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. by WebSurfer(m): 8:24am On Jun 10, 2015
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Re: . by Tallesty1(m): 8:27am On Jun 10, 2015
It is not age that counts bro, it emotional maturity and financial stability. If you are fit in these two places then you are good to go.

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Re: . by ITbomb(m): 8:43am On Jun 10, 2015
If you are financially secured and emotionally matured, by all means get married.

The talk of achieving some stuff or dream before you marry is a big fallacy. Get someone that can grow with you and help you achieve that dream.
Re: . by Nobody: 8:43am On Jun 10, 2015
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.

What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.
If you believe you are ready for marriage and you have the desire to get married and you have met certain criteria which include
~Being Financial stable
~Being Emotional stable
~Being able to make good decisions and judgments
~Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
~Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
~Being able to be a father figure to your children both financially and other wise
then you are free to enter into marriage.
Re: . by WebSurfer(m): 9:16am On Jun 10, 2015
misssclassy:
There is no right age to get married. But rather, there is a right time to get married.

What you should ask yourself is if this is the right time for you to get married.
If you believe you are ready for marriage and you have the desire to get married and you have met certain criteria which include
~Being Financial stable
~Being Emotional stable
~Being able to make good decisions and judgments
~Being mature enough to be in a relationship.
~Being able to understand what marriage and being a husband and a father entails.
~Being able to be a father figure to your children both financially and other wise
then you are free to enter into marriage.
detailed enough, thank you
Re: . by WebSurfer(m): 9:20am On Jun 10, 2015
Tallesty1:
It is not age that counts bro, it emotional maturity and financial stability. If you are fit in these two places then you are good to go.
talking about emotionally stability , I am not too sure about what that entails, but I do take important people very unseriously with a very little burden.
Re: . by Senjo(m): 9:27am On Jun 10, 2015
Tallesty1:
It is not age that counts bro, it emotional maturity and financial stability. If you are fit in these two places then you are good to go.
Seconded

Ur level of maturity will determine ur readiness not d age factor

From ur writeup,u claim to b financially ok which is also a plus to ur quest

In conclusion sit down n ask question d following questions:
am i mature enough to take d lead?

do i av d ability to take care of my family?

do i stand a chance of carrying my family along?

am i ready to start a family of my own?

will i b able to achieve my aim as a husband without family interference?
Re: . by Nayah(f): 10:47am On Jun 10, 2015
Marriage is not about age but about maturity responsability and knowledge of what life together means . Unfortunately in Africa we think that 30 and over is too "late" while now people are going far for studies and settle down later than before and this should be not an issue
Re: . by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jun 10, 2015
well I feel it's ur choice over others...coz at the end of the day u are the 1 to live with the decisions u make; not ur family or friends!
in my opinion I feel settling down is more abt ur level of preparedness interms of how knowledgeable u are abt marriage, how much u've read abt it, how stable u are financially, why u feel it is important for u now and not later, how u planned ur life to be (dats if u are a very detailed person who pens down his plans) e.t.c

in conclusion there's no stipulated age or time to settle down..its a two-way thing..it's either u feel right abt it now or not!
Re: . by WebSurfer(m): 8:48pm On Jun 10, 2015
thank you smiley smiley smiley

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