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Ladies That Want To Marry by Kasimaramma2(f): 9:30pm On Jun 04, 2015
It has been like an adage that any woman ready for marriage n is in a relationship for up to two years without her guy proposing should quit such relationship.
The writeup applies to those that are dating a man that has a job,a house n is matured in age.you dont expect a guy still in 200 or 300 level in his early twenties that feed from his father to propose after two years of dating
Two years is even to long for a matured guy.After six months,a man that want to marry you would propose n would make plans n preparations.
How can you date a guy for 6 years without him proposing,then you breakup.After breaking up,he gets a gf n propose after 4 months of dating?
Date a guy for 4 years you are a slowpoke,for 5 years you are an invalid,for 7 years you are...Dont let any guy tie you down.
Things not to do-
1.tie him with pregnancy
2.date a guy that is married
3.marry a guy with no means of livelihood.

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Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by emerich(m): 9:37pm On Jun 04, 2015
Most times guys are not willing to commit while dating due to some factors, which may be attitudinal from their ladies, so you don't blame some guy who aren't willing to commit to their gals, am not in support of a long duration of courtship though.
Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jun 04, 2015
Gosh, is this advice?
Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by Kasimaramma2(f): 9:40pm On Jun 04, 2015
Anyhow you take it
Jollyjoy:
Gosh, is this advice?
Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by godoluwa(m): 9:41pm On Jun 04, 2015
@op, we all have our ways of doing things. most of crashed marriage was as a result of short term courtship. marriage is a life contract & not something u can just rush into. means of livelihood iz one of the factors u need to consider but what about the future of such means.
Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by NobleAky(m): 9:43pm On Jun 04, 2015
Perception differs shaa! I'm currently in a relationship that has spanned up to 7yrs now and still counting and i am prity sure i will settle down with her sooner or later.
Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by agarawu23(m): 9:44pm On Jun 04, 2015
godoluwa:
@op, we all have our ways of doing things. most of crashed marriage was as a result of short term courtship.
you bash me for political section abi undecided I just ignore cos I don't want to prolong .

op. this ladies will never listen to you
Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by GeneralQuamdeen: 9:55pm On Jun 04, 2015
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Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by czarr(m): 9:59pm On Jun 04, 2015
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Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by Nobody: 10:04pm On Jun 04, 2015
Why the rush?
Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by estee123: 10:33pm On Jun 04, 2015
Like the adage goes there are two sides to a coin. It is totally dependent on the choice of decision you make, if prolong relationship would guarantee a long time commitment give it a shot but keep a watchful eye. Many women end up miserable as result of persistent relationship that leads to sore heart, don't beg for love, keep your dignity in check as human being you are liable to your freedom of choice.
Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by ronald4lif(m): 10:34pm On Jun 04, 2015
Marriage is just a form of a relationship and isn't necessarily the means to an end of a relationship. There are couples who cohabitates and are having a blasting and happy relationship more than a lot of married couples. Modern marriages and relationships have almost equal chances of collapsing so why people think that it can always last a lifetime and make it a top priority in their lives is baffling.

I'm not against marriage, we all hope to get married someday, but the weight and relevance attached to it isn't worth it since a lot of modern marriages hit the rocks after a few years.

If only people have married friends who can open up to them and tell them what they are going through and the bondage they're engrossed in just coz they are married some people might have a rethink. The banter and lovey dovey attitude a lot of couple display publicly that prompt some to envy marital institution doesn't usually reflect what they are experiencing in the closet.

Also, you're implying that once a guy has got a good job and is independent he shouldn't date a girl for more than 2years without proposing. Well, just so you know, it takes more than having a good job for one to be ready to deal with marriage and the responsibilities that comes with it.

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Re: Ladies That Want To Marry by IamLEGEND1: 11:38pm On Jun 04, 2015
ronald4lif:
Marriage is just a form of a relationship and isn't necessarily the means to an end of a relationship. There are couples who cohabitates and are having a blasting and happy relationship more than a lot of married couples. Modern marriages and relationships have almost equal chances of collapsing so why people think that it can always last a lifetime and make it a top priority in their lives is baffling.

I'm not against marriage, we all hope to get married someday, but the weight and relevance attached to it isn't worth it since a lot of modern marriages hit the rocks after a few years.

If only people have married friends who can open up to them and tell them what they are going through and the bondage they're engrossed in just coz they are married some people might have a rethink. The banter and lovey dovey attitude a lot of couple display publicly that prompt some to envy marital institution doesn't usually reflect what they are experiencing in the closet.

Also, you're implying that once a guy has got a good job and is independent he shouldn't date a girl for more than 2years without proposing. Well, just so you know, it takes more than having a good job for one to be ready to deal with marriage and the responsibilities that comes with it.

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