barcanista:
90% of people blaming the girl in this movie are hypocrite. Seriously, how many people/graduates will agree to get married to a bricklayer in mushin via a 3rd party? How many people will agree to marry an agbero in motor park? This is a very straightforward case. The babe never discriminated him but her choice of marriage wasn't a briklayer or capenter. It's her choice.

The friend and the dude were at fault here. I support the lady demand for apology.


But the film sha

Barca you are wrong because you forgot the God factor


When someone approaches you for marriage, seek God's opinion because His worst decision is better than your best decision.



God convinced me to leave a girl because of something similar like this.

Ariel20:


For once I have to support Barcanista on this.

Let's be realistic guys enough of the Nollywood nonsense

Acting like a good girl doesn't mean you are good it could also be called desperation

Yes you have to cos he is your partner in crime huh....

bashydemy:
Yes you have to cos he is your partner in crime huh....

Na you Sabi

bashydemy:
Yes you have to cos he is your partner in crime huh....

Forget APC PDP fight


I know Barca is wrong but don't turn it to APC PDP fight

BlackTechnology:


Forget APC PDP fight


I know Barca is wrong but don't turn it to APC PDP fight

Thank you cos you know he is wrong..

Ariel20:


Na you Sabi

Hahaha take it easy..

She is a gold digger. Thank God she could not find any gold to dig in your premise. There is nothing to apologise for.

Rumpelstiltskin:
I think I should adopt this method. All the girls I've dated only 'eat' my money especially when they get to know I own GoldStraw Group (GoldStraw Oil, GoldStraw Airways, GoldStraw Construction Company, GoldStraw Logistics etc) worth over $10 billion.

They tell me all manner of sweet words; Rumpel, you are the only cockroach in my cupboard. Rumpel, you are the only rat in my storeroom. I hear these things and I begin to spend money 'yanfu yanfu' until my account officer calls to warn me about my spending.

I must relocate to Mpape or Galadima and disguise as a 'vulga' that pumps air into tyres. Enough of playing the mugu/maga.

You have the Ambition, just have FAITH,be dilligent and prayerful,GOLDSTRAW GROUP will become reality. I wish you goodluck.

Y d frash is this on politics section??

goodgate:
You have the Ambition, just have FAITH,be dilligent and prayerful,GOLDSTRAW GROUP will become reality. I wish you goodluck.

Amen bro

BlackTechnology:


Barca you are wrong because you forgot the God factor


When someone approaches you for marriage, seek God's opinion because His worst decision is better than your best decision.



God convinced me to leave a girl because of something similar like this.

Not everybody hears from God

changes1:
I saw this story online, read it, told my peeps around me... come see argument.
So I brought it here. What do you think??






Ada Okeke shared her true life story online… My
people, I need your advice… I am the one involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas
looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and
we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her.
At last he liked her, collected her phone number
from me, though I told her before doing that.
But here is the deal between me and him, he made
it clear to me never to disclose what he does for a
living to her now, but rather I should tell her he is a
security man living in Mushin… ( note: he is a rich
business man but he is afraid to disclose his
identity now, because according to him, he is
looking for a lady that will love him for whom he is
and not for what he is)…
They met, he told her the same thing, after
everything she came to me to know whether it’s
true, I told her yes… But she should give him a
chance, and try to know him very well… She told
me she wasn’t interested, not ready for marriage
yet, I tried all my best to convince her but to no
avail, I let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride price
last February, they are planning for their traditional
marriage soon..
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him
and discovered he is a rich business guy… She
called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the
insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t have
lied to her in the first place, knowing fully well we
are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie to a
friend… Her sisters called me and told me the same
thing. But when I tried to explain things, they hung
the phone on me..
I am planning to go over to their place today to
explain things to her sisters and apologize too, but
my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did
nothing wrong..
What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong
thing?

YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. VERY GOOD OF YOU.

Abeg where I fit buy this season film and wetin be the name or Shey na " How amarachi missed the millionaire suitor". .......lolz

adanduka:
Lying isn't the right thing to do.
When a woman is in it for money, you'll know.
But the so called rich businessman is really in a hurry to get married. How long did he date this one he's settling with?

sis sorry to say,4rm wat u wrote here. . . I cnt find a point dre.

She's a gold digger, forget aboutt going to apologise to her sisters. You can explain when you see them later but don't feel sorry about it pls

barcanista:
90% of people blaming the girl in this movie are hypocrite. Seriously, how many people/graduates will agree to get married to a bricklayer in mushin via a 3rd party? How many people will agree to marry an agbero in motor park? This is a very straightforward case. The babe never discriminated him but her choice of marriage wasn't a briklayer or capenter. It's her choice.

