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FlirtyKaren:
When Deana Charles walked down the aisle with her Nigerian groom, Ben Mowah, she could not wait to spend the rest of her life with the man she loved. But just half-an-hour after the pair exchanged their vows, she discovered Ben had been texting another woman.

And Deana was left further humiliated when he admitted he had only married her for a visa.

Deana, 23, says:
“My whole world came crashing down when I found out my marriage was a fake. I loved Ben with all my heart. We’d made loads of plans for the future and he seemed
desperate to start a family.”

TheSunUK reports that sales assistant Deana, from Tiverton, Devon, met Ben, 25, on a dating site in 2010. She was instantly attracted to his looks and was hooked after he struck up a flirty conversation with her.

“I wasn’t serious about finding love, I’d only signed up for a bit of a laugh. As soon as I saw Ben’s picture, though, I was smitten. He had gorgeous brown eyes and a great body — just my type.
We started chatting and he explained he’d come to the UK from Nigeria to study for a business degree. I couldn’t imagine being so far away from my family and friends and I told him he was really brave.”

Ben was persistent online and was keen to meet up as soon as possible. Deana was nervous at first but, three months after they started talking, she agreed to travel to London to meet him for a day of sightseeing. She continued:

“It was the perfect first date. Ben took me to see Big Ben and we went to the National Maritime Museum in Greenwich. As soon as we shared our first kiss I could feel myself falling for him.
He asked me to stay for a few days and I said yes. It felt like I’d known him for ages.”

Days turned into weeks and, after a fleeting visit home to pick up some belongings, Deana agreed to move in with Ben in Catford, South East London.

“I was surprised when he asked me to move in with him so soon but I was also really excited. But my mum was really concerned that I was giving up everything for someone I’d only just met.
Some of my friends said the same. No one was completely sure of him. I just shrugged off their concerns because I was convinced he was the right man for me.”

In August 2011, six months after they first met in person, Ben popped the question.

“Ben asked me to marry him while we were having breakfast at home. It wasn’t very romantic. He didn’t even get down on one knee, but he did buy me an imitation diamond ring. I was shocked he wanted to marry me so soon but I was completely in love.”

Though she’d dreamt of a big, romantic wedding, Ben was determined to wed as soon as possible. So Deana agreed to a register office wedding in January 2012, with a low-key reception at a local Chinese restaurant.

“My family were concerned but they all turned out and supported me. When I walked down the aisle Ben told me I looked stunning. And I meant every word of my vows.”

After the ceremony, Deana urged Ben to call his family to tell them the good news.

“He was reluctant to get his phone out. He eventually agreed to call his mum but when I looked over his shoulder at the screen, a message flashed up from a girl. She’d texted Ben to tell him she loved and missed him. My legs turned to jelly as I remembered she was his ex-girlfriend in Nigeria.

I was in pieces but Ben begged me for another chance. He said he’d only text her because of last-minute nerves. I didn’t want to storm out of my wedding so, after lots of tears, I let it go.”

Deana tried to start a happy married life, but the text message always weighed down on her conscience.

“I wanted to wait a few years before getting pregnant as I was still worried about the message. But Ben was determined to be a dad. I thought it was his way of showing he was serious. We tried for a baby but we struggled to conceive.”

But 13 months into their marriage, Deana borrowed Ben’s laptop and her worst fears were confirmed.

“My heart stopped when I saw he’d been sending messages to a girl on a social network site and she had sent him explicit pictures. Ben told her he loved her and wanted a baby with her.

Minutes later I received a message from the girl — she felt so guilty, she’d messaged me to come clean.”

Devastated Deana confronted Ben.

“When he realised there was no way back, he told me he’d only married me for a visa. It explained why he’d been so keen to get me pregnant — the authorities would find it harder to deport him.”

Disgusted Deana packed her bags, returned to Devon the next day and filed for divorce. After two years, Ben finally agreed to it. Deana says:

“I felt relieved. Looking back, I realise how naive I was. Ben was due to finish his degree when he proposed, which meant his student visa would expire. He had to get me up the aisle as soon as possible.”

Deana, who has not spoken to Ben since their divorce and no longer knows where he lives, says:

“It took me a long time to trust another man but I have recently met someone and am trying to move on.”

