Met this beautiful lady via F.b, I used to admire since she was in secondary school,when ever I was on break from UNI and go visiting my siblings @school so we got chatting I traveled down to Enugu to go see her since I was seriously thinking about settling down,The whole stuff started out well and before days I was intensely in Love with her,so many rules e.g no drinking,no late nights despite the fact that she had not even accepted my proposal after seeing her parents and declaring my intentions I was told to wait for confirmation from God and all of a sudden I got spiritual praying and waiting for confirmation a night before I left back to Kogi were I work she asked me to come for a pre-marriage test which I begged her to postpone till my next visit but she insisted when I got to the hospital I bailleD but when I got back to my base I did the test and sent results to her since then she's been very cold with me when I ask her were we are with our relationship all she tells me is to let God take control,she completely changed and she isn't saying no but relating every thing to a spiritual angle like Love doesn't even matter,am really confused cos I wanna settle down plus I love her beyond explanation I also noticed i'm not the 1st guy she took for the pre-marital tests and I wonder Y she still didn't continue with the previous guys she has taken .Any body with related experiences and Matured advice as to how I should approch the matter@hand?

The story plenty it's just a summary with the main highlights

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Sips pure water....

tosyne2much summary

Suspected exactly the same thing

McEwen:
tosyne2much summary

The summary of the write-up is that, the lady's parents decided to put the OP in friendzone because they want to know if her current boyfriend is someone to reckon with

ppl just dey comment when the story is not even clear

op I don't understand u at all

what's wrong with the test you did?

why the rejection ?

There's definitely a skeleton inside her cupboard, if she can't tell you then brace yourself for the worse

The tests are all Clear,HIV,Hepatitis,etc infact I did evey test possible including all std's and T.B so the problem isn't the test but when and how the confirmation from God will come

DonCeasar007:
The tests are all Clear,HIV,Hepatitis,etc infact I did evey test possible including all std's and T.B so the problem isn't the test but when and how the confirmation from God will come

..give her more time

Yea that's what I want to do but this days she replies my chats with,Hmmm,O.k,Good for u and we don't even talk on phone like we used to she always doesn't enjoy talking with me any longer,if she told me No i'll understand,am just getting mixed signals

Op, try to find out from her wot d problem is. Communication is important in evry rltnship