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32 year old man with no sense. damage your kids life for puzzy ? walahi the witches in ya village are on overtime. you cant look into your kids eye and see that as reason to work on your marriage ? when you craze now people go dey pity you. dey dont know all the wickedness you have been doing

You need Jesus

mysweetnina:
Nairalanders, I need mature and real people opinion here.

I am a banker, 32, married with two kids, boy and girl. My wife works with a MDA in abuja while I work out from Nassarawa. I rented a 2 bedroom flat for them in Lugbe, abuja while i visit every weekend. I love her and love the kids however I notice we dont agree on a lot of things, mostly financial matters. she prefer i spend all on her and her kids and whenevr i am broke, she will gladly lend me cash. I dont ve ish with that and i ve been enjoying it for years now. I cheat on her but i dont see it as cheating but rather caring for my emotional needs. I have talked her into coming to stay in lafia with me before but i noticed she is very comfortable with her job and i dont want to be the reason for career truncation/ dissatisfaction in her life.

i decide to live my life in my own way; strategically sleeping with other ladies as need be. recently, i asked my colleague out. a lady banker, same level. for 3 months now, we have been hot and i can no longer touch or tolerate my wife. my colleague recently took in for me but we took care of it. i am scared as she is madly in love with me and she is available. I am also madly in love with her. i am choosing her over my wife right now. how can I solve this.

Guys I love her, dont tell me to leave her. we enjoy sex together in a way I dont with my wife. Just give your honest opinion to help those that may find themselves in my place someday.

Thank u.

God! !!!! There is something so strong in this word "Love" I'm telling you with Experience. ..........when I say love I mean love ooo not all these digital love wee all these small small girls and boys thee do these days

vivypretty:
I don't think you need the advice, we will take your advice "don't tell me to leave her"

Abi now, what's there to say again?

Gaborone:
Shame on you.

May hail stones rain down on your hollow bald head.

Hehehehehehehehehehehehehe...
*faints*

Motion seconded

At my age, I don't give a grown man advice on this kind of topic. Why didn't you marry the said lady.

sukkot:
32 year old man with no sense. damage your kids life for puzzy ? walahi the witches in ya village are on overtime. you cant look into your kids eye and see that as reason to work on your marriage ? when you craze now people go dey pity you. dey dont know all the wickedness you have been doing

He is in transition

Did you mention "we took care of the pregnancy"?.. Common bro...my honest advice.. Think about the children, they're always the worst hit by a divorce.. Please...what is wrong with our men

mysweetnina:
Nairalanders, I need mature and real people opinion here.

I am a banker, 32, married with two kids, boy and girl. My wife works with a MDA in abuja while I work out from Nassarawa. I rented a 2 bedroom flat for them in Lugbe, abuja while i visit every weekend. I love her and love the kids however I notice we dont agree on a lot of things, mostly financial matters. she prefer i spend all on her and her kids and whenevr i am broke, she will gladly lend me cash. I dont ve ish with that and i ve been enjoying it for years now. I cheat on her but i dont see it as cheating but rather caring for my emotional needs. I have talked her into coming to stay in lafia with me before but i noticed she is very comfortable with her job and i dont want to be the reason for career truncation/ dissatisfaction in her life.

i decide to live my life in my own way; strategically sleeping with other ladies as need be. recently, i asked my colleague out. a lady banker, same level. for 3 months now, we have been hot and i can no longer touch or tolerate my wife. my colleague recently took in for me but we took care of it. i am scared as she is madly in love with me and she is available. I am also madly in love with her. i am choosing her over my wife right now. how can I solve this.

Guys I love her, dont tell me to leave her. we enjoy sex together in a way I dont with my wife. Just give your honest opinion to help those that may find themselves in my place someday.

Thank u.

well..

Op...I don't sympathise.





Leave ur wife na,get married to the new one whom u love soooo much.





Then watch in 3D as ur new love transforms into ur former wife.



Rubbish

mysweetnina:
Nairalanders, I need mature and real people opinion here.

I am a banker, 32, married with two kids, boy and girl. My wife works with a MDA in abuja while I work out from Nassarawa. I rented a 2 bedroom flat for them in Lugbe, abuja while i visit every weekend. I love her and love the kids however I notice we dont agree on a lot of things, mostly financial matters. she prefer i spend all on her and her kids and whenevr i am broke, she will gladly lend me cash. I dont ve ish with that and i ve been enjoying it for years now. I cheat on her but i dont see it as cheating but rather caring for my emotional needs. I have talked her into coming to stay in lafia with me before but i noticed she is very comfortable with her job and i dont want to be the reason for career truncation/ dissatisfaction in her life.

i decide to live my life in my own way; strategically sleeping with other ladies as need be. recently, i asked my colleague out. a lady banker, same level. for 3 months now, we have been hot and i can no longer touch or tolerate my wife. my colleague recently took in for me but we took care of it. i am scared as she is madly in love with me and she is available. I am also madly in love with her. i am choosing her over my wife right now. how can I solve this.

