He stays with his anty. He said last week, His girlfriendcame for a visit and spent two nights with him despite the fact that he occupies a room at the boys quaters behind the house, his anty called him aside after she left and exrssed her unhappiness. Friends, what other candid advise can i give him. I think the first mistake he made was not getting his own room.

When you live in a house that is not your sweat do not try that,give her some respect...calm down NYSC go soon finish.there is no advise for such,africa is Africa don't go western to those elderly peeps they see it as insult

People are different. The dude should learn to introduce his girlfriend to the family, probably this would not have occurred.




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This one is STRONG.

Why must a girl she is yet to marry spent 2 nights with him in the same room


His Aunty has done the right thing


He should heed to advise of the elders so as not to go astray

reply in one word .
this is AFRICA

Utter disrespect.
U smuggled food from ur Aunty's kitchen for it, it used her water, light, had illegal sex with it on her property for two days.
Bros, u don old pass ds kain thing o. When sex seems better in d confines of a house rather than hotels e mean say u don ready to marry. So take responsibility of ur life. Get ur space and fvk whatever thing u like.



Op is the friend. Serving in Jos batch C. Ur topics don't lie.

Is his aunty married or single? Is she widowed or a divorcee? I need this information as a guide to my contribution and to know whether her worries are genuine. I don't subscribe to camping a girl in someone else's house-a visit is okay but if his Aunty's worries are genuine, there's a way to go about it. Mrs A and B can correct a person on same issue and Mrs. A's manner of correction will be considered while that of Mrs. B will be rebuffed.

You don't respect your Aunt!

If u think u are that old, why didn't u rent your own space/room. Claiming big boy in your Aunt's place.

Shes even calm. She is meant to throw u out.


And the shameless girl moaning under you in your Aunt's place has no respect too.


Op! Respect your elders. This is naija not western country.

Her house,her rules!

HarkymTheOracle:
This one is STRONG.

Moni eleyi gidi gan!!!

All comments will be taken under advisement. I will relate it all to him. Thanks all.

Get yourself a job and move out of anty's house.

focus7:
Get yourself a job and move out of anty's house.

Gbam and if you bring in 20 girls she won't complain even if she's aware of it


if you want respect as a man never live off your relatives it gives them legitimacy to disrespect you and invade your privacy

Your aunty is quite gentle. Something similar happened to me, I kicked him out the next day. No time

The aunt does not want to aid fornication. I am sure this guy calls himself a christian or a muslim, yet he has been sleeping around and jumping from one girl to another. Or does the guy want to prove to use that he has only be sleeping side by side with the girl on his bed and not laying on her? Only God knows how abortions this guy has done for several girls.

When in someone's space(especially aunts and whatnot) respect their wishes.

Her house, her rules.

SAMBARRY:
Gbam and if you bring in 20 girls she won't complain even if she's aware of it


if you want respect as a man never live off your relatives it gives them legitimacy to disrespect you and invade your privacy

SAMBARRY:
Gbam and if you bring in 20 girls she won't complain even if she's aware of it


if you want respect as a man never live off your relatives it gives them legitimacy to disrespect you and invade your privacy

Well done! 4 once!

funlord:


Well done! 4 once!

caman shattap who cares about your opinion as regards my post

SAMBARRY:
caman shattap who cares about your opinion as regards my post

SAMBARRY:
caman shattap who cares about your opinion as regards my post

As usual your bone deep _stupidiity is easily exposed when prodded! NL is a "public forum" so you can choose to "log out forever" if you don't want people commenting on your posts or exposing your consistently flawed reasoning ! And by the way it was not "my opinion" but actually a "NOTICE" for unsuspecting viewers of your mentions who may be new to this section to be aware of! Take care for now "smallie"! Lol!!!

that your aunt is modern day aunt sef.when i waz still under my family the girl won't sleep there and one of her shoes must be missing when she is thrown out

oyin01:
He stays with his anty. He said last week, His girlfriendcame for a visit and spent two nights with him despite the fact that he occupies a room at the boys quaters behind the house, his anty called him aside after she left and exrssed her unhappiness. Friends, what other candid advise can i give him. I think the first mistake he made was not getting his own room.

The Aunty was very kind to stop at scolding

boss1310:
that your aunt is modern day aunt sef.when i waz still under my family the girl won't sleep there and one of her shoes must be missing when she is thrown out

I didn't see this before. You spoke my mind except that the "throw out" would be both lover boy and lover girl