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Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by jadelyn007(f): 9:28am On May 06, 2015 |
lezz:Good thing you seperated the wheat from the chaff but, I can tell you if you conducted a nairaland poll right now, 97% will never want to be associated with him while the other 3% who wouldn't mind having him might do so because he is rich or she is very desperate. My advice to you, do not let any lady torture you in the name of testing you, if she doesn't trust your genuity and sincerity, then she doesn't have any business being with you. Same goes for you, do not torture any lady in the name of testing them. If you don't trust her enough to be sincere with her emotions for you, then its stupidity to be dating her. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by boykas(m): 9:31am On May 06, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu: can u quote what he said wrong for u to call him a demon... 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by boykas(m): 9:37am On May 06, 2015 |
masties2: no 2 is likely to happen 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 9:37am On May 06, 2015 |
boykas:I believe you have the gift of sight. He felt he lost control of his doll baby,so the only alternative is to maltreat,hit and batter her and the woman came begging. Is this how your father treated your mother? He will practically do the same thing,if his wife goes back to her old ways. Besides,he also sees women as subhumans and mere objects that should respect him even when it's undeserving. Anu ohia! 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by NumberOne2(m): 10:09am On May 06, 2015 |
netsurf: I have learnt to judge any matter by first hearing the opinion of both sides. We will like to hear your wife's story. Here is my advice: I am sure there is a senior/elderly person in your family or hers or a Pastor which you both respect. Go and seek advice from such. NL cannot help you. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by boykas(m): 10:18am On May 06, 2015 |
onelife97: dude...your wife is doing the same as my wife..even if she found out that am cheating..she won't even do anything,the only thing she does is abuse and neglect. I want to take a decision and my advise is to go to her parent,for 6 month maybe she can change from there.. I was asking my wife, what's the problem and why is she always got angry everyday.and let me,know what am doing wrong. She won't answer you and the only she says is SHE DONT KNOW..this Sunday a little thing got me annoyed and we had a laps. So she said she wants to go to her parent and I need to let go and don't want het to come back until six months..and my baby is 11 months old.. Pls advise if that's the proper thing to do.. Note: I need experience person who's married to comment.. Not cuddle,play or talk to her cuz Av done a lot of things.. Thanks |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by nairalife2013(m): 10:21am On May 06, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu:from your comments, u are the one grounded by bitter childhood phenomena. Your misplaced anger and invective tongue has painted a real picture of u. Did I say u are not married. U are married na! But not every seed is a peascot. u rain courses on my wife cause she chosed to be mild and prideless. See yur life? My wife is a leader. I got what i needed. Why ee come dey pain u like this na! If it hurts u dat much Go and take a nap. Itz our life not yours. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by RealAlfranco: 10:29am On May 06, 2015 |
jadelyn007:I think you should take sometime and really read what da dude wrote. Read everything -from top to bottom. If u still don't understand,then I'm sorry. or wait... If u were referring to his earlier comment of 'battering and pushing his wife out in da rain" cos he 'feigned' anger. Then yeah,I consciously didn't quote dat part cos I won't do it. I can't feign anger,I give it as it is. Here's one thing,sometimes u won't find a whole book interesting, but jst a quote,an excerpt or a page out of it is what u need to kick on. I'm in a relationship, I love this lady to bits and pieces. I'm 21 nearing my final year in university and my future plans has her in it. Do unto others as you would like them to do to you!u know what I'm doing?? I'm letting go of myself,my ego to love this lady. Why? Cos I want to love and want her to do da same to me 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 10:31am On May 06, 2015 |
nairalife2013:Sorry about your puppet,her suppossed gentleness is just going to last for a while. Your bitter experience about your parents led you to believe you can only control a woman through torture. Ask every responsible and enlightened men how they manage their women. Women are not animals,they are not created to be controled but guided and cared for. You are just a psychopath on the loose. Your wife is a leader,when she is supposed to be seen not heard? Your wife is a leader,when she has no right to express her emotions in your presense? Tufia kwa! Am not bothered about you and your pussy cat. Am bothered about the naive guys that will read your trash and believe that women are supposed to be dominated before they learn to respect a man. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ralphlauren(m): 10:31am On May 06, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu: Honestly, that dude is SICK Thank goodness he's "married". It's reassuring to know that my female friends are safe from psychos like him. His so called "wife" must have low self esteem or she came from a very poor home and she depended 100% on him financially to see her through school, etc. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by nairalife2013(m): 10:33am On May 06, 2015 |
jadelyn007:no matter how desperate the woman could be, she couldnt hav passd my observation without breaking down to her realself. Some women are what the are. U are what u are, thatz why u are bitter and red-eyed. U are a lady, calm down yur eyes are not supposed to be as red as yur cun-t innards. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 10:36am On May 06, 2015 |
nairalife2013:Your wife is the cun-t here. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by nairalife2013(m): 10:47am On May 06, 2015 |
Battering doesnt always mean bludgeoning, hitting, wounding and mutilating. It could mean more or less than that. Those dat hav discerning minds and comprehensive spirit know what I mean. But I will take pains to respond to every rejoinder, be it malicious or lenient. We are learning, especially those kids quoting me with peurile glee. Keep it coming... 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by nairalife2013(m): 10:48am On May 06, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu:hahaha. In yur narrow mind, am calling u a cunt. Hmmm.So much u dont know. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 10:55am On May 06, 2015 |
nairalife2013:There is only one definition of pushing and battering. Any other defintion is medicine after death. Am glad most men don't believe your nonesense. You didn't just stop at that,you are practically controlling her and her existence. You told you that your gifts and cars make her happy? Coward! |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Etetejake(m): 10:55am On May 06, 2015 |
netsurf: is she the bread winner? |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 11:00am On May 06, 2015 |