Guys I love her, dont tell me to leave her. we enjoy sex together in a way I dont with my wife. Just give your honest opinion to help those that may find themselves in my place someday.

Thank u.

It is a shame it ain't working out for you with your wife. You need to be honest with your self and choose wisely. You have the right to be happy and not stay in an unhappy marriage. Be man enough to tell your wife and follow your heart. I know many people will quote bible passages or tell you stay in an unhappy marriage due to ancient beliefs or religious beliefs. Think about the fact that your decision to move will most likely be irreversible,but you being happy and honest is important.

Freemanan:


He is in transition

transition to pain and misery. karma is real. he will surely pay for everything he is doing

ur love for ur wife has faded completely, and no advice or talk can make you love her again or leave ur adulterous partner, just make it clear to ur wife that a second wife is on the way..at least it cuts the adulterous life..

Hope d gal is not TIV, otherwise u re killing yourself agradually, better go. back to ur legally married wife, abi Na eggon be d gal.... I pity u, those ladies in Lafia can Bleep like tomorrow no dey.....

So many men are in this man shoe .
I will advice .you talk to your wife by confessing .from their reaffirmed your love and unite with your kids .

sukkot:
transition to pain and misery. karma is real. he will surely pay for everything he is doing

Let GOD be the judge of morality Love

no love in you home bro









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If you dump your wife and go with the new one, how long will it be before the cycle repeats itself? "Round and round, round it goes; where it stops, nobody knows"

Omavik:
Ur own happiness shld b ur priority.. stick to whatever /whoever makes u happy... follow ur mind sir...

look at this one. see im mouth. when you decide to bring kids into this world it is no longer about your happiness. and na man go marry this one sha . walahi end time woman na hin make this post

President Buhari

Omavik:
Ur own happiness shld b ur priority.. stick to whatever /whoever makes u happy... follow ur mind sir...

What do you mean, "he should follow his mind"?

Didn't you read the horrible mind of his up there in the Op?

At op, the banker girl use juju for yhu....... Pray to God, he can deliver u from that spear

I can dare you that this 'hot love' will grow cold or even become ice block when you marry this woman and she starts having kids for you.
I am sure you started out hot with your wife before marriage and here we are now.
Please, before you become a serial marriage breaker or divorcee, run fast from this your banker lover with your heels touching your ears to your wife and kids.
Compromise is the way to go in having a successful marriage as there is no perfect marriage but our deliberate and conscious efforts makes it work. I know this and that is what I am telling you.

Run, run, run and fast too from your lover. It's no love from your side but intensity as the whole thing is centered around love making.
Wish you the best in your marriage and a happy family.

U don't want us to tell u to leave ur girlfriend..
Sounds to me like u hav already made up ur mind on what to do so u don't need any advice
What I will tell u is, it not worth it
Dats all

Freemanan:

Let GOD be the judge of morality Love

God has appointed men on earth to judge

1 corinthians 2 vs 15 But he that is spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no man.

handsomeclouds:
Its infatuation and if you aren't careful the babe would want ro get serious with the relationship. Meaning you will be considering having two wives, since you don't wanna leave your wife. BTW this your new catch could have / would still charm you in the long run. Take it or leave it!

New and unknown is always exciting but once it runs out he will look for another woman.

andromida:
Nina is the colleague right?

Hahaha...You bad gan, I took that question from my mind.

let me start by asking you a few question: are you a Xtian? did you had a church wedding wit ur wife? if answers to dis questions is yes,den you need to wake up from your lustful sleep and face what God has given to you.
true, women can be annoying sometimes,but as a man,try to make your marriage work by bringing back your first love that brought you and your wife together.
as for the lady banker/your Mistress, she is not doing herself any good rather are you helping her matter...she needs to realise that you are not for her....
your marriage can work again only if you allow it...
shalom!

If say na woman now, all of una go dey bad mouth am...just because he's a man or should I say fellow brother, they don't see anything wrong with d nonsense story he's telling. He called cheating on his a good thing, may God help u all.