Toks2008:


Im certain you know no jack about marriage

shits happen in marriage and divorcing a hubby for this reason in my opinion is not worth it except toke decides to remain single all her life because there is no guaranty that her next hubby wont impregnate their maid.

Men will always be men.

As long as the guy is sorry,life goes om

Progress2468:



How do their relationship cases affect you. Are they your sisters or sister inlaws for you to tolerate or not tolerate them? Una nor dy wan calm down, i guess Toke talk pass all these ones when you they talk so.

"Nigerian Women, Dont Let Nigerian men force you to settle." I think this your statement shld be the other way round. Most men nor wan marry sef talk-less of to marry the one when go give them wahala.

In our struggle towards perfection we make mistakes, but our ability to get over them draws us closer to perfection. They have all (TOKE,HUSBAND,& BABYMAMA) made mistakes, which dey shld sort out and move on.

The world will not end because of this

kendraloops:




sorry o but you no well for this thing you posted. honestly!!

cramjones:
The lesson all Nigerians should learn from this mess are:

1. There is absolutely no need talking with your spouse on social media for the whole world to see. You guys see each other, talk to yourselves directly.

2. Marriage is never a ticket to happiness, never let anyone make you feel less important if you are not married.

3. Never date someone for over a decade, you can never know all about someone. Even couples that have been married for over 2 decades still learn new things about themselves - You will know the first 3 months if this is your person or not.

4. Never trust yourself in choosing your spouse. Depend on God, depend on that still small voice. Only God knows the deepest part of a man's/woman's heart.

5. Not everyone who posts romantic adventures with their spouses on social media are happy. Most times it is a front. Don't be depressed and think your life sucks because you are not getting the type of vacations and gifts being paraded on social media.

Above all, when your relationship/marriage crashes like it did for sweet Toke, never give up. Life has its ups and downs. With persistence, focus and a heart with love, you will surely find love and happiness again, and God will certainly fix your brokenness.

Annie Idibia I detest! Her and her husband's example should never be adored by any!

I wish you well Toke. You will surely prevail...hang in there.

Shalom!

CramJones

cramjones:
The lesson all Nigerians should learn from this mess are:

1. There is absolutely no need talking with your spouse on social media for the whole world to see. You guys see each other, talk to yourselves directly.

2. Marriage is never a ticket to happiness, never let anyone make you feel less important if you are not married.

3. Never date someone for over a decade, you can never know all about someone. Even couples that have been married for over 2 decades still learn new things about themselves - You will know the first 3 months if this is your person or not.

4. Never trust yourself in choosing your spouse. Depend on God, depend on that still small voice. Only God knows the deepest part of a man's/woman's heart.

5. Not everyone who posts romantic adventures with their spouses on social media are happy. Most times it is a front. Don't be depressed and think your life sucks because you are not getting the type of vacations and gifts being paraded on social media.

Above all, when your relationship/marriage crashes like it did for sweet Toke, never give up. Life has its ups and downs. With persistence, focus and a heart with love, you will surely find love and happiness again, and God will certainly fix your brokenness.

Annie Idibia I detest! Her and her husband's example should never be adored by any!

I wish you well Toke. You will surely prevail...hang in there.

Shalom!

CramJones

cramjones:
The lesson all Nigerians should learn from this mess are:

1. There is absolutely no need talking with your spouse on social media for the whole world to see. You guys see each other, talk to yourselves directly.

2. Marriage is never a ticket to happiness, never let anyone make you feel less important if you are not married.

3. Never date someone for over a decade, you can never know all about someone. Even couples that have been married for over 2 decades still learn new things about themselves - You will know the first 3 months if this is your person or not.

4. Never trust yourself in choosing your spouse. Depend on God, depend on that still small voice. Only God knows the deepest part of a man's/woman's heart.

5. Not everyone who posts romantic adventures with their spouses on social media are happy. Most times it is a front. Don't be depressed and think your life sucks because you are not getting the type of vacations and gifts being paraded on social media.

