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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by humilitypays(m): 7:10pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
humilitypays:....and to the ladies searching for Mr. Right, have u also made yourself Ms Right Or dont u ladies know that Mr. Right is also searching for Ms Right Have you ladies ever asked yourselves this question: since i want a male gold, am I a female diamond to attract that gold i want If you are aluminium and u are busy searching for diamond, dont u think u are hurting yourself and may end up warming the beds of these your dream men who will never commit to u since u arent up to what they themselves want? Pls ladies always access yourself and know if u are worth the kind of men u are waiting for to avoid numerous heartbreaks 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 7:12pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Shymm3x: True , Seal is soft spoken , romantic and has that superstar persona that aspiring broke aśś Russian model long for to break into Hollywood connection . I doubt Heidi will poke him with a long fork if he's a broke aśś? 'sides we don't know if the brother in OP is hopeless romantic too but OP ain't having all that. These girls ain't loyal bro, it's all bout maneeey !! 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by 2sex(m): 7:13pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
proxillin:That's the spirit bro... 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by domopps(m): 7:13pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Hmmmmmmm Critical one stick with the guy if you want to! But change ur mentality about his current situation, You are not his God and the fact that his broke doesn't mean he will b e broke for life! Cheeeeeers |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Nobody: 7:14pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
irishCream: Are you saying you can cope with a handsome and rich man who does not care or love you? Are you saying this man has no potentials and in future he will not be rich? In marriage, all the conditions we desire may not be available in one person, in fact the cases of finding the perfect mr right is like one in hundred. You have to compromise at one point or the other. You seem not to like this man at all, pls don't marry him out of pity or selfishness, let him go..... |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 7:19pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Mintayo: You blame them? What 'self insufficiency' & 'keeping up with the joneses' syndrome will cause in this world, a 1M tonne truck fork lift wont be able to haul it. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by iwakunbaba: 7:20pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
this is my story dear...... when i met my woman (i've been married close to 9years now) i never had any feelings for her. whenever she comes around and seek my help in her academics ( we were on campus dat time) i will demand for money for my services but my close friend will help her for free. i had other ladies and don't tolerate her but every time i think back i am grateful to GOD to have married her. i seriously support you consider jaybee3 comments he doesn't have to be attractive cos attraction does not equal to happines and peace of mind in marriage. also pray about it thanks 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by ManTiger(m): 7:20pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:I just dash u one like to make it 100LIKES. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
ManTiger:... That's the way to go |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by OmoEziokwu: 7:24pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Now people is this scenario any different from the dreaded friend zone dudes always moan about? Imagine the pains the dude has to go through having a woman reject him yet still having his attention. That dude is a disgrace still trying to prove himself. What a clod he is having to put himself through this pain despite the fact she obviously abhors him. He is basically her girlfriend if he isn't f-ucking her. Let this be a lesson to all these twats on this forum running around and disrespecting themselves because of most of these females on here and out there who offer next to nothing. Instead of dudes to see the so-called mixed messages as pure rejection, they still find make excuses for the same person flaking on them. Stop desexualizing yourself to look more attractive to them. She should be shaving your back and making you sandwiches. Too many stupid boys/males/whatever out there it's insane. Smile at their prattle and move away, you've got stuff to do. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Revolva(m): 7:27pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Keep waiting for the right man ok....womenand their dreams waiting for prince charming...no go marry until u go enter 39 yrs |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by AdeniyiA(m): 7:31pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
2sex:don't mind some of them, they practically have nothing to bring to the union/table but they want it all... 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 7:36pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
ednut1: Money gooduu oh Fresh and fine A brotha was granted a study visa & came here for his post graduate program after a bad breakup, he went home after he acquired his Permanent Residency. Aswear he refused to marry till now, we are begging him but e no go gree He's all built and fresh compared to his oogly mango eyeballs when he landed years ago |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by CORRECTMAN78(m): 7:36pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
