I have been married for one year now and I am not happy neither do I have peace of mind. First my husband has a very bad temper which I knew even before we got married and he said he will change but he never laid a finger on me before the marriage, he is always angry over any little thing, he doesn't allow me associate with people even our neighbours and he keeps to himself that anytime I want to talk to him he will say I am disturbing him and he hardly talks to me, he doesn't believe in someone falling sick and hardly and he said sorry he is not in his dictionary. He became physical almost immediately after marriage and he says am getting strong with the beatings.
He uses words that are so hurtful for me and shouts on me all the time to the extent of him always banging the calls on me, I select the words I use in order not to upset him. I cry everyday and I have lost weight though I have reported to my parents and they have been advicing him and he will say he will change but continues the same attitude when nobody is there. I have been praying and patient with him thinking all will be well but it's getting worse everyday. I am so confused and sad.
Please advice me on what to do.

If you aren't pregnant yet jus leave the edeiot





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If you aren't pregnant yet jus leave the edeiot

No I am not pregnant because I virtually Have to beg him during my ovulation and sometimes he refuses.

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If you aren't pregnant yet jus leave the edeiot

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If you aren't pregnant yet jus leave the edeiot

Do you realise that its her husband you just called an edeiot?

.Op i think one year is too short a time for you to contemplate walking out of your marriage. I urge you to exercise more patience. Just find a way to adapt to his person and character.

Leave the Marriage asap. They are a lot of caring men around like me that are ready to take care of you.
*****Modifed******
Let the woman organize boys to
beat him up and strip him
Unclad....outside, if you people
don't stand up for yourselves in
your so-called husband house, i
wonder what help NL can render. Open your eyes and stand up and
stop eating rice and receiving
slaps ontop. if you want to keep
eating rice and dodo, please do,
and don't come here complaining
that your hubby is beating you up. Na women like you dey tie their
husbands and lash the living-hell
out of him. I rest my case.
cc: lalasticlala

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If you aren't pregnant yet jus leave the edeiot

Your future husband is an ediot.....

U knew he was hot tempered n yet u married him, u hv to keep praying, i cnt advice u divorce.

lisaOG:
No I am not pregnant because I virtually Have to beg him during my ovulation and sometimes he refuses.

you just described the devil up there lady .
I don't know what to say now, I will be right back

That is one tin abt we ladies, u knew right frm d on-set dat he has a bad temper yet u till went ahead 2 marry him, hmmmmmm well keep bearing it and put him in prayer mayb he might change.

I really hope he does not kill you

Toxic husbands

Fast and pray

If it does not work

Run

U are better single and alive Dan married and dead..

In the Words of my Mum " A marriage Mistake is the worst mistake someone can ever make"

Op....Didn't you go through the Period of Courtship before marriage??

Report him to his Parents or Siblings and hear what they have to say


Only Cowards Quit Responsibilities

You can't tell us you don't know his behavior before you end up with him because their his know how a hot temper man can hide his character for long without your awareness (you just don't want us to blame you, that's why you said that )

I will not advice you to leave because they are guys out there more worst than your husband. Just pray and keep telling his parents to help you calm him down and moreover, we don't know your own attitude towards him because you ladies get una own for body

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If you aren't pregnant yet jus leave the edeiot

You should have some respect for someone's husband. And he could be someone's father as well.

Wonder y pple think change is something that happens overnight, or occurs usin a magic wand. Thats d essence of courtship, if he/she exihibits a bad xracter durin courtship, n does not adjust, jst end d rlationship, cos after marriage it either he/she gets worst or better n most times pple especially guys get worse because after marriage he feels he owns u onlike wen ur datin.

Dont ever marry someone who has a xracter u cant cope with, with d hope that he or she will change after marriage.

Ur already in it, u ve to endure, wen nxt he beats u up, jst. Pack ur things n live, till he comes to back to his senses.

fatdon2:
Leave the Marriage asap. They are a lot of caring men around like me that are ready to take care of you

So you prefer other people's wife abi.

Nemesis will catch you oh

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If you aren't pregnant yet jus leave the edeiot

This is how ediots sound.



You obviously don't know the gravity of the offense you committed with that statement alone.

what are you waiting for ...give him a break maybe that will make him come back to his senses

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All of you calling me unprintable names will still come here to and abuse the husband and say RIP if the OP dies in the mans hand eventually. God forbid [/b

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You are such a disgrace to Ladies.. human race in totalty... Time will not permit me to describe you with words that fits you.However I advice you take back those words or you had wish you never signed up for nairaland when I come back. You have my words

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If you aren't pregnant yet jus leave the edeiot

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All of you calling me unprintable names will still come here to and abuse the husband and say RIP if the OP dies in the mans hand eventually. God forbid [/b

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how old 're you

what have you been doing that's is making him get angry? I will advice you to stop it.

since he has taken it to a whole new level(giving you compound beating) leave the house this will make him have a rethink.

I won't tell you to divorce because divorce is a very sensitive issue as a lot of factors must be considered.

Na Wa oh? If your marriage is about 2 crash then put on your seat belt! All these "labe orun" stories no dey finish 4 nl sha!

Dis is strong. D deed has already been done. Jst try n avoid him at all cost. Buh if d beatings increase,i wil advice u leave d house 4 d mean tym b4 he kills u b4 ur tym

AsanwaKC:
what are you waiting for ...give him a break maybe that will make him come back to his senses

a break? Seriously? N wot if dt doesn't make tinz beta n ruin d marriage.

Mhizizzy:
I really hope he does not kill you

Toxic husbands

Fast and pray

If it does not work

Run

U are better single and alive Dan married and dead..

GOD BLESS YOU

pretydiva:
Dis is strong. D deed has already been done. Jst try n avoid him at all cost. Buh if d beatings increase,i wil advice u leave d house 4 d mean tym b4 he kills u b4 ur tym

GOD BLESS YOU

Op patience do wat he ask u to do dnt brag @him jst keep on doin ur duty as a wife ur reward will cum very soon if he finds out wat u av been doin he will change pray 4 him every day, Patience nd continuous pray op u need

AlienStar:
a break? Seriously? N wot if dt doesn't make tinz beta n ruin d marriage.

is it not better it's ruined now than 10 years leter...when she don old finish...if it doesn't work she should move on..just a year and all this surfing..hmmm....the earlier the better.

fatdon2:
Leave the Marriage asap. They are a lot of caring men around like me that are ready to take care of you

Please be serious

starlingslimnet:
You are such a disgrace to Ladies.. human race in totalty... Time will not permit me to describe you with words that fits you.However I advice you take back those words or you had wish you never signed up for nairaland when I come back. You have my words

You're a funny boy