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Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by henryskywalker2003(m): 10:13pm On May 21, 2015 |
emeify: https://www.nairaland.com/1434785/no-longer-interested-sex-hubby Ermm..... Like someone pointed out in the first page before all the noise from these single feminists giving marital advice to you drowned it. Was this part of the reason why you separated? It will good for you to state facts here since you've already dragged the matter to Nairaland Court. At least, you'll get in some practice here before you head out to the courts cos I can see that is where you are most likely headed. And it's curious you can tell us here that the man was abusive but find it hard to give us the reason(s) for your separation. I smell something and it is not a rat. 5 Likes |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 10:15pm On May 21, 2015 |
Goodboiyy: I asked those questions because you'd do well to hear his side of the story and then decide for yourself how foolish he really is or hwo much of his folly is forgivable. Also, being a father gives you a view into the mind of your father at the time of this separation between him and your mom. Good luck bruv, hope you find answers before you do get married and begin a family of your own. 3 Likes |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by onoja12: 10:16pm On May 21, 2015 |
it should be after all he is the one taking care of them,abi is that not what you women demand for when you are taking care of the kids emeify: |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by mattonnairaland: 10:17pm On May 21, 2015 |
Divorce isn't right you guys should settle. |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by henryskywalker2003(m): 10:25pm On May 21, 2015 |
missKiffy: Lol. You sound like the kind of girl that when she marries, will simply fold her hands and sit down to eat her husband money. Ori aku di ya. 2 Likes |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by missKiffy(f): 10:32pm On May 21, 2015 |
henryskywalker2003:Ori e ko pe |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 10:37pm On May 21, 2015 |
Op, drag that negro straight to court. This is always very common among africans. Whatever issues you have with your ex should not make you use your kids as tools to hurt her. Later they will say dudes aren't emotional beings. So what exactly is the motivating factor behind this foolishness on the part of the man? What kind of hateful environment is he creating for his kids? Whether he likes it or not, those kids need to be with their mum. let him man up and settle this issh amicably. Quality of males these days is something else. 2 Likes |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 10:41pm On May 21, 2015 |
Timbuktou: yea I understand u, bt that does not give me to right to abandoned my own, my responsibility as a man, #the man calling us every December asking 4 forgiveness, saying its d devils work ( Hope this prov to u the man is nt responsible) lolz,,, |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Osama10(m): 10:43pm On May 21, 2015 |
https://www.nairaland.com/1434785/no-longer-interested-sex-hubby Women are very complex and difficult beings. Before you got married to the man you knew he loved sex so much, now you are not interested and what do you want the man to do? From my close to 10 years of experience of marriage and from what I've seen in most homes, majority of the problems comes from the women. Its a general thing that after some years of marriage the woman shifts her main attention to the kids, she looses interest in sex, she becomes unsubmissive, she lacks common respect for the man due to familiarity not even the DEEP RESPECT the bible mentions, nags a lot, some are even abusive and if the man lacks self control that woman is dead. If I were to advice you, please change your attitude to the kind you had when you were dating him and see how things fall into place.Please go back to your home, your children's upbringing should be of top priority to you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 10:49pm On May 21, 2015 |
lolababe331e: I understand hw u feel, I too felt tat way, I can't call him dady, its abnormal to me, so many commentator here do nt know hw it feels to b abandoned by ur dad... . I jst pray the OP take d child from the man, Its better 4 a woman to train a child than a man,,, I was trained by a single Woman, and I always tank God I have a mother Love u ladies 1 Like |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 11:01pm On May 21, 2015 |
Goodboiyy: Lol @ calling every december. That some crazy ish right there. I hope you guys can forgive him, though. While I don't believe in devil things, I think he must have learnt the error of his ways. Twenty years is a long time to hold a grudge against one's own parent. He goofed big time, though. I couldn't imagine myself letting go of my son for 20 days even. But who knows, his demons may have got the better of him. Feel free to do what you think is right. He may not deserve your love but, love, by definition, isn't earned . Good luck, once again. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Onegai(f): 12:17am On May 22, 2015 |
When I was saying last week that children abandoned by their parents don't forgive them and people were arguing with me (and advising a young man to leave his newborn son, that the child will "look for him" in the future). See 2 examples here. Where's the emoji for "I told ya so"? 2 Likes |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by azezola(m): 1:00am On May 22, 2015 |
