Joy1706:

Na today? The guy na confam moo-moo

What is this vulture doing here? How did you manage to wade through the terrible odour from your rotten puccy to make it here?
Association of brainless twerps!(ABT)

dinachi:

What is this vulture doing here? How did you manage to wade through the terrible odour from your rotten puccy to make it here?
Association of brainless twerps!(ABT)

Here he goes again! And the only word he knows is puccy. Puccy will definitely kill you. Expand your vocab and we can chat. Till then, IGNORED!!!!!

i ve seen all the comments amd thanks anyways. my complaint here is that i did not say anything and he hit me. we initially had and argument and sometime later he came back and started talking and reigning insults on me. i decided to keep quiet, and he hit me twice.
thats what really got me angry. i ve told him that if he does it again i will embarass him by arresting him. i ve contacted project alert and am also looking for other relevant authorities that can help out.

avwerosuoo:
i ve seen all the comments amd thanks anyways. my complaint here is that i did not say anything and he hit me. we initially had and argument and sometime later he came back and started talking and reigning insults on me. i decided to keep quiet, and he hit me twice.
thats what really got me angry. i ve told him that if he does it again i will embarass him by arresting him. i ve contacted project alert and am also looking for other relevant authorities that can help out.

For them to help to do what exactly? To threaten him? To arrest so you can go back to bail him?

Don't waste their precious time unless you are prepared to leave.
You are tired but not fed up...yet

Seems like he has anger management issues...Y on earth will he comeback after an argument to yell at you and go on to hit you.

If this is his first time, I think you should let him know how unpleasant his actions are by reporting him to his family or anybody he respects.

What he doesn't realise is that his actions are killing ur love. Can't even imagine anyone touching me with the same hands he used to hit me. It is well.

avwerosuoo:
i ve seen all the comments amd thanks anyways. my complaint here is that i did not say anything and he hit me. we initially had and argument and sometime later he came back and started talking and reigning insults on me. i decided to keep quiet, and he hit me twice.
thats what really got me angry. i ve told him that if he does it again i will embarass him by arresting him. i ve contacted project alert and am also looking for other relevant authorities that can help out.

He needs anger management. If you want I will send you the name and number of the psychiatrist that helped us. It changed my marriage.

Daresh:


He needs anger management. If you want I will send you the name and number of the psychiatrist that helped us. It changed my marriage.

you can put the name of the practice and location either way
It would help someone

welldone

@ Salsera all i will do is to .
@Daresh, pls kindly post the name of the psychiatrist. Thanks.

avwerosuoo:
@ Salsera all i will do is to .
@Daresh, pls kindly post the name of the psychiatrist. Thanks.

Look I said this because of experience when you get to the point of calling organisations then you need to have your exit strategy intact financially and otherwise else you are wasting their time.

If you are not there yet then seek other solutions that people have suggested. Conflict and anger management requires 2people willing to work on improving.
I hope both of you seek solutions to this else someone maybe seriously hurt and children see a terrible pattern from their parents.

freecocoa:
In other words, it's okay to beat up a woman for supposedly insulting a man na. Don't you know what Pineapp wrote is also an insult? He called her a hypocrite so he started it.

You seem to love faulting women, weldone o.

If you insult me I go slap you! You berra watch how you talk to me

Pineapp:
I'm saying its wrong for a woman to pass boundary.

did you deactivate "odilafta"? Where have you been?

avwerosuoo:
i dont want family members involved. as for his people its a no go area cos they will not say anything. i just need an organization that helps in such issues. i want to threaten him, if it doesnt help then i make my next move. i have handed it over to God, but just getting tired, cos u dont know what to say that will aggravate him.

Madam,search for DPA on facebook. Barrister Mike(owner of the group) will fix this for you. Please do so fast. PM me if you need help on that.

avwerosuoo:
my husbands always hits me anytime we argue. i cant even talk to him when he is wrong cos he is always defensive and what he says is always right. i ve noticed that this is a pattern. pls i need the contact of any organizations that handle violence against women. i ve been quiet for too long. pls someone should help me.

Pack your load and leave. No man deserve to live with a woman like you. Set the man free, you are the Delilah in his life. This one no be fight, pack your load and go. Nonsense, you argue with him and he hits you. Did you marry a ram? Just argument and he hits you. My friend, tell me another story. If you want unanimous Nairalanders to advice you truthfully, tell us the whole story, not this your half false.

mrsmith11:


Well,before God and Man I didn't see the hypocrite until you said it.
However two wrong can't make things right but will only make things worst

I thought women are suppose to be calmer and meek. She doesn't need to reply him the same way to pass a point

Are you freaking kidding me?
Women are supposed to be calmer and meek because they are angels or what? Don't they have blood flowing in their veins? and men are supposed to be razz and stupid with no one to check them?