Ben says:

“My mate used to send me dirty pictures of girls he was seeing. I knew my wife would get jealous if she saw them on my phone so I got rid of them or sent them to my email. She must have checked my email that day and then found the pictures.”

http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/05/my-nigerian-lover-proposed-after-6.html

^^^^^HATING...and then she complains she cant find man on nairaland!!!

gorgeous brown eyes and a great body, oh sorry,it is a sorry case.

Omo the lady gaan get as she be ooo!

See how the babe dey she want make that fresh Nigeria guy come marry her. Bros u do well jhoor, collect your Visa come marry Iyabo.

BEN 10

jaybee3:
Absolutely no sympathy for the gullible girl. She got what she deserved for being so stupid by dropping her guard and refusing to engage her common sense

I swear down dude got no shame. I detest desperate mofos and i'm sure the conservatives will nominate him for their deport first appeal later immigration stance.

no sympathy at all.
as if her beauty is worth that guy

But the white lady is okay naa...

It's nice to take a jelly toyboy handbag as a gift. www.toyboy.com.hk

UK ain't easy at all... buh Big Ben really bleeped up

dernqer:
all this people are just destroying our image

We get image before

this is called " marriage fraud " .

jaybee3:


badt bwoi

I'm pretty sure the thought of a rumored BigBen in African Men enticed her to turn a supposed day visit into a permanent cohabitation arrangement.

Only trashy girls with no values and obviously jobless will move in with a man from the first day of meeting him

She simply got served!

The lackluster pursuit of BigBen

guy how far,where you see that purple tie when long pass you waist lineshey you dey work with PURPLE!!!WEMA BANK...

The fat lady won to marry handsome guy

u all blamin this are just bin hypocrites,the girl was desperate to get married the guy was equally desperate for a visa,simple as ABC......JUDGE ME IF U LIKE,DATS MY OPINION

Watta shame! Good for him coz his evil plans didnt succeeded..he must go back where he truly belongs...

Nigerians....hmmm the hustle is real.......

Who ll settle for this heavy truck of white lady without second... What am I even saying, fifth thoughts.

hilaomo:
guy how far,where you see that purple tie when long pass you waist lineshey you dey work with PURPLE!!!WEMA BANK...

O' boy i dey oooo....
Na H&C ooooooo

Ok, that it's good enough.

I'm not in the least surprised by her silly action. Seeing how fugly she is, I'd say she was desperate to get hitched. She looks like a woman in her fifties. It really baffles me to see the extent some niggas will go to get a visa. And a worthless British visa for that matter., smh

Happy Birthday Initialize

cc: Stancity

jaybee3:

O' boy i dey oooo....
Na H&C ooooooo

I swear down...E FIT YOU!

And d lady is pretty oo

Umuazi akaria ebea.




Meanwhile...





Make I go sell my banana

i feel sorry for the woman, but she suppose know say that man only want his visa

Ben Mowah

This Mowah sounds like a very popular name of one tribe like that! They only twisted and panel-beat the name so that we won't know where he is coming from but his ugly face, his complexion and "London" where "they" like flooding and perpetrating heinous crimes have given him away!

I did not mention the name of any tribe o but they know themselves!

See as d guy don spoil show for other guys.
He would have managed it better, after all d babe no bad.
Or he would have told her downright from the start and pay her, that way emotions won't be involved .

dats not nice

Ben you took your hustle too far. The worst is that Ben is an Otondo, not smart and very unsmart. When the groove start na that time ur eyes go clear

jaybee3:
Absolutely no sympathy for the gullible girl. She got what she deserved for being so stupid by dropping her guard and refusing to engage her common sense

I swear down dude got no shame. I detest desperate mofos and i'm sure the conservatives will nominate him for their deport first appeal later immigration stance.

With what you wrote, one can only conclude you have not interacted much with "oyinbos". Their society is not as fraudulent as ours where you have to question everyones intentions. Most people are straight forward. They have "no fear" for anything so they do not have to lie or pretend. It is this quality of theirs that makes them easy prey to Yahoo yahoo runs.

Tell Oyinbo girl that your father owns Cocoa House, she will say "oh really" and that is swallowed hook line and sinkers. If you now tell her you were just joking, she will say you were lying. to them that was not a joke but a lie.

So don't blame her. She was in her society where people tend to be honest.