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thanks amina, this is really educating and parents should really take note.I fear for children ,its just not getting better at all and pedophiles are getting away .

You r on point.

[quote author=LaDivva post=35376916]Nice one OP, if I must get a househelp I'll get a guy or an aged woman. I don't want stories that touch[/quot


Even male househelps are dangerous too

I still bathe with my 2 year old o, not stopping anytime soon.

You are quite right except with the points i crossed...

Aminat508:



[s]― Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.[/s]

― [s]Never allow any adult refer to your new born as 'my wife' or 'my husband'[/s]

[s]― Teach your 3-year-olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you. (remember, charity begins at home and with you)[/s]

On the first point...What about the fathers who molest their own daughters? Would you advise women to keep their daughters away from their fathers because of that? A molester will always molest whenever the opportunity presents itself without the child sitting on his laps

Point 2 about calling a child Husband or Wife is totally unnecessary! A potential molester will try as much as possible to be as neutral as possible in order not to give you hints.

Finally, i don't understand how a 3 year old would be able to effectively sanitize their private parts (esp the females).
Because of their age, they are naive to know what it entails to keep that part of their body neat as they only see it as where "we-we" (urine) passes out from. Trying to lay emphasis on a child that age to "guard" that part of their body will erupt the curiosity in them and they might try to explore.
(Remember that children are very inquisitive...When you tell them not to do something, out of their inquisitiveness, their is a 90% chance that they might do it just to know why Daddy or Mummy said they shouldn't do it)

Legalise prostitution

Adult-Ladies should be more sexually free with male counterpart

Nothing drives,paedophile,rapist than they are sex starved

Sex is expensive in nigeria the males want it by any means,

This will continue for a long haul so far religion still make adult females think sex is a sin, male hormones rage so much.

If you look at the countries with high rape,you will notice is either religion,culture as made sex look like a sin, countries like India,nigeria, please we should also help by making sure sex is not a big deal and not expensive to get.

Short time at a brothel comes a nadir is 500#, now tell me how many people can afford that?

They say no sex before marriage? The truth is how many guys can actually do? Even so call pastors atimes fall down.

We should ease up and not see sex as bad thing cuz that's the only way to solve this menace serving as a scourge to our environ.

All this laws you postulated may damage a child psychic so bad,more like a psychological,an emotional recluse at a very young age,they need freedom also,the work is on the parent to monitor not postulate.

May God help our children.

If you dont build your child, who will?

Very lovely tips.

[quote author=MsFaith post=35380086][/quote] But safer, coz I can't share my husband lol

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Good points, Noted

... Thanks OP



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My mother, father, aunty and uncles can call my children uncle and aunty nothing wrong with that

noted!

Informative... Thanks

on point

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Thanks Op for sharing this. I started teaching my daughter how to clean her private parts since she was four years, but i still feel that she does not clean it well enough but the challenge right now is that i recently noticed that she seems to enjoy it when i clean her private parts for her. I dont know how to talk to her about it.