"Hard to get, hard to get, that's how aunty Joy clocked 40". My candid advice-- don't marry him cause you presently don't love him because he is not rice. Worst stil, he's ugly. Don't go make the guy's life a living hell. He will eventually find someone who love him the way he is. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Shymm3x: 7:41pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Lol. The real modern day Anyway, a lot of women are naturally preconditioned to be attracted to status and wealth, that's just the reality. The crazy world that we live in, yet men don't get their just due for always being the ones to work extremely hard to get to a status. However, after getting there, we've to come down and pick a woman below us - something most women won't do. So, basically, I won't blame her too tough - I blame the guy for trying to go for a chic out of his league, and trying to force what isn't there. Attraction (physical and/or material) and connection are the two most important things in relationships. And once whoever you're running after doesn't see both in you, it's better to leave it there and keep it moving. Don't force things. The more you force things, the more you'll keep breaking yourself and getting distracted from more important things. I wouldn't even advise the chic to settle. She doesn't want him and I doubt she'll ever see anything good in him. So why use the guy cos she can't find someone else - thus systematically destroying him mentally in the process? If I were the guy, I'll just leave her alone and use it as an inspiration/motivation to move to other things. And who falls in love with someone he barely even knows and that keeps rejecting him? They both need help. 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Sigo86(m): 7:42pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
vfactor: Ehn |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by adahsim07: 7:42pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Freemanan: Gbege nla |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by holyeye1989(m): 7:44pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
IF U CLOCK 30 HUMMM NO HOPE OOO ...BETER GRAB THIS GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY ....WITH TIME U LL START LOVING HIM.....MANA ASIKWANA NA MUSI OOO..BIKO KWA |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
adahsim07:I am the first person you mention... Welcome to NL
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Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by ceezah: 7:46pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Post your picture let's see how fine you're that a man will be toasting you, and you be doing busy body, and while you're posting picture, also post like three pictures of the handsome men wey your fada don mould keep for house, then and only then I will comment. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Sigo86(m): 7:46pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Tallesty1: No doubt! Dats d fact!!! Am sure she wud've re-consider d guy if after a year of wooing her, she come see d guy in a latest auto-mobile in town. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
xoljon: Hmmm.....(Thinking) You nailed it! |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by pickabeau1: 7:51pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4: evulz... Those who enter with their eyes open sha.. dem tori dey sweet |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Sigo86(m): 7:51pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Tallesty1: GBAM!!! |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by nkem123(m): 7:52pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
irishCream:forget abt hw u feel abt him for nw.focus on d qualities he posses, does he posses d quality of an ideal man? if he posses d quality of an ideal man roll with him.if nt presentable teach him how to dress with time d feelings will come gradually.I met a girl through Facebook late last year, she was ugly, nt presentable, looking primitive.my initial plan was to lay with her and then dump her.bt her character and attitude caught my heart, I started to take care of her gradually.as am writing to u, she is one of d most beautiful girl In my area nw, men are running after her , am d one scared of loosing her nw.it's 8months of relationship nw and our luv is growing stronger everyday. anybody is cute and presentable depending on hw they are being taking care of. 50k a month is nt that bad for young couple, most big family u see today started even worst than that. 1 Like |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by pickabeau1: 7:58pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4: This was the same way it used to be in the West they moved on..once women started having jobs and careers The economy in Niigeria is still the issue Give it time |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Sigo86(m): 7:59pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
bellong: Hahaha.. U really went Analytical on her Poo-post.. It all boils down 2greed nd selfishness. 2an average naija babe, a wrong nd not right Man is d type with a job with meagre Salary. Dat's 1reason she's now 29 nd still searching.... |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 8:23pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Hahaha That is to say 'Marriage is to be only ENJOYED not ENDURED' mantra is Bullcrap? Ofcourse the latter arent always the case for celebrities , Politicians & made tycoons like Adenuga & Momoodu et al's wives. Ayam learning |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by mecussey(m): 8:28pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
