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Can Your Relationship Thrive Without Trust? by cellors: 12:39pm On Jul 02, 2015
Trust is defined as the reliance on the integrity, strength and ability of a person. It is a sort of confidence you place on someone dear to you because you believe he or she will always be sincere with you in whatever is being said, watch your back, will not cheat on you and will always be there for you. This equally means you are honest with the other person in the relationship; you are reliable, responsible and dependable.

There are times when relationships are devoid of this element called trust perhaps, based on previous experiences from the past relationships. People do this a lot in order to prevent history repeating itself in their lives. More often than not, lack of trust has got nothing to do with peoples’ past experiences but based on what they have heard other people went through. I have heard a lot of people express lack of trust in the opposite sex yet they never dated anyone or at best, in one very complicated relationship and they end up using that to conclude for everybody in the world. Does that make sense? Yes, it is okay to safeguard ourselves from getting hurt, but then, I think people over do things in their analysis which only result in pushing the other person away.

Trust is an integral part of any thriving relationship. Without trust, it’s hard to get close to the other person and to rely on him or her for support. This happens mostly when we import most of our excess baggage from previous hurt into our next relationship, it does much harm than what we seek to prevent, most especially with someone who really want to be serious with us. It is very important that people are different and there is no law that states that you will definitely continue to experience what you did in your last two or three relationships, so let us put aside the common blunder that all men are dogs and all women are only money freak!

Look at a situation where you meet someone who is very open by nature (which you might not have noticed). Such a person would also naturally desire to have an open person without necessarily expecting you to share every little detail of your life with him or her if it feels uncomfortable at a certain stage. At the same time not a person with a façade that gives a funny impression. Reasonable people want people who will make them part of their lives and treat them without any form of preconceived notion of what men or women are like. When you get into a relationship, make judgments based on your experience with that individual because it doesn’t make sense to connect your messed up experience with that person. Good men and women still exist out there in large number.

Irrespective of where you are coming from, nobody can build any meaningful relationship without the foundation of trust.
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Re: Can Your Relationship Thrive Without Trust? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jul 02, 2015
Yes
Re: Can Your Relationship Thrive Without Trust? by Tallesty1(m): 12:45pm On Jul 02, 2015
Yes..... But it is going nowhere without trust.
Re: Can Your Relationship Thrive Without Trust? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Jul 02, 2015
o o. p. o. o. p. a. h. g. h. h. cc d. s. pop
Re: Can Your Relationship Thrive Without Trust? by Update(m): 12:54pm On Jul 02, 2015
witawt fuel yo generator or car fit work??


Jus askin tho!

Trust & love works together.....wen one z lost, dunt deceive yo self...jus quit in move on!
Re: Can Your Relationship Thrive Without Trust? by micklplus(m): 2:12pm On Jul 02, 2015
Trust is very key to building a strong and lasting relationship without which the relationship would collapse.

You know, love alone isn't enough in relationship.
One of such key components of a good and lasting relationship is TRUST.

It is the fuel.

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