Oga na wa to you o
Let me come and be going.

demmie1:


If you insult me I go slap you! You berra watch how you talk to me

If you insult me too,I go slap you bruise your mouth for you,if only me no fit do am,I go call my soldiers to deal with you wella.
Nobody has the monopoly to violence

Juliearth:



Madam,search for DPA on facebook. Barrister Mike(owner of the group) will fix this for you. Please do so fast. PM me if you need help on that.

The same Barrister Emeka that believes the solution to every marital dispute is divorce and rips helpless women of their hard earned cash? Hope you know that he has been disbarred, yep he's nolonger a lawyer. He won't be of any use to her, except to collect money from her of course.

avwerosuoo:
my husbands always hits me anytime we argue. i cant even talk to him when he is wrong cos he is always defensive and what he says is always right. i ve noticed that this is a pattern. pls i need the contact of any organizations that handle violence against women. i ve been quiet for too long. pls someone should help me.

You already know that hitting you always came when you argued with him, so why continuelly argue with him or not trying to aviod things that brings arguememt?? To me, i think you can cannot stop the bird from flying over your head but you can stop it from nesting on your head.

Do you want the organization to punish your husband if you get the contact You think that will save your marriage or you are already done with the marriage?

you have been quiet for too long, so what personal efforts have you made to stop or control this so we can take it up in terms of advise from there Mind you, its your marriage we're talking about here

Makydebbie, I'm not angry but I feel there are people I should put in their place, and I want to do that once I'm out of my ban. Got the screen shot of my mails with the dude on my trash. Perhaps, they'd all learn how to stop trolling on girls who rejected their ass. I don't care about the ban anyway.

kimbra:
Makydebbi, I'm not angry but I feel there are people I should put in their place, and I want to do that once I'm out of my ban. Got the screen shot of my mails with the dude on my trash. Perhaps, they'd all learn how to stop trolling on girls who rejected their ass. I don't care about the ban anyway.

Screenshot? Don't stoop low to their level, are they even worth the stress? Sly is a mental case. I've told him that before. For him to troll you because you blocked him shows how pained he is. I just think he's not snow. But I know sly is abnormal. But whatever rocks your boat dear. If his trolling is becoming unbearable, then you can.

makydebbie:
Screenshot? Don't stoop low to their level, are they even worth the stress? Sly is a mental case. I've told him that before. For him to troll you because you blocked him shows how pained he is. I just think he's not snow. But I know sly is abnormal. But whatever rocks your boat dear. If his trolling is becoming unbearable, then you can.

If I let him go he'll definitely do same to some other girl. Not to mention the Thorna.pple girl he trolled too. It'll put him and his likes in check I guess, so if it's stooping low, I want to.

kimbra:
If I let him go he'll definitely do same to some other girl. Not to mention the Thorna.pple girl he trolled too. It'll put him and his likes in check I guess, so if it's stooping low, I want to.

Okay dear. I agree with you.

IKP120, you no well o!.
Got your mention but can't comment on romance section till 10pm 'cause of Antispam boot.

makydebbie:
Okay dear. I agree with you.

Cool.
Have a nice day.

kimbra:
IKP120, you no well o!.
Got your mention but can't comment on romance section till 10pm 'cause of Antispam boot.

Hehehehehe

Awww, I'm so sorry for the bot ish.

You must do that for me o Just show me the video in the other room. Hehehehehe

ikp120:
Hehehehehe

Awww, I'm so sorry for the bot ish.

You must do that for me o Just show me the video in the other room. Hehehehehe

I'd rather keep werking skills for my future hubby.

kimbra:
I'd rather keep werking skills for my future hubby.

That's me na.

ikp120:
That's me na.

Really?, let's see how it goes.

See you later.

kimbra:
Really?, let's see how it goes.
See you later.

Yeah baby! See ya

kimbra:
Makydebbie, I'm not angry but I feel there are people I should put in their place, and I want to do that once I'm out of my ban. Got the screen shot of my mails with the dude on my trash. Perhaps, they'd all learn how to stop trolling on girls who rejected their ass. I don't care about the ban anyway.

oya na

Make i create moniker for you to use?

Me i just want drama

Insult is a common trait among male members too. Look around you man

mrsmith11:


Must you insult when making your point.

It seems to be very common among female members here then tomorrow you will open a thread that your husband is abusing you whereas you can't. Open your mouth without insulting

SMH

avwerosuoo:
my husbands always hits me anytime we argue. i cant even talk to him when he is wrong cos he is always defensive and what he says is always right. i ve noticed that this is a pattern. pls i need the contact of any organizations that handle violence against women. i ve been quiet for too long. pls someone should help me.

How do you sound when correcting him? Do you sound critical or you are gentle about it? Hurtful words can lead to hurtful response