Above all, when your relationship/marriage crashes like it did for sweet Toke, never give up. Life has its ups and downs. With persistence, focus and a heart with love, you will surely find love and happiness again, and God will certainly fix your brokenness.

Annie Idibia I detest! Her and her husband's example should never be adored by any!

I wish you well Toke. You will surely prevail...hang in there.

Shalom!

CramJones

Ilekeh:


You're correct in SOME instance.

londongal03:
lol

cramjones:
The lesson all Nigerians should learn from this mess are:

1. There is absolutely no need talking with your spouse on social media for the whole world to see. You guys see each other, talk to yourselves directly.

2. Marriage is never a ticket to happiness, never let anyone make you feel less important if you are not married.

3. Never date someone for over a decade, you can never know all about someone. Even couples that have been married for over 2 decades still learn new things about themselves - You will know the first 3 months if this is your person or not.

4. Never trust yourself in choosing your spouse. Depend on God, depend on that still small voice. Only God knows the deepest part of a man's/woman's heart.

5. Not everyone who posts romantic adventures with their spouses on social media are happy. Most times it is a front. Don't be depressed and think your life sucks because you are not getting the type of vacations and gifts being paraded on social media.

Above all, when your relationship/marriage crashes like it did for sweet Toke, never give up. Life has its ups and downs. With persistence, focus and a heart with love, you will surely find love and happiness again, and God will certainly fix your brokenness.

Annie Idibia I detest! Her and her husband's example should never be adored by any!

I wish you well Toke. You will surely prevail...hang in there.

Shalom!

CramJones

Toks2008:


I don't need to be well to post my opinion madam.

We will always have husband sharers and please tell me,if you have a friend who is widowed at very young age with children,wil you advice her to wait for one single guy to marry her? What about those who were thrown out of their matrimonial homes by their hubbies for no just course,make dem begin look for a single man shey? and what about the ladies still single in their very late 30s, i guess you will tell them to still hold on even if they see a married man who wants to marry them.

These are the secrets our mothers know and that made their marriages last very well. Men will always be men and you can do absolutely nada about it.

I am a naturally faithful man but i also know that polygamy is the solution to some ladies marital happiness.

If you quarrel with your husband too much about him seeing another lady walahi he will pack out of the house and ruyn away with the lady and you will never see him again.

My advice to married ladies is that they should focus on their lives and close their eyes to the man's fidelity.There are more important things in life than hinging your marital happiness on your husband fidelity because trust me, you will be living in delusion if you think your hubby wil be faithful to you alone.

Please don't quote me wrongly, we stil have very faithful guys but please bother less about a man's faithfulness to you.Focus on your life and be happy irrespective of his fidelity or infidelity.This is my point.

kendraloops:



Fidelity or infidelity you say? Everyone has that one sh|t they can't take no matter what. You think its easy to turn a blind eye and act like you don't send, meanwhile you're burning inside? You're speaking from a guy's POV sha but still doesn't excuse any irresponsible act. If you love her, you wouldn't hurt her. A little slip might occur but once cheating begins to seem like his birthright cos of the stick BTW his legs, then there's a big prob.

Toks2008:


Im certain you know no jack about marriage

shits happen in marriage and divorcing a hubby for this reason in my opinion is not worth it except toke decides to remain single all her life because there is no guaranty that her next hubby wont impregnate their maid.

Men will always be men.

As long as the guy is sorry,life goes om

VickyRotex:


May Wisdom never elude you.

Toks2008:


Im certain you know no jack about marriage

shits happen in marriage and divorcing a hubby for this reason in my opinion is not worth it except toke decides to remain single all her life because there is no guaranty that her next hubby wont impregnate their maid.

Men will always be men.

