amanikondo:


You are yet to because your statement is conditional.

vfactor:


Ewu!

amanikondo:


Thank you. Your Papa Ewu, Your Mama Ewu, Your siblings Ewu.

texanomaly:
I find it quite telling how many men are all for cheating, unless the wife is cheating too. The husband can bang any Babe he wants, but if the wife is a cheat...God forbid!! Not that I want to cheat. I'm just wondering why it's ok for the husband but not the wife. It's just sex...remember?

jpphilips:



Women who pay the bills cheat as much as the men, only dependent wives are faithful.

vfactor:


No! Me na human being wey dey try control body. U na he goat chasing all the she goats in the area. That's how u re wired!

sunnydayasaba:



you don't expect him to cheat, but u don't also rule out d possibility of him cheating(flings) if ur a gud companion to him, he will find it hard to cheat. Being a gud companion is d biggest challenge women are faced with. A woman can be a gud wife, but will still not be a gud companion.

Toks2008:


I love your post and i will quickly address the two bold parts.

1. Unfortunately it is a taboo for a lady to cheat on her husband and that is why even JESUS said that the only condition a man can put away his wife is when she sleeps with another man while married and there was no where in the bible where a woman was asked to divorce her husband for same reasons. Yes i know that Biblical injunctions are bi-gender in context but this particular quote was very gender specific and here it is:"But I tell you that any man who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and any man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery"Matthew 5:32



[b]2.A woman is permitted to marry another lady's hubby.Yes hard to take in but its a fact.Women are very ok with being a second.third....wife and that is just their make-up.

There is really no husband snatcher but husband sharer but it is when the present wife refuses to mellow down and accept this that the man makes up his mind to stick with the new lady and dump the first wife but most times, we see men who marry second wife still showing great love and affection for the first wife.

I can't continue to stress this fact but please our young ladies should start learning this truth now.There is more to life than looking for a faithful man about. A faithful guy can become unfaithful and vis avis so do yourself a favor and stick with a man knowing that he could be unfaithful,polygamous or crazy hopeless philanderer.

For the guys, i always say if you know you are hopelessly lost to the spirit of philandering please and please do yourself,your wife and the children a favor by taking your sexcacades far far away and use a protection to at least reduce the chance of bringing home crazy infection to that decent and faithful lady. I will stop here.[/b]

ireneidiva:

Which women are very okay with being 2nd wives? Me? Hell no. Don't come here and say crap please.

ireneidiva:

Which women are very okay with being 2nd wives? Me? Hell no. Don't come here and say crap please.

Toks2008:


You need not use that C word necause my opinion remains my opinion and yours remains yours.

nevertheless i understand your adrenaline burst and it takes only matured minds to catch my drit.

Nevertheless ,pray you dont find yourself single in your thirties expcially mid too late 30s then you will reconsider what you call crap.

Polygamy is the solution to some ladies solitary lives.

ireneidiva:

Good luck to your sisters as they they become 6th wives.

Toks2008:


Must you comment on an interactive social platform if you know you lack the intellectual prowess to do so?

Can't you make reasonable opinion without being foolishly sarcastic? smh for you.

humilitypays:


14. If not for financial provision & security, majority of women wouldn't want to have a man in their life

amokeme:
I don't agree with this

humilitypays:
Are u sure Because in Nigeria of today for example, it appears all what ladies want from men is money, money, money and nothing more!

I am sure u know this

sunnydayasaba:
OP, your so on point, So ladies think a man marries them because of sex, but that's a big lie. Most men don't get married because of sex, its over rated, so any woman who gets married and wants to kill herself because her husband cheated on her, Can do so, its her life.

For most men, the reason they get married is for companionship. So if he finds u gud enough to be his companion, then bother not abt his cheating habit, but guide him better and talk with him if u suspect that he's cheating. Show how much of a gud companion ur to him. That's why he married U

TooNoisy:
What exactly is your point? So women should expect their husbands to cheat? What nonsense is this?

lolly2pops:


Do you have the same standards for cheating wives? If that's the case well then good.

fem29:


Yes that is because abroad there are laws protecting women. It's not so easy in Nigeria where you may end up with nothing 8f you are totally financially dependant on your hubby. Worst case scenario you may end up without your kids

lolly2pops:
This is to all the men that think they are on top of their game. Lemme say many women know that their husbands are cheating and pretend not to care as they too have something under their sleeve. If you are crewing other women chances are your own woman is being screwed by others and believe me when I say women are good at concealing.

Youngpo413:
can a sane women divorce her hubby because of "common" cheating,that's stupidity,only a man has the right to do that.

urchbarbie:
awww......pls are u married?

sunnydayasaba:
OP, your so on point, So ladies think a man marries them because of sex, but that's a big lie. Most men don't get married because of sex, its over rated, so any woman who gets married and wants to kill herself because her husband cheated on her, Can do so, its her life.

For most men, the reason they get married is for companionship. So if he finds u gud enough to be his companion, then bother not abt his cheating habit, but guide him better and talk with him if u suspect that he's cheating. Show how much of a gud companion ur to him. That's why he married U

Tay16:


I pray to God you will follow your own advice when your wife turns you into nothing more than a sperm donor and starts trying out bigger sizes out there, since cheating isnt the worst thing that can happen in a marriage

onatisi:
this is the truth majority of young married ladies don't understand. But older married women do and that is why they are never bothered when they learn their husbands in cheating outside ,their only problem is him marrying them. Now we have married women who even pack condoms into their husband things when he is traveling. Women must know that the first thing in a man brain about the opposite sex is sex .that is the way god created us.

Toks2008:


I love your post and i will quickly address the two bold parts.

1. Unfortunately it is a taboo for a lady to cheat on her husband and that is why even JESUS said that the only condition a man can put away his wife is when she sleeps with another man while married and there was no where in the bible where a woman was asked to divorce her husband for same reasons. Yes i know that Biblical injunctions are bi-gender in context but this particular quote was very gender specific and here it is:"But I tell you that any man who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and any man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery"Matthew 5:32



[b]2.A woman is permitted to marry another lady's hubby.Yes hard to take in but its a fact.Women are very ok with being a second.third....wife and that is just their make-up.

There is really no husband snatcher but husband sharer but it is when the present wife refuses to mellow down and accept this that the man makes up his mind to stick with the new lady and dump the first wife but most times, we see men who marry second wife still showing great love and affection for the first wife.

I can't continue to stress this fact but please our young ladies should start learning this truth now.There is more to life than looking for a faithful man about. A faithful guy can become unfaithful and vis avis so do yourself a favor and stick with a man knowing that he could be unfaithful,polygamous or crazy hopeless philanderer.

For the guys, i always say if you know you are hopelessly lost to the spirit of philandering please and please do yourself,your wife and the children a favor by taking your sexcacades far far away and use a protection to at least reduce the chance of bringing home crazy infection to that decent and faithful lady. I will stop here.[/b]