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15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by Omooba77: 12:59pm On May 12, 2015
There is still the danger of being conned by your beautiful girlfriend who could be a covert prostitute or have a history of indulging in it. There are certain signs that must be kept in mind to identify such women , because such women aren’t really the type you should be looking for, especially when it comes to seeking loyalty in a relationship.
Her loyalties are basically reserved for the highest bidder; and if you fail to bid consistently, you’ll lose her in the end.
Even women who haven’t prostituted themselves can exhibit these traits below. Technically they may not be prostitutes, but they still have a prostitute’s mind set. Essentially, they prostitute themselves to their boyfriends or lovers for a period of time, as long as these men can afford them.
This has led to the coinage of the term ‘covert prostitution’ to such relationships where men are essentially indirectly paying for S*X. So here are some signs you must observe:

1. She despises poverty, and men who have low paying jobs:
She easily gets annoyed and abusive while dealing with poor men ( taxi driver, barrow pusher, e.t.c ). Her hatred of poverty reminds her of her own desperate circumstances at one time. Even though women are hypergamous by nature, most women don’t despise poor men as long as they are working to earn something. Prostitutes however see no ‘customer’ potential in such men.

2. She makes it a routine to request for something (maybe monetary) before giving you S*X:
This type of girls are so cunning in their dealing; when they first start a date with a potential costumer, they will give you frequent great S*X(they are very good in bed) without requesting anything in return at least for a week or less. When she has succeeded in blowing off your mind in bed (that period you start behaving like a small pikin) ,then gradually, she reduces the fun ( to make you beg for it) to a reluctant transactional chore she performs for you only when you have done something for her first (usually something of monetary value). S*X now becomes a reward in the relationship.

3. She frequently uses the word Ashawo, Slut and Love Peddler to describe her friends or women she doesn’t like:
If you have been to a brothel and observe where prostitutes quarrel or fight, one word you’ll always hear them call themselves is “Ashawo.” This is because what they do in their lives relives in their mind. She’s simply projecting onto others what she has done and has been called before by others.

4 . She openly tells you she doesn’t trust her friends around you, but still doesn’t want to leave them:
Birds of same feathers fly together. She gets upset and paranoid(ask a lot of questions) anytime you tell her you met one of her girlfriends. She is only trying to protect her money-making machine from her fellow tigers (they are all in same business). To her friends, she will be like “go get your own maga.”

5. She boasts and prides herself on her S*Xual skills and how men are attracted to her and she is also openly jealous of beautiful women:
She knows that the only thing she is good at is S*X, and she will always brag about it , like how all her exes are still calling and begging her because of it. She says all this to upgrade her low self esteem and to make you feel jealous of losing her while she milks you dry. If you are observant enough, you will also notice her envy for younger and more beautiful women whom she tries to demean.

6. She tends to be usually ‘busy’ within the week without explaining what ‘busy’ is:

‘Busy’ is the code word for booked or reserved, a term commonly used by prostitutes. A normal girl will rather tell you directly what she’s doing to postpone plans, instead of using the ambiguous, business-like ‘busy’ , when we all know she doesn’t work or go to school during the weekend.

7. She is known by multiple names to different people:

Her guy friends call her different names, or she asks you to address her by a name which is not her real name. Also: she has multiple phone numbers. If your “Chizzy” is called “Rossy” by some other guy and called Jessy by yet another, it means that those names are her work alias. Runs girls don’t want to be known by their real names to protect their identity. Multiple phone numbers are obvious: one is for personal or casual use, the other one is for official or ‘work’ (prostitution) use.

8. You happen to find stuff like wigs of several colours, length and styles in her wardrobe:
Who carries or keeps stuff like that? Only experienced professionals! Wigs are to camouflage her identity when in club house or other places she normally hangs out to catch potential clients.

9. You observe she has some tiny (razor-like) markings close to her vagina:
Professional runs girl ( just like professional armed robbers) often seek spiritual protection and prosperity in their work. This diabolical protection is mostly done by cutting a slight flesh close to the vagina, through which concoctions are inserted. Some of this works like a charm in a man once you get in, you can’t leave until you are milked dry, while some are for protection from ritualists , occultists e.t.c

10. She has a poor or average income, but she manages to afford a comparatively affluent lifestyle without family support:
Who pays for it? Is she surviving on a financial loan?

11. She constantly reminds you of the things that she’s done for you:
Especially of the S*X she provided for you. What else can she do for you except provide her ‘special’ orifices for you on demand? To her, you should be grateful for the skilled services she provides for you, since she has done a better job than what her competitors would her given you.

12. She berates and criticizes girls who date men below them in social and economic status:
You hear them say things like ‘why on earth will a fine girl like that be dating that small ratchet boy.’ Ask her, what’s her business. Her business is that it’s a waste of resources to see a poor guy digging that money-making pot for free, when there are big men out there ready to pay for it.

13. She rates men on their income, social status and influence (disregarding character):
If she idolizes rich and ‘successful’ men of questionable character, it shows where her priorities lie. A little attention from such men is enough for her to pull down her panties for them.

14. In public even when she is with you, she still keeps staring at other men:
Just as some guys (even when with their babes) still stares at other women’s butts (especially when it’s bigger than their babes), that’s the same way a coded prostitute even when with her so called boyfriend stares at other guys she thinks are richer. The only difference is that the she stares the potential maga straight in the eyes, and hoping the dude catches the gaze (signal)

15. She’s obsessed with money and is excessively materialistic:
The classic prostitute mind set: she talks money, thinks money, eats money, sleeps money. This woman can easily be seduced with offers of money, and sometimes even asks for it. She never refuses offers of cash gifts. Money will open her legs and give her vagina tingles faster than any other thing.

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Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by Nobody: 2:27pm On May 12, 2015
Made some sense.. All these rules apply to most girl or virtually all Township or city grown girls. Except some three rules which are exclusively defined on prostitutes
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by DanceVille: 3:15pm On May 12, 2015
Ok.
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by 2dice(m): 3:49pm On May 12, 2015
Hmmnn...
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by Davidson267(m): 4:40pm On May 12, 2015
Ok
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by Nobody: 5:26pm On May 12, 2015
not totally true
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by Mprex(f): 6:03pm On May 12, 2015
well said
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by loomer: 6:08pm On May 12, 2015
I no gree with number one, who no go despise poverty before?
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by Omooba77: 5:20pm On May 17, 2015
damariox:
Made some sense.. All these rules apply to most girl or virtually all Township or city grown girls. Except some three rules which are exclusively defined on prostitutes
which of the rule please
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by Nobody: 5:24pm On May 17, 2015
Girls u see una life,useless gender
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by Nobody: 5:25pm On May 17, 2015
undecided undecided
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by sparkleRed(f): 5:34pm On May 17, 2015
Really!, forgotten u have a mother ba! A sister, gf and female cousins!
No insult meant to a student of my great uniben,(Alumni)i grin

Unibenstudent:
Girls u see una life,useless gender
Re: 15 Signs You’re Dating A ‘coded’ Prostitute by Nobody: 6:22pm On May 17, 2015
undecided but guys on nairaland said they love prostitutes than virgins. ask tosyn2much

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