1. The wife that wins all arguments with her
husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the home
- placing embargo and using sex as punishment -
lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of
"women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband
simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace
through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help.
A man should be eager to run away from office to
be at home, for that should be the safest and
coziest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean
competition. It simply means partnership. Taking
advantage of such equality to turn around and
become the de facto head of the home and oppress
the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you
destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an
empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he
assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that
feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the
head actually turns to wherever the neck wants
without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from
friends' influence and advice or even from the
control of her mother and father will have herself to
blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses
women of different shapes and sizes to choose a
wife. But soon after childbirth, many women hide
under the excuse of childbirth to let go of
themselves. Many stop bothering about their looks,
shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years of marriage,
people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt,
even though she is 7 years younger. Her defence is
that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way
she is, but when looking for a wife, he saw people
like the present YOU and ignored them and settled
for the former YOU. Today, you go to bed smelling
of onions.... You go to bed wearing grandmothers'
clothes. Why are you playing with your marriage?
Love is not about looks - we know. But looks
enhances love and marriage. There is a difference
between someone disfiguring herself and the
person being disfigured by an accident.
Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may be,
work on looking like you were when he first saw
you and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore, down
with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are
a joker, a serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more
important to you than your husband, you need
prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you need
to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a
stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not
excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent
and presumptuous. A wife must strive to have the
mind of a fiancee. A fiancee is always nicer,
sweeter, more loving and always thinking of ways
to wow her sweetheart; a fiancee does not try to
win all arguments, does not call the man a "useless
man", is not careless about her looks or dressing,
always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the
man sweet messages and calls, etc.
13. A woman must never be tired of praying for her
husband. You must be his most trusted confidant
and encourager.
Watch out for words from a father to his son about
marriage


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