The friend and the dude were at fault here. I support the lady demand for apology.


But the film sha

guy i dnt agree wit u on this. . . . D guy hasnt dne anytin wrng. . .instead blame the gold digging lass. . . .impatient is wat is killing naija galz. . . .#luv is dead & gne.

barcanista:
No sir! Everybody have their choice and taste. Honestly answer these questions, what will be your reaction to see your graduate sister bring home a bricklayer that lives in Ajegunle and introduce him as her fiance? What will be your reaction should your sister bring home an Investment Banker as her fiance? What will be your reaction should your sister tell you she rejected a bricklayer that proposed to her? Pls answer

Let us not be hypocritical here. While the girl has her right to either accept or reject a bricklayer, she does no wrong if in her judgement he doesn't meet her specs. It's about choice bro!

the same ryt d guy had to reject a leech. . .@ least she wld hv given the guy some tym. . .she made up her mind asap imm she was told the guy is a guard. . . . . .nw tel me the truth if the gal is really worth it. ?

Boss, I beg to vary. Please, what criterions do we guys install subconsciously when seeking out a date? Prospects! The feminists and miss independents should have thrown the weight behind him and settled with his personality as we (guys) do.

Seriously, someone is currently in a similar dilemma, perplexed,worse off because he is biased, at least at the instant of replying this thread. It clearly means that ladies get married to wealth and not MEN. Its not a concern of security if she has got prospects too, trust me.

I have seen ex-CEOs turn homeless, particularly during the global economic melt down and in the years after. I have heard a few more taking up menial jobs to sustain a living, so what happens? She probably would desert I and our kids, yes of course. There is no hypocrisy in this other than the inability of most females on this thread to settle with the same guy considering his status.

As for choice, you were right, she had hers to make and indeed she made a hasty one. God bless our mothers whom found Men and made the most out of them for there are no such things as a permanent condition.

barcanista:
90% of people blaming the girl in this movie are hypocrite. Seriously, how many people/graduates will agree to get married to a bricklayer in mushin via a 3rd party? How many people will agree to marry an agbero in motor park? This is a very straightforward case. The babe never discriminated him but her choice of marriage wasn't a briklayer or capenter. It's her choice.

The friend and the dude were at fault here. I support the lady demand for apology.


But the film sha

barcanista:
No sir! Everybody have their choice and taste. Honestly answer these questions, what will be your reaction to see your graduate sister bring home a bricklayer that lives in Ajegunle and introduce him as her fiance? What will be your reaction should your sister bring home an Investment Banker as her fiance? What will be your reaction should your sister tell you she rejected a bricklayer that proposed to her? Pls answer

Let us not be hypocritical here. While the girl has her right to either accept or reject a bricklayer, she does no wrong if in her judgement he doesn't meet her specs. It's about choice bro!

You are so on point! Whose choice would be to marry a bricklayer if she could wait and get a 'better'. I ain't saying they don't have a right to love BT her preference just didn't suit it! Tho' she should have atleast tried to know the guy BT issokay sha

The scenario painted to your friend is too extreme and you know it. Can you date and settle down with a security man in Mushin if we assume you are a graduate?? There ia a 10% chance you will want to marry such man, although ......

You did the best thing for your cousin. That girl is a gold digger and nothing else. Nigerian girls are like that. They want to reap from where they did not sow. Thank God I never married one of them. I would have been broke by now. Relationships in Nigeria are like job opportunities and a form of poverty alleviation program. As a matter of fact, that your cousin deserves an award. God just open his eyes to see the doom that was about to befall him. Though not all of them are like that though. 98% of them are like that.

mulattoclaro:
You did the best thing for your cousin. That girl is a gold digger and nothing else. Nigerian girls are like that. They want to reap from where they did not sow. Thank God I never married one of them. I would have been broke by now. Relationships in Nigeria are like job opportunities and a form of poverty alleviation program. As a matter of fact, that your cousin deserves an award. God just open his eyes to see the doom that was about to befall him. Though not all of them are like that though. 98% of them are like that.

Y u dislike 9ja babe na ?

Goodboiyy:


Y u dislike 9ja babe na ?