Dead beat mom pay child support... good for nothing biach |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 1:14am On May 22, 2015 |
cococandy:u dey there? she no like sex any more...d man kicked her out. |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by cococandy(f): 1:24am On May 22, 2015 |
ferdimako:so because of that she doesn't deserve to see her kids? 1 Like |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 1:47am On May 22, 2015 |
Onegai:We are in the development stage...bring ur own money...person wey no fit rent house u dey shout court. Mak una see wetin most guys dey cover for una. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 1:47am On May 22, 2015 |
cococandy:let her pay up and see them. nothing normal any more...everything is upsidedown. so nobody shld expect favors. marriage means different things to different pple. 2 Likes |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 2:00am On May 22, 2015 |
henryskywalker2003:u dey mind her...na that time them know say man get responsibility. 2 Likes |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by chibyralph(m): 4:30am On May 22, 2015 |
emeify:how long have u been separated? Allow time to heal the misunderstanding....Are u a christain? Seek God if u are than seeking a mere lawyer. God bless ur reunion in advance. |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by chibyralph(m): 4:37am On May 22, 2015 |
cococandy:Pray this does not happen to you....she can settle it if she is determined....so please don't support divorce. God settles disagreements more than lawyers. |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by chibyralph(m): 4:52am On May 22, 2015 |
cococandy:You are being defiant on this issue...Are u married? If u are, pray this does not happen to you...if u are not start praying for endurance before u get married because u might leave your husband on slightest provocation. Then again, seek Almighty God, he ordained Marriage and divorce is not from him. 1 Like |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by lindiwey: 5:20am On May 22, 2015 |
lekwas: OP, You can also look for Legal Aid Council office in lagos they give free legal services to those that can't afford to get a lawyer 1 Like |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by chibyralph(m): 5:20am On May 22, 2015 |
emeify:Hey ma, how long have u been married? Are u a christain? Please, Go BACK to your family. Use your energy to get back than using your energy to get a lawyer. Invite JESUS to your home.....he is knocking. God bless u. 1 Like |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Emaprince: 6:47am On May 22, 2015 |
Goodboiyy:have you heard your father's side of the story? Or your conclusions are based on whatever your mom told you about him. Its very possible that she denied him access to his kids. |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 7:13am On May 22, 2015 |
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Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by chibic(m): 7:40am On May 22, 2015 |
Onegai:95% of them do look for their fathers(especially the men). Only a 5% willl still be steeped in hatred which was planted in them by their mothers. Women tend to tell their kids a lot of lies after seperation to make them hate the man. Unsuprisingly, daughters are mostly the ones that buy into those lies. Who on this earth will not like to grow up or know his/her both parents? 1 Like |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by chibic(m): 7:46am On May 22, 2015 |
lolababe331e:with this type of hatred for your father after more than two decades, your man must be dam.n scared of you. What story will you tell your children? That your father seperated from your mom and your mom took you people away from him, and he never bothered to come see you? Do you even know if your mom lied to you guys? Have you heard his own story? No matter what the sins of my parents are, I can't have much hatred/grudge against any of them for this long. I need to be a rolemodel to my kids and not teach them how to pay their parents back for their sins. 1 Like |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by mekstaniac(m): 8:26am On May 22, 2015 |
Sounds like u married a woman. He wants to keep the children and you have to pay half their fees to see dem. what a disgrace to manhood 3 Likes |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by ADVital: 8:28am On May 22, 2015 |
Hi there, have you done with child custody. If yes then who is the custodial parent? You should consult a child custody lawyer. When I had my divorce we appealed for child custody with the help of custody lawyer Fairfax, VA. |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by SmartKillinex: 10:19am On May 22, 2015 |
last minute u had problemx wt sex,d next minute u need a lawyer to interven into ur matter.. maleh,I no bliv sh.it u said.. try harder next time. |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 11:58am On May 22, 2015 |
emeify:the cause is the foundation of the problem and it is important. if tis just this below, why can't u express ur mind exactly to recieve help from God and Man. emeify: |
Re: Separated From My Husband And He Is Keeping My Children From Me by Nobody: 2:50pm On May 22, 2015 |
azezola: Why are you so bitter? Who hurt you? #okbye 3 Likes |
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