A housewife, Mrs Adeolu Adelani, on Tuesday told an Igando Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve her marriage to Olajide for allegedly refusing to make love to her for 8 years.

Adeolu, 39, told the court she was married to Olajide about 14 years ago and had a 12-year-old son.

“My husband refused to make love to me since eight years now and I want to have another baby because our son is 12-year-old.

“I am not satisfied with only one child,’’ she told the President of the court, Mr Hakeen Oyekan.

The petitioner accused her husband of abandoning her and their child for an unknown destination since 2013.

She added that her husband had refused to disclose where he lives and where he works, but sends his son’s school fees and house rent through her bank account.

Adeolu said her husband told her pastor that he had married another woman and had children and that she should find herself another husband.

She said she was always sad anytime her neighbours call her “rejected and abandoned property’’.

She begged the court to dissolve the marriage because she wanted to move on with her life.

Defending the allegations, Olajide, 45, a businessman, did not deny of starving his wife of sex.

He said that he refused to make love to his wife because he did not want her to have another child through Caesarean section.

“I don’t want to risk her life, this is why I have distanced myself from her because I want her to take care of our child.

“Besides, I did not abandon my wife but I decided to move closer to my work place due to the distance from my house.

“I did not abandoned her, I always squat with my friends and I come home once in a while,’’ he said.

He claimed that he had no other wife nor children elsewhere.

Olajide, however, conceded to the dissolution of the marriage because he was also fed up with the union.

He appealed to the court to grant him the custody of his son.

Oyekan adjourned the case to May 13 for further hearing. (NAN)

Source: http://leadership.ng/news/431069/my-husband-denied-me-sex-for-8-years-woman-tells-court

Welcome to the WILD, WILD WEST!

Sister ur husband don discover black market be that oh

All these men and women washing their dirty linens in public all in the name of filing for divorce na wa!

Hmm

Now, who is the Liar and the Liaee?

Anyways, good for you two that you both want the same thing - Divorce.
Enjoy your single lives part 2

My Lord....do the needful!

8 years without akson.....abi oga dey fire blanks?

Even if na because una no wan make she do caesarean....abi na you wey go undergo the pain, or na your wife?

Excuses, excuses.

Why am i finding it hard to believe.

house on fire

i hate that word....DIVORCE

This allegation sounds larger than life. Me dey look for gal to service 8yrz sef.

Ok. Wat did u resort to? Selfie?

Konji is a case.

its for reasons like this we have to further stress the importance of FAMILY PLANNING. ..

Oga you can have ur desired number of children without denying yourselves ur conjugal rights!
pls be informed.

but I think dude has something up his sleeves shaa.

why she no dey cheat?

Punishment of some sort i guess...Some women are strong sha...she stayed for 8years without cheating..These girls of nowadays can't even stay without sex for one week..smh

KanwuliaJara:
Welcome to the WILD, WILD WEST!

What's the relationship between what u wrote and the post? Is everything okay?

na food

modernazation killing marriages,why couldn't she made herself attractive?

8 years of no sex.......when sum pple 'nack' almost everyday. It certainly calls for divorce.
The judge shud av told dem to start usin cndm.
*case solved*

Dear Madam, You are still single.

Edwardhead:
why she no dey cheat?

Not everyone cheat

Hell nah!

Marriage seriously is Gods own established institution......... Sorry madam am gonna be praying for u but seeking divorce seriously is laying a deck on the problem @hand not the solution

this one is strong

Just listen to the man's pathetic excuse..... I don't want to make love to her cos she had her child thru caesarian section. I distant myself from her cos I don't want to risk her life.
This man must be a foolish man. Women that gave birth to 3 children thru CS, they were superwomen abi? That he doesn't want another child doesn't mean he shld abandon his conjugal duty. If the woman takes to sleeping with the gate man, they'll call her adulterous. Oga judge, dissolve this marriage so this woman can find a real man. This weakling of a man is just using Caesarian Section as an excuse for his impotency. His John Thomas doesn't work again o jare.

Mtchew........ See these two things oh..........I pity what divorce will cause u both and your lovely unloved son

The Hubby has been tired for 8years, while getting what he needs elsewhere. He must have been waiting for this to happen. Now, he must feel free.
Thank God he still takes care of his Son anyway.
Poor woman! I hope she does not lose custody of that Son. The arrangement of taking care of him can easily continue.

KanwuliaJara:
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SMH for you.