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Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 1:54pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Abi o, instead of committing adultery,adultery wey dey bring badluck,poverty,he will soon realise it. lonelydora: |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by daresimon(m): 2:02pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Of what use will my opinion when you had your mind made up. Abeg do as you wish jare. The pr**k is your strength. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Chatlaury(f): 2:07pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Op you better retrace your step for your own good, what you are doing is morally wrong,you are claiming to love this your bank colleague so much that you can't leave her, then if you are proud of your relationship why did you guys abort the fruit of your so called love,you know the truth you are just looking for someone to validate your evil lifestyle. Also remember that as a bank worker your work is not guaranteed and anything can happen anytime,will *sweetnina* still be with you if you lose your job?the answer is No.go back to your wife,ask for a transfer to Abuja instead of putting the relocation issue on your wife only.we all make mistakes,so take this as a mistake and correct it now for the sake of your family. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by sukkot: 2:15pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
mysweetnina:Well either your wife is stingy or you have no sense of humor |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by anumide(f): 2:21pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
mysweetnina:why do you want to put your children in danger? why? why? why? why are you trying to destroy years of work, and commitment because of an erect pen1s? why? |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by pek(m): 2:23pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
The OP has told us in clear terms that we should not advise him to leave the new lady. My advise is therefore to others: there is a way that seems right to everyman, but the end thereof is destruction. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Abio atleast,so they can efight and curse, but am thinking the prostitute banker is here on nairaland. oismail: |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 2:28pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
chairman hmmmm danla44: |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
ha sangbafo oooo mgbedianya: |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by oismail(m): 2:38pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
uplawal:I don't think she's a prostitute neither she's acting as one. She is only in love with the wrong person and only took advantage of the wife who preferred carrier to family union. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Nobody: 2:40pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
you dnt have brain at all, inn life you sacrifice,particularly marriage,not a good thing for couple to leave separately,the husband is the head,he can't quit for her,as sole responsibility rest on him. Daresh: |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Jummymine(f): 2:53pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Very very very simple. marry her as your second wife.! |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by BluStreak(m): 3:12pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Some people are just responding without laying all the cards on the table. I am not in support of what this guy is doing, but who has wondered what he may have been through? Men too go through emotional torture and his reaction may have been borne out of paranoia and then he found himself where he is today. Some women can really bring out the other side of even an angel Gabriel. 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Miscellaneous(m): 3:22pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
DrGroove: drgroove, how are u so sure? Dont cause trouble for ursef one day with dis idea that all men cheat. . . I'm a guy & I dont think I can ever do that. . There are many guys who cant too. 99.9% haba. . . U reason am na 2 Likes |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Vikky014(f): 4:17pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
NifemiOlu:you made d op to deactivate by dis revelation. oya update us. i hope d wife will file for divorcei cant stand a cheatn hubby 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by dasparrow: 5:47pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
@Post You see why I keep saying that most Nigerian marriages are a scam? First of all, I thought pathetic Nigerians say that being married means that the person is responsible? Can you call this OP (mysweetnina) a responsible man? Why do many Nigerians even waste their time taking marital vows when most of you are going to break those vows down the line anyway? Many of you married folks are just a bunch of losers nursing that sexually transmitted disease your cheating spouses passed on to you. Listen here, some of you ought to stay single if you know you cannot stay in a monogamous relationship faithfully. Many married Nigerians make marriage look like a joke because many of you don't take the marriage institution seriously. Later on, many of you will have the nerve, the audacity, to ask single people why they are single when you the married one continue to mess up. OP, You better free your wife if your heart and soul is no longer in your marriage and take good care of your offspring. Make sure you don't marry again because marriage is not for people like you who disrespect the sanctity of marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by temifisayo(f): 5:56pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Mamaflex: u're not the only one. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by cap28: 5:58pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
dasparrow: The reason for this is because there are no penalties for a Nigerian man when he cheats on his wife: will your wife leave you taking half of your wealth and your kids - no will you be denied access to your kids if you cheat - no will you be forced to work two jobs to keep up with child support payments - no so why wouldn't cheating be part of life to the average Nigerian man. Many marry not for love but to find someone who will cook, clean and have children for them with no consequences. You can beat her up or walk out on her and she will still come back on her knees begging to be forgiven - A paradise for misogynists! 3 Likes |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by temifisayo(f): 6:15pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
sukkot: let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth. but that which is good for edifying, that it may minister grace to the hearers. show the love of God, not your "wisdom" . Child of God. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by sukkot: 6:20pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
temifisayo:2 CORINTHIANS 11 VS 6 But though I be rude in speech, yet not in knowledge; but we have been throughly made manifest among you in all things. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by stpat1(m): 6:37pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
I k ow how you feel. I don't subscribe remaining in a loveless union. Also remember though, the grass is sometimes not greener on the other side. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by temifisayo(f): 6:39pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
MrsChima: I respected you before........ smh |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by temifisayo(f): 6:43pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
sukkot: I just wish you could represent Christ with the love of God. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by sukkot: 6:47pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
temifisayo:isaiah 45 vs 7 I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the Lord do all these things. 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by Lokooneone(m): 6:59pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
The path in which you are threading will only lead to divorce n it will surely have an adverse effect on ur kids. Retrace your steps. Go for counseling with your wife n call it quit with your office lover immediately. If you think you are enjoying your adultery life now, you will cry n find no one to consol you later. My 50 cent. All the best. See my signature. Check my blog. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by temifisayo(f): 7:04pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
sukkot: am done with you man. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by efficiencie(m): 7:21pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Stupidity personified! This is not love, this is satisfaction of your wicked desires. You are no different from politicians who believe the 'ends (desires) justifies any means'...If your wife had the same ideal and decides to have a toy boy to mess with, your new girlfriend decides to add your boss to the list of bed mates and your kids decide to have fun by doing drugs and practicing incest...what moral backing would you fool have to correct them... Monumental fools like you provide the ethical flaw that back every ill in our society! |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by sukkot: 7:55pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
temifisayo:you cant handle the truth ruth |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by kingdenny(m): 8:45pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
The truth must be told. That lady is demonic , agent of Satan, on one mission to destroy your marriage and destroy your life. she is almost at the point of mission accomplished, retrace your steps and call on Your God to save you before its too late. All, you feel now is pure fantasy that would evaporate once she had accomplished her mission you have been warned ignored at your own detriment |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by andyanders: 10:08pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
Op is mad, undeveloped and uncultured.He is a disgrace to fatherhood,his profession and worthless man who deserve to be stoned for the comment he has made herein. I have never EVER seen a man with his right senses that would make such uncomplimentary statement about his legally married wife and kids and even went ahead to say "her children" and I ow wonder if actually this guy is normal.Only mad man refers his children as her children when a woman cannot make children unless a man is involved. He needs to be taken to Yaba or to Prophet T. B. Joshua to know the kind spirit that has taken over him and get him delivered. 1 Like |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by MrsChima(f): 10:17pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
temifisayo: ok. |
Re: Married With Kids But Deeply In Love With Another Lady by DrGroove(f): 9:53am On Jun 29, 2015 |
Miscellaneous:I am 100% sure! You people say you are naturally polygamous.Bleep is food to you,one woman can never be enough.you can't eat one type of food everytime, so u gat change mouth. abi no be so? which African married man doesn't commit adultery?at least once in that marriage?? personally,i dont have a problem with that.Just play safe, don't defile my daughter and bring not your thrash home! |
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