though I love the girl the way she talks,her voice and her stature

she said if I invite to nigeria she will come that she can kill her self all because of me.

Biko, remove your slippers, put them on your head, hold them with both hands and run.
I mean, run. Run like your life depended on it.
I know you're running, now run harder.
Hang this relationship before it hangs you o.

Because I smell fish, and that's not a good sign.

She is not in love with you, she is in love with who she thinks you are.
You don't love her either.
A man who truly loves a woman will not list her physical attributes first when asked why he loves her.

I know you're doubting whether or not you are mentally and emotionally strong enough to do this, but I know you can, everyone can.

All the best

Feranchek:
So which kain advice you dey find na Tell me

pasqal09:


Lmao! OP, maybe you should go meet her in Ghana then since she loves u so much

But the lady in question sef She's a single mother with a 4yr old kid and she's naïve enough to fall for someone she hasn't even meet?

elantraceey:
So you knew you had a girlfriend and you were going all lovey dovey with her now she has fallen you want to run away , you are wicked



If you know you can't date a girl don't bother trying to instill feelings in her, make it clear its just friendship you want from the beginning .

MizMyColi:







Biko, remove your slippers, put them on your head, hold them with both hands and run.
I mean, run. Run like your life depended on it.
I know you're running, now run harder.
Hang this relationship before it hangs you o.

Because I smell fish, and that's not a good sign.

She is not in love with you, she is in love with who she thinks you are.
You don't love her either.
A man who truly loves a woman will not list her physical attributes first when asked why he loves her.

I know you're doubting whether or not you are mentally and emotionally strong enough to do this, but I know you can, everyone can.

All the best

adebayour26:
Permit me to blame you for making her fall too much in love with you before opening up to her. You just played with her emotions...diaris God oooo

elantraceey:


It happens .

pasqal09:


Lmao! OP, maybe you should go meet her in Ghana then since she loves u so much

But the lady in question sef She's a single mother with a 4yr old kid and she's naïve enough to fall for someone she hasn't even meet?

ronald4lif:
Some guys and emotional games sha. You knew quite well that you had a girlfriend and don't want anything serious with this lady but still went ahead playing games with her. Whilst you were having fun gambling with her emotion she was busy picturing the both of you having a swell time together?. And now you want to quit and dash her hopes away?. No way, you must finish what you started.

xynerise:
The last part you said "Before it is too late" got me thinking. What will happen when it is too late? and what will be too late if I may ask, your decision? This is a long distance imaginary relationship, young man. Just pretend you never had a conversation with her in the first place and everything will look like an illusion.

ahamonyeka:
Please I need your advise,I met a ghanian girl on wechat she has a girl of 4 years old the guy who was responsible for the child left her when the girl was 4months old.she lost her parent when she was born she don't even know her parent now the young lady is in love with me haven't seen me but we only send pictures of ourselves to each other,she works with ghana electricity company and she lives alone,she calls me everyday just to hear my voice so this morning I told her I have girl friend and she started crying sending me voice message on whatsapp and I felt for her.though I love the girl the way she talks,her voice and her stature I keep telling her that is not going to workout between us because of the distance but she she said if I invite to nigeria she will come that she can kill her self all because of me.I don't know what to do now I have done everything possible to let go off her but all to no avail.please advise me before is too late.

pasqal09:

To only naïve girls

pasqal09:

To only naïve girls

pasqal09:

To only naïve girls

MrCork:


....SHAME ON U FOR LOOKIN AT 4YEER OLD GIRL ON WEBCAM FOR LOOOSIN HER PARENST....SHAME ON U ...YOU PETERFILE!!! (no oofeinse)

Holatunde007:
Only a foool will offer u an advice........when u knw u ain't for it y did u flirt with her in d 1st place............

elantraceey:

Not just naive girls .

MizMyColi:







Biko, remove your slippers, put them on your head, hold them with both hands and run.
I mean, run. Run like your life depended on it.
I know you're running, now run harder.
Hang this relationship before it hangs you o.

Because I smell fish, and that's not a good sign.

She is not in love with you, she is in love with who she thinks you are.
You don't love her either.
A man who truly loves a woman will not list her physical attributes first when asked why he loves her.

I know you're doubting whether or not you are mentally and emotionally strong enough to do this, but I know you can, everyone can.

All the best

Sveen:
I disagree with the bolded.

If I may ask, why?

What's your angle?

MizMyColi:


If I may ask, why?

What's your angle?

Sveen:
You said a guy won't mention the physical attributes of a girl when asked if he loves her, you are wrong. Though, that certainly won't be the first thing to say, but if the conversation leads there, most guys would definitely make mention of it. If I like you, I can't just like or love you for loving sake, there'll be some features, some attributes for my doing so. E.g "Do you love your gf?" Yes I do. "Why?" I love her cos of her beauty, character, humor, affinity, etcetera. Do you comprehend my points?

I don't see an issue here bro

@Emboldened, isn't that my submission too?

ronald4lif:
Some guys and emotional games sha. You knew quite well that you had a girlfriend and don't want anything serious with this lady but still went ahead playing games with her. Whilst you were having fun gambling with her emotion she was busy picturing the both of you having a swell time together?. And now you want to quit and dash her hopes away?. No way, you must finish what you started.