nairalife2013:You referred to jadelyn007 as a cun-t. The full implication is that she has no right to be angry cos it will make her as red as a **. Your words alone are just trashy and repulsive,that shows how messed up you are. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Nobody: 11:11am On May 06, 2015 |
nairalife2013:your wife lack self worth and suffers chronic low self esteem. While you are a beast and a monster 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by XKZ(m): 11:29am On May 06, 2015 |
netsurf: I don't agree she's stubborn. She just likes to have empirical evidence and does not believe in acting based on opinion. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Nobody: 11:30am On May 06, 2015 |
buske: seriously, there was none...she appologise even before you found out she has done something wrong. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by boykas(m): 11:37am On May 06, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu: is this how you talk to your husband whenever both of had an argument..believe me i dont argue with woman and i wont exchange comment with you.. what have i said to have this insult..why will you called my father and mother.. you can never have a good husband with your ways of stupid self esteem. thank you 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Nobody: 11:40am On May 06, 2015 |
Paentera: I don't know if you are married or not but I'll NEVER let go of my self respect all in the name of love that is not reciprocal. It is self evident that you either have seen too much of those love stories home videos or you have read too much of the romance novels...either way, pls keep your advise to yourself. How could you ask a man to continue to live like a robot...blood flows in his veins too. Pls be realistic in your further comments. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by nairalife2013(m): 11:47am On May 06, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu:becos u lack syntax appreciation and adage understanding doesnt mean elders would stop speaking in parables. Go and take a rest then come back when u are more matured in the head and in the mind. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 11:55am On May 06, 2015 |
nairalife2013:Lol,using flambouyant words and sentence does not mean you are matured or reasonable. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by bukatyne(f): 11:59am On May 06, 2015 |
At last count, 160 posters liked nairalife's post? Single ladies have got to pray real hard. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by nairalife2013(m): 12:00pm On May 06, 2015 |
boykas:u hav to be patient with ihuomadinihu. To the subject matter, if u are already in marriage, close yur eyes to many things yur wife does. Women hav kids' mind. And u know kids think they know too much. They argue over unreasonable issues to yur chagrin and size u up subcoinciously with a midset that careless abt the natural beliefs of a Typical man. If u didnt appraise and accept yur wife's antics when u were courting, u should have peacefully sought for a resolution to save u both from future agony. See, the worst plague to hit a man is to spend the rest of his life with a wife whose feathers, like that of a peacock, stands on edge! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Ihuomadinihu: 12:04pm On May 06, 2015 |
boykas:I was referring to the saddist that wrote the initial comment. You are just one of the few men that will commend the rubbish he wrote and copy his manner of approaching women. You wouldn't argue with a women? Becos she is not worthy enough or what? At least,Nairaland has exposed the kind of men that we have in Nigeria. Pls don't quote me asking silly questions before you will claim that i insulted you. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Nobody: 12:05pm On May 06, 2015 |
Bollinger: Thanks for this but let me just give you an instance about the googling aspect to know it's not because I failed to show leadership trait. During our courtship...very early..about a month from when we met, we were having a discussion about how drugs are manufactured and I said scientist delibrately use either a dead human or live as 'guinea pigs' to test efficacy of drugs before it's realesed into the market for consumption...she shouted..it's a lie...then I tried explaining to her by giving examples of what I have seen and read...the next thing she said is untill she consult google, she cannot believe what i said. Another instance came when she developed some skin rashes which has failed to respond to so many prescribed drugs...then I said we should consider blood tonics and that she should start eating more of fruits and vegetables to strenghten her immune system...she said it has nothing to do with her blood and tha it's just a skin disease...then I tried explaining what I know about skin and the veins that supplies blood to the skin...she responded by carying her phone and before you can blink, she was already on google...that day, everything I said about the skin and her skin issue was exactly on google. Rather than become sober, she still insist that she only belives because google said so. Then it occured to me in a flash that she might not respect not only my opinion but everything I stand for. I remembered I discussed my fears with her about three days after but she said I misundertood her. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by Nobody: 12:09pm On May 06, 2015 |
boykas: God'll see you through my brother but I'm going to show this one the door if she refused to back down. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by omocheche(f): 12:11pm On May 06, 2015 |
Lol... please help ask him o. Even angel christabel will react to this nonsense he called text. He wants holy Mary for a wife na babygirlfl: 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by nairalife2013(m): 12:15pm On May 06, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu:u read a simple line upside down without knowing the crux and went straight to instigate a lady for a showdown by telling her I called her a cun-t. |
Re: How Do You Handle A Very Stubborn Wife? by boykas(m): 12:17pm On May 06, 2015 |
nairalife2013: @NAIRALIFE Believe me man. you are the best.. i understand all her kids mind.. she has never find a woman as difficult as we are.. who told her we dont listen to them, who told her we treat them like puppet. you can imagine how she called your wife puppet and still called her that without knowing her personality. what kind of woman are there in this 2015, and a lot pple giving the go ahead for her jerk... like i said earlier i dont argue with women, believe me. i argue when i loose my tamper and they loose that ordinarily. you are really a patient man ooo, ask her, if she is the man, and go out to work under this costless economic we are in and you still have a partner who called herself yur wife and doesnt give you a bit of rest, never mind your emotion how you feel, what troubles you and who still grumbles and troubles you all thru the day, but at the end the man still cuddle her and give a lot of chance that she will change. meanwhile till today as we speak, she can never change but go on with behaviour, ego/pride. I always loose concentration at work because of this.. do you think all men are happy not finding solution on thier own... you have never seen anything.. i pray she had a person like my wife her brother's wife. and she will see what they called life... 3 Likes |
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