irishCream: babe, @ 29 you would be getting desperate either naturally or by pressure. However, have it in mind that you still have some life to live. Do not worry about what friends or inlaws or people think. When you say, my guy is not presentable, have it in mind that you are also not presentable somewhere. Always give life a chance, everybody has something to offer. My advice is to search urself well and conclude that the guy is not the kind of person you can cohabit with. E.g even and already made cloth, someone made it therefore, it was never ready made. Give him a chance and study him further, you might eventually fall in love. This love of a thing is never 50/50, someone must love more.. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by dotune(m): 8:28pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Well..., OBJ too is kinda ugly. I'm sorry Baba iyabo. But truth is that, he has ruled this country for about 3 times and he ended up marrying pretty women. U rem Stella Obasanjo? She was one of them. I'm just saying many women make irreversible mistakes making marriage decisions based on the current looks and finances of the bobo. I guess u should talk to God and let him guide u. If that's Gods choice for u...u will never regret it. If not, let the brother stay forever in that air conditioned friend zone. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by tete7000(m): 8:33pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Tallesty1: There are billions of men in the world, if at the end of the day I decide to marry x out of the billions of men around probably because he has some qualities I desire in a man, does that not mean that x is the man for me? if we have certain characteristics we want in people and we look around hoping that a certain person out of billions of person at a certain time will meet those features, does that not imply that the person in question is the person for us? The fact that we have met many before him/her and we didn't consider them worthy not meant that he/she is the only person for us? Mind you I believe everyone has that certain person who only can give them the desired peace they want in a spouse. Sometimes, as in the case of op here we could have met them but for some reasons we don't buy into such a person, if we come around later to accept such a person, it doesn't meet that this theory has been disproved. To buttress my argument, let look at this scenario: I met Kemi, initially I refused her but after some failures with many ladies I decided to marry her. Now in my marriage with her I discovered that I grow to love her and wouldnt have wished I married another? Does my initial doubt and refusal means that Kemi is a random choice and I could have married another lady? No!, what it means is that there are certain characteristics about myself which I am never conscious of and the fact that only Kemi brings this to surface and eventually met my aspiration only buttress the fact that she is the only one meant for me. What am I driving at? The fact that we are individuals brought in certain manners and with our preferences infers that not everyone can meet our desired needs in our choice of spouses. If we prayerful search and wait patiently on God, we will at a particular time meet that ONLY one person who compliments us. I believe we are not a product of chance but people specially created by God. Our ability to however meet that person depends on how much we are willingly to follow God. Many people have been led into making wrong and thus having miserable marriages because they believe they can marry anyone. When it looks like time is going, they are ready ro jump into ship with anyone and thus end up miserably bad. It is also this erroneous belief that makes many believe polygamy can bring peace and happiness which definitely is not correct. Can an atheist marry a godly person and both have blissful marriage. Definitely No. The scripture says two cannot work together except they agree. Some will say the person will change in the course of marriage. Unfortunately you don't marry what you can't live with. A potential partner must be scrutinise for strength and weaknesses and the decision to say yes to a person must be based on the fact that we are willingly to meet them the way they are and not that we want them to necessarily change. On the case of op above, only her is in a position to know if she can live with the man in question. She needs to sit down, do some introspection and find out if there are certain qualities in the man she cherishes. No one, I repeat No one can make her choice for her. However let her bear it in my mind that the fact that she has been able to tolerate the man in question as a friend is already an indication that they can work together. So she should keep an open mind. Sorry for my long epistle. |
Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by Ewuro4: 8:34pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: *Sacarsm* Blame it on the Alcohol as usual I wonder what some breadwinning wives could've became if they didn't have an Amazon role models as an example growing up? It's imbred bro, simple as that. pickabeau1: Hehe Color me Evulz but those ones dey sweet pass aswear I'm like HUH?? |
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