I showed my wife (she is Calabar and I am Igbo) the  thread on early marriage and she says she would rather marry late than early or than being a second (how much more 3rd, 4th or 5th) wife. She says she wants to be aware what she is getting into. I am older than her by 4 months and we just got into the 30s and we have been married for 4 years.

What option do you think is best for Nigerian women?

Early marriage
Late Marriage
being a wife among other wives

@poster
it all depends on individuals and their status in life.
some should marry early IF they find the right person then
other should wait for later until they do find that special person.

the point is that no one should enter into a union if they are not 100% sure that their spouse is the RIGHT one.
either it be first, second or tenth wife.

I agree with much of what MRbrownJAY says (maybe except the last paragraph!).  It's different for people, if you meet that right person when you're young hooray!  If they don't come along until you're older thank God they came along anyway!

@ poster I agree with your wife, given the choice of an early marriage or being a second or nth wife, I'd opt for the same as your missus 

same old shit

Is NL getting drier? What is this post all about?
People just post nonsense, even the little gossip in their bedroom becomes a topic on NL.
Rubbish

Its definitely getting boring. ---- same old shit

Easy folks, this is romance section and bed matters are not inappropriate here.