sail along,Guys if u were in my shoe wat would u tink or rather say to her?

op hasten up. When girl don begin ask that kind question then there is an alternative around the corner.

jayedu108:
Pls note am nt wastin her time we both already knw we are gettin married am nt like oda guys who aint got conscience jst suprised she asked me dis same question I do asked her and she neva respond properly,however she has been informed dat she is my first and d last I wish to spend d rest of my life with nw and 4eva.I love her so much.

I suggest you should try making it clear to her what you really want at least start from engagement then work up to the promise land..

cus bro you and i know a girl in her 30's is already on her peak and will start descending soonish. . show her bro no need telling her with mouth anymore

richidinho:


Tell her u want her to be the mother of ur children
Tell her you want to share everything in this life with her

And watch her smile

its not about telling her, its about showing her by doing the needful... its obvious her friend's marriage made her have a rethink... so i think we all understand her plight.

its about doing the needful not saying it..

johnydon22:


I suggest you should try making it clear to her what you really want at least start from engagement then work up to the promise land..

cus bro you and i know a girl in her 30's is already on her peak and will start descending soonish. . show her bro no need telling her with mouth anymore

Yes dat want I intend to do planing to start off with the engagement dis year and introduction,though her mum already knew me and sometimes advised me the last time I visited her,that I should take her daughter and treat her like my own sister and also encourage me to be patients wit her in terms of if she misbehaves etc.am planing towards dat but u no nijah economy is nt dat smiling bt wit God by our side we will scale through and she is also d understanding type though.

jayedu108:
She said her neighbour is gettin married dat wat is my plans for her, ever we since we started datin she neva pop up dis question,sometimes I do bt she neva respond properly,I was surpised when she asked me dis same question 2day,pls note we both are in our 30s,gradutes and also have got a job,I love her and my plans is for us to get married as we sail along,Guys if u were in my shoe wat would u tink or rather say to her?

Mr. Man u need to have a plan for her. if u dnt hav a plan strt planin, nw else things will get worse.

Amalade7:
Mr. Man u need to have a plan for her. if u dnt hav a plan strt planin, nw else things will get worse.

We already have a plan bro tanks for the advice anyway.

What a question??

Harbosede02:
What a question??

if u have gotten notin sensible to say pls step aside I dnt mean to be harsh,bt dnt want kids derailing this thread wit no meaninful comment tanks.

jayedu108:
if u have gotten notin sensible to say pls step aside I dnt mean to be harsh,bt dnt want kids derailing this thread wit no meaninful comment tanks.

sorry.....what's ur definition of kids??

Harbosede02:
sorry.....what's ur definition of kids??

Ur comment explains that!

Pour her ur mind, she ain't getting any younger neither are u....

I think she needs something 2 hold on b4 she go gaga

jayedu108:
Ur comment explains that!

believe me when I say ur topic explains it better...... Don't console itself by calling me a kid,cos ur topic or thread explains the definition of who a kid is better...the fact u are in ur so-called 30's doesn't mean u should play Mr mature card with me.

jayedu108:
Pls note am nt wastin her time we both already knw we are gettin married am nt like oda guys who aint got conscience jst suprised she asked me dis same question I do asked her and she neva respond properly,however she has been informed dat she is my first and d last I wish to spend d rest of my life with nw and 4eva.I love her so much.

guy! if you Had told her what you said in d last part of your reply above why will she ask what your plans are? nairaland sef!......

tupem:
guy! if you Had told her what you said in d last part of your reply above why will she ask what your plans are? nairaland sef!......

Bro u takin as if u neva dated a lady b4,u no sometimes dis ladies already knew dis bt sometimes dey pop dis questions as a reminder,dey jst want to be sure u haven't changed gear!

Tell her your plan for her is of good and not of evil..

masterchi:
op hasten up. When girl don begin ask that kind question then there is an alternative around the corner.

you are a thief! Why? Because you just stole the word out of my mouth,hehehe...@Op,masterchi has given you the best answer already,just hasten up!

Follow Richidinho and Masterchi's comments/advice. They just told you the simple truth.

yhusiee:
Follow Richidinho and Masterchi's comments/advice. They just told you the simple truth.

Noted.