As long as the guy is sorry,life goes om

jascon1:
I respect Ur opinion and I mean no sarcasm, but as a happily married man I do reckon that u need a brain transplant. Listen, put urself in someone's situation b4 u conclude. I wud rather remain single than live with a woman who wud reduce my life span with her dirty sexual escapades. Even the Bible grants me that right to divorce ONLY because of ADULTERY. It is the CHOICE of the person offended to EITHER stay or leave. I won't support your nefarious "men will be men" theory. When did men commence existence and how old are u? Who made u the last man for any woman? Don't let Ur lack of moral incite u to convince others to sins that deeply affect their loved ones. If u know u r not ready to respect a commitment, God, ur wife and kids then dont get married. Dont drag women into Ur filthy games. God hates adulterers. Read proverbs 6:32; Exodus 20:14 n many more

DrGroove:
What's with all these hype about a married man impregnating his girlfriend?
Toke dis,Maje dat!
I really wonder what's the big deal is
So if Toke is a relationship expert,does it suddenly make her husband less of a man?
Una just dey hia dey give una sef headache.i won't be surprised the victim Toke won't be bothered.abi una think say she no know say her husband get another babe for that long?
Toke may have just wanted a ring on her finger and a Mrs title to fit into her society(thats is the only reason a woman needs to marry in dis generation,esp when she is successful n doesn't depend on a man for survival)
to the ladies bashing the man,hold ya self dere
No man,i repeat,no man ever gets satisfied screwing one woman.Hang urself if e dey pain u
Maje may have another babe(s) aside his baby mama to be,i won't be surprised
sex is food n experiment to men
Every man wants to bed as many women as possible,get that into ur skulls!
I really commend Maje for choosing his long time Gf to have his baby.Most men would hv gone for the maid,wife's sister,friend,recharge card seller,pure water hawker,dustbin packer,etc
If u want to marry,go ahead n marry.stop looking for faithful man,e no dey o.
in olden days when women were decent,sex was sacred,men cheated steady,some married more wives and the women understood.Marriage worked.nowadays wives be fighting hubby for sleeping wt another woman,why??
If u are expecting ur husband not to cheat When he is now forced to grudgingly unhappily marry only one wife,when everything in this world now suggests of sex,even the air we breathe and d food we eat is all about sex!,abeg wake up before u bedwet!
I am a lady and I tell u
A married man has 1 wife+10 girlfriends+100 flings
Drink otapiapia and die!
That's easier than quoting me to argue!!

wrongnumber:


I guess you are the one who needs a serious brain surgery.

I read through toks post and i see a lot of sense in it. You responded in the affirmative because you just compared his notion with a woman cheating on her hubby which is totally unacceptable.

Polygamy is for a man and bigamy is also ok for a man and unless you are a toddler or you still have a toddlers mentality,i expect you to agree with this age long fact. Its not about committing adultery but its about marrying another lady.No one is supporting adulterous act.

wrongnumber:



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The fact is that not all men love to bed as many ladies as possible but 98% will and the remaining 2% wil crave for it but may be disciplined enough not to do it but every other letter by letter of your post is so so so spot on and i think every lady should print out your post and paste it somewhere to read everyday and amazingly this is coming from a lady.

I am not a philanderer and i know someone who have never cheated on his woman for over 13years but if all you wrote is true for 95% of guys then i second it 100%

cramjones:
The lesson all Nigerians should learn from this mess are:

1. There is absolutely no need talking with your spouse on social media for the whole world to see. You guys see each other, talk to yourselves directly.

2. Marriage is never a ticket to happiness, never let anyone make you feel less important if you are not married.

3. Never date someone for over a decade, you can never know all about someone. Even couples that have been married for over 2 decades still learn new things about themselves - You will know the first 3 months if this is your person or not.

4. Never trust yourself in choosing your spouse. Depend on God, depend on that still small voice. Only God knows the deepest part of a man's/woman's heart.

5. Not everyone who posts romantic adventures with their spouses on social media are happy. Most times it is a front. Don't be depressed and think your life sucks because you are not getting the type of vacations and gifts being paraded on social media.

Above all, when your relationship/marriage crashes like it did for sweet Toke, never give up. Life has its ups and downs. With persistence, focus and a heart with love, you will surely find love and happiness again, and God will certainly fix your brokenness.

Annie Idibia I detest! Her and her husband's example should never be adored by any!

I wish you well Toke. You will surely prevail...hang in there.

Shalom! this guy is a smart dud, I concur.

CramJones