Love is one. Love is not sense of feelings. It
gives spiritual insights. Love is a spiritual
being that shows and gives direction to where
you truly belong. It's misconceptions to say
"Take me the way I am" Do you really want to
take a belligerent or a dullard the way they
are? NO. I tell you they also have their own
match because we are created in pairs.
Your flaws are perfect for your match and
heart that is meant to take you, we want
everyone to love us, but that is impossible,
even Jesus was hated more than loved, but He
kept loving, saving and doing good. You have
the love in you, never allow situation and
circumstances to stop you from loving others.
Who told you the world will love you? You're
sent to love not to be loved, do your part and
see how things will radiate. Nothing of value
comes easy.
Create a loving environment even blind men
would speak about it, for the true beauty is
that which blossoms from the heart. A person
who wants love must first love himself
because out of the love in you flows to others.
Love is sacrifice. Love is not determined by
what's happening around you, but rather
what's happening inside you.
Love is not blind; Lust is blind, for love see
through unspoken words and touches the
heart but your choice make you suffer pain,
heartbreak because you never applied the
principle of love that engages in asking the
right questions before friendship.
Communications, discernment, and choice are
important based on close friendship or
relationship. You need to know the needful to
enable you do the rightful, but you consider
the worldly desires like status, wealth and
pleasurable, false acceptance to please people
rather than ask the needful questions.
Questions may be agitated because we are
not use to answering straight forward
questions due to humanly lies. It's a must to
know and understand the destination of the
ship you want to board in order to know the
mission before sub-mission.
A woman is made to support the mission
while a man is made to lead the mission. A
man without a mission would lead you to
subjection, that will devastate your
responsibility and lead to emotional and
physical pain. Tolerance isn't lack of
judgment, it's knowing what should be
tolerated and refusing to tolerate that which
shouldn't.
The irony part is, the same people you wanted
to please by not doing the rightful are the
same people that would laugh at you, they
won't understand and even blame you for
what they were part of the scripted drama that
caused the unending trauma.
Love close unwanted doors but many look
long on closed doors rather than the open
doors and got stuck trying to open the closed
doors. Where there is lack of insight, there is
spiritual blindness and eventually life become
miserable.
To enter into the heart of love, the door of the
erring senses must be closed. Lips must be
muted and materialism silenced, that both of
you may have audience and open up to
yourselves the divine principle, love, which
destroys all error. Third party is the cause of
most breakdown in a relationship.
Mute: be careful what you say, what you hear
and who you seek advice from. Materialism:
never use someone else's lifestyle as a
yardstick to measure your own lifestyle, you
many end up in a deadly lifestyle. There is this
Yoruba adage that says "The chicken also
sweat but the feathers prevented us from
seeing it"
Relationship is like a car ignition, it does not
start until you find the right key, but the car
could be forcefully moved without the right
key or could be broken into and starts the
ignition without the right key, but there would
be a great malfunction because something
isn't right.
Relationship should never be entered into
without a full recognition of its enduring
obligations on both sides. After marriage, it is
too late to grumble over incompatibility of
disposition. Be not in haste to take the vow.
Consider its obligations, its responsibilities,
its relations to your growth and to your
influence on other lives.
A mutual understanding should exist before
the union and continue ever after, for
deception is fatal to happiness. Love is an act
of unselfish care in what promotes the welfare
and happiness of both of you.
Bitterness is the grave affections. The
presence of mistrust, where confidence is due,
withers the garden filled with flowers and
scatters love's petals to decay.
If you go into a new relationship with
carryover bitterness of your past relationship,
you would end up with subjugate present.
What you created in reality is feeding the ego
of the successor and debilitate the soul of the
predecessor due to desire for incessant
amusement, to be always fed, rocked, tossed,
or talked to, don't complain of fretfulness or
frivolity, after years, which both of you have
occasioned.