Enoquin:
You'd be surprised at some mothers. Once, when I went to help in cooking for my association; a 11 year old girl crossed to where we were to watch us especially as she was friends to the children to one of us. She looked big for her age and wore a pink night gown, this was about 3pm in the afternoon. Underneath the nightie, her budding breasts could be clearly seen plus the white pant she had underneath.
I complained to the older aunty since she seemed to know the child.
Her reply "That is an innocent child that knows nothing. If you tell her to go and put something on, she might have her mind spoiled. She is just 11"
My reply "There are not just females here and around. Any young man could get bad ideas and that's what we should prevent"
The aunty shrugged in reply and I let it slide.

irunoko:
As much as that outfit should not be worn beyond her sitting room any man lusting after her popping brez and pant should be referred to yaba left

Enoquin:


True but we know how insane the world has gotten. Young female without budding b.reasts are getting molested, what's to spare those that are budding?

irunoko:
As much as that outfit should not be worn beyond her sitting room any man lusting after her popping brez and pant should be referred to yaba left

uboma:



Prevention, they say, is berra than sacrifice. And why wear the outfit on her even if she is to remain indoors? Is that how the parents will love to see their daughter dress when she gets older?

There's need for a come-back of morality.

kandiikane:
The fact that we even making a big deal out of this shows how fuc.ked up our minds are. It's a bloody child, the problem is with the men you are implying will get turned on by this, not the child or her mother/father.

Joel3:
I still can't find anything wrong with that dress.

maybe it's just me except for the fact that the dress is tight on her legs for walking properly.

by the way why will anyone pick a photo from Facebook and upload to other opinion site degrading someone else child. do you take permission to do that.

this is one of the reasons I hate Facebook. did the parent complain they don't like it. what if the parent found this. hypocrisy. I think it has come to a point were strict internet laws is needed to be pass.

most people I have seen complaining of other people children their children is the worst.

edwife:
Parents should let kids be kids,they have all the time in the world to dress like they want,without you putting pressure on them.

Until then.....

Chubhie:
They are saying is it safe for such an innocent child in today's perverse world. Don't you read the news of how the Nigerian jungle is?

There are not so very reasonable and disciplined male adults left in nigeria. Take a good conscious look around you- can you feel a certain sexually charged atmosphere? You can conduct an experiment and use that kid as a bait-you might just be shocked.

That kids parents should be arming that kid with high moral standards first before introducing her to the sexy part of life.

yinkus4u2c:
Was surfing and i came across d picture of this innocent little girl but i feel something is not right about her dressing.

Do you think this outfit is appropriate for a child this age? why or why not?

kandiikane:


Come off that jor! A right thinking man won't find a child sexually attractive. A pedo will find a children sexually attractive regards of what he or she wears, be it thongs or buba and wrapper. What you are doing is putting the blame of abuse on the victims, rather than the adult who decides to indulges in such disgusting behaviour.

What exact adult attributes will a normal adult perceive from that child? is it boobs, nyash? A pedo does not think like the average adult, a pedo is tuned to find kids attractive regardless of what is worn. It is not what a child wears that makes someone attracted to them.

How about the young boys who also get abused, do they have to dress a certain way for abuse to happen?

The same way a rapist will ra.pe regardless of what you wear. See India for example. Majority of the female population are covered up but the ra.pe cases are quite high.

kandiikane:


Come off that jor! A right thinking man won't find a child sexually attractive. A pedo will find a children sexually attractive regards of what he or she wears, be it thongs or buba and wrapper. What you are doing is putting the blame of abuse on the victims, rather than the adult who decides to indulges in such disgusting behaviour.

What exact adult attributes will a normal adult perceive from that child? is it boobs, nyash? A pedo does not think like the average adult, a pedo is tuned to find kids attractive regardless of what is worn. It is not what a child wears that makes someone attracted to them.

How about young boys who also get abused, do they have to dress a certain way for abuse to happen?

The same way a rapist will ra.pe regardless of what you wear. See India for example. Majority of the female population are covered up but the ra.pe cases are quite high.

Chubhie:
A left thinking man will find a child sexually attractive and an abnormal adult will perceive what's not on a child.

What I'm trying to do is not to put the blame of abuse on the victims. Please refrain from putting words into my mouth. My intention is for you to equip the child morally, self defence wise with every tact in the book used by such men since society is lawless and we can't collectively secure our kids.

Secure your kids and leave no room for Oga pedo.

That is an innocent child that knows nothing. If you tell her to go and put something on, she might have her mind spoiled. She is just 11"

kandiikane:


rephrasing what I wrote earlier. What you guys are doing is telling an innocent child that she is not meant to wear something because it will cause a man to loose his senses and abuse her. This is shifting blame from the adult to an innocent child.

I agree with this statement made by enoquin's aunt. The only person with the problem is enoquin who had already sexualised something that was not meant to be in her head and then implied that men that see the child will find her sexually appealing.

The aunty spoke perfectly. sexualising a child is not by what she wears but what she hears. If the aunt had told her to go change because what she wore will turn men on, what exactly has she done? 1. What she has done is sexualise the child. 2. Told the child that it will be her fault if she gets abused because she must have dressed a certain way which turned the guy on. 3. Men have no control 4. All men are potential pedos and ra.pists



Like I said earlier, it's all in the messed up minds of grown ups, what the child is wearing has nothing to do with it.
If what you guys think is true, then I truly feel sorry for all the poor kids running around naked playing or the teenagers tying just wrapper to go fetch water somewhere in the world, right now. It must have been hell for the kids and our women back in the day.

kandiikane:


Come off that jor! A right thinking man won't find a child sexually attractive. A pedo will find a children sexually attractive regards of what he or she wears, be it thongs or buba and wrapper. What you are doing is putting the blame of abuse on the victims, rather than the adult who decides to indulges in such disgusting behaviour.

What exact adult attributes will a normal adult perceive from that child? is it boobs, nyash? A pedo does not think like the average adult, a pedo is tuned to find kids attractive regardless of what is worn. It is not what a child wears that makes someone attracted to them.

How about the young boys who also get abused, do they have to dress a certain way for abuse to happen?

The same way a rapist will ra.pe regardless of what you wear. See India for example. Majority of the female population are covered up but the ra.pe cases are quite high.

kandiikane:


rephrasing what I wrote earlier. What you guys are doing is telling an innocent child that she is not meant to wear something because it will cause a man to loose his senses and abuse her. This is shifting blame from the adult to an innocent child.

I agree with this statement made by enoquin's aunt. The only person with the problem is enoquin who had already sexualised something that was not meant to be in her head and then implied that men that see the child will find her sexually appealing.

The aunty spoke perfectly. sexualising a child is not by what she wears but what she hears. If the aunt had told her to go change because what she wore will turn men on, what exactly has she done? 1. What she has done is sexualise the child. 2. Told the child that it will be her fault if she gets abused because she must have dressed a certain way which turned the guy on. 3. Men have no control 4. All men are potential pedos and ra.pists



Like I said earlier, it's all in the messed up minds of grown ups, what the child is wearing has nothing to do with it.
If what you guys think is true, then I truly feel sorry for all the poor kids running around naked playing or the teenagers tying just wrapper to go fetch water somewhere in the world, right now. It must have been hell for the kids and our women back in the day.

The only person with the problem is enoquin who had already sexualised something that was not meant to be in her head and then implied that men that see the child will find her sexually appealing.