Bros cos it's true. No man was born with hatred. I lived in this Nigeria before I left for my msc program in Canada. I married a brazilian and not a Nigerian and I can tell you my life has been perfect. Nigerian girls are parasites.

lyfe:
I wouldn't be interested too, If I was the lady. Imagine security man in Lagos proposing marriage where all the "rich swagger " guys are in abundance.

This is the reality most guys should embrace. Women want some sort of security and 99% of the women would fail that test.

but love is the paramount thing

Turn down for what!

U did nothing wrong.ur friend is a Gold digger,thank God fr ur cousin #vegatalks

Let her go to hell and marry abacha and flex the $ with satan

@OP and other nairaland bashing, if the girl in question look like a lady any security man can go and seek for her hand in marriage will your brother ever agree to marry her after claiming to be a big boy and a business man doing good in Lagos.
She make herself look good and tasty for a potential big boy, she also invested on her own body that why your body saw her worthy and capable of being his wife.
@OP apologise to her cos she deserve it.

@OP and other nairalanders bashing, if the girl in question look like a lady any security man can go and seek for her hand in marriage will your brother ever agree to marry her after claiming to be a big boy and a business man doing good in Lagos.
She make herself look good and tasty for a potential big boy, she also invested on her own body that why your brother saw her worthy and capable of being his wife.
@OP apologise to her cos she deserve it.

Siddon for parlour ground,because if you move ehh,l will .....
Wait Continue!

I saw this story online, read it, told my peeps around me... come see argument.
So I brought it here. What do you think??






Ada Okeke shared her true life story online… My
people, I need your advice… I am the one involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas
looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and
we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her.
At last he liked her, collected her phone number
from me, though I told her before doing that.
But here is the deal between me and him, he made
it clear to me never to disclose what he does for a
living to her now, but rather I should tell her he is a
security man living in Mushin… ( note: he is a rich
business man but he is afraid to disclose his
identity now, because according to him, he is
looking for a lady that will love him for whom he is
and not for what he is)…
They met, he told her the same thing, after
everything she came to me to know whether it’s
true, I told her yes… But she should give him a
chance, and try to know him very well… She told
me she wasn’t interested, not ready for marriage
yet, I tried all my best to convince her but to no
avail, I let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride price
last February, they are planning for their traditional
marriage soon..
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him
and discovered he is a rich business guy… She
called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the
insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t have
lied to her in the first place, knowing fully well we
are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie to a
friend… Her sisters called me and told me the same
thing. But when I tried to explain things, they hung
the phone on me..
I am planning to go over to their place today to
explain things to her sisters and apologize too, but
my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did
nothing wrong..
What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong
thing?

You did the right thing. You saved your cousin and your family a lifetime of problems.
Thank God am not married to a Nigerian woman!!
Quote me and die in your sleep.

I saw this story online, read it, told my peeps around me... come see argument.
So I brought it here. What do you think??






Ada Okeke shared her true life story online… My
people, I need your advice… I am the one involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas
looking for a wife, I told him about my girlfriend and
we agreed to invite her over so that he can see her.
At last he liked her, collected her phone number
from me, though I told her before doing that.
But here is the deal between me and him, he made
it clear to me never to disclose what he does for a
living to her now, but rather I should tell her he is a
security man living in Mushin… ( note: he is a rich
business man but he is afraid to disclose his
identity now, because according to him, he is
looking for a lady that will love him for whom he is
and not for what he is)…
They met, he told her the same thing, after
everything she came to me to know whether it’s
true, I told her yes… But she should give him a
chance, and try to know him very well… She told
me she wasn’t interested, not ready for marriage
yet, I tried all my best to convince her but to no
avail, I let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride price
last February, they are planning for their traditional
marriage soon..
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran into him
and discovered he is a rich business guy… She
called me yesterday afternoon and gave me the
insult of my life. Her reason is that I shouldn’t have
lied to her in the first place, knowing fully well we
are friends… that a friend is not supposed to lie to a
friend… Her sisters called me and told me the same
thing. But when I tried to explain things, they hung
the phone on me..
I am planning to go over to their place today to
explain things to her sisters and apologize too, but
my own sisters are still with the opinion that I did
nothing wrong..
What do you think? Did I do the right or the wrong
thing?

Nne u did nothing wrong. Afterall the man is your relative. U would not want anyone to also take advantage of him as well.
Your friend is not a good friend and as such let her be. She is a gold digger. God forbid if ur cousin who is a rich businessman gets married to her and turns poor to d point that he becomes a gate man in Mushin, it becomes obvious she will be no longer interested in the marriage with him so make she waka go.
You did nothing wrong.