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Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Nobody: 3:42am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Early marriage is good,cos you raise kids with strong bones and commanding tone with goodhealth as well,but marrying late is not cool as it drives you nut,cos raising teenagers with weak bones like 60plus is a very hardwork,it can even lead one to early grave via hypertension etc. Joromi1: 1 Like |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by francodebigjoe: 6:09am On Jul 04, 2015 |
coogar:they say z in Nigeria nt oyibo |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by ireneidiva(f): 6:26am On Jul 04, 2015 |
baba11:That's what broke guys say. |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by cotmag(m): 6:27am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Good comments! Marriage is actually a matter of choice. If you can carter for a family, it is good to marry early. My dad married very late and produced his first graduate @ 65. I know of his friends who had their own graduates @ 50. Thank God. I got married at @ 24 after my first degree and I already have a 3 yr old son. I am a father at 28. Instead of flirting around, I am of the opinion that one should marry and stay out of sin of fornication. I am not rich neither I am from a rich home but GOD has been so faithful. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by abbeyty(m): 6:37am On Jul 04, 2015 |
kelvyn7: And beside na your pension you go use train your kids for school. Earlier the better |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by blesoh(f): 6:46am On Jul 04, 2015 |
kelvyn7:exactly,one of my uncle who has retired all his kids re still in secondary school nd he's regretting cos most of his frnds their children re now married. 1 Like |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by blesoh(f): 6:57am On Jul 04, 2015 |
I got married @ an early age,am happy i did,initially i tot it wont last but for 5yrs we are still growing in luv,if u re finacially stable there's no need waiting,,,, b4 26yrs i will ve d number of kids i want. 1 Like |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by baba11(m): 7:05am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Azedplus:I concur with you especially in the aspect of understanding partner 1 Like |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by baba11(m): 7:09am On Jul 04, 2015 |
michaeak: Seconded!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by baba11(m): 7:12am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Sunnypa11: Seconded!!!! |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Amacaco: 7:20am On Jul 04, 2015 |
@op: It is much better to marry at an early age if you are matured enough emotionally, intellectually and financially. Maturity does not necessarily come with age but exposure, family training, upbringing and background as well as individual and personal traits. However, it is not compulsory you must marry early if you are not willing, ready, and prepared for it. Your parents should not force you to marry at all or so early if you do not want it. It should be your personal decision as you will bear the consequences and not them. Ask any well trained medical personnel and he will tell you that it is better for a woman to have her last baby before the age of 40 years or earlier than that. The bible also talks of one enjoying the "wife of his youth". When you marry as young people, you make the mistakes of young people together in marriage and grow in love together into old age, train and watch your children grow and mature.That is the joy of parenthood. By the time you are old and tired, your children should be settled enough to take care of you if you have trained them well. This is in addition to what other posters above me have already said. 1 Like |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by baba11(m): 7:21am On Jul 04, 2015 |
ireneidiva:,I laugh in Swahili...I know your type. I still maintain my stand and I don't think I'll marry someone like you that maybe aside your good looking, you've notthing to offer in the relationship. I'm not an ATMATM . For your info,I was into academic all my life except now that ive luxury of time for myself. I'm working though I'm still searching for better offer at the same time trying to be self reliant. Let's even say you are my wife,what do you've to offer me?? |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Vanityupnvanity(m): 7:22am On Jul 04, 2015 |
This op is old and single |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Nobody: 7:24am On Jul 04, 2015 |
cococandy:Why do You guys keep posting unverified/unproven stats. 1 Like |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by baba11(m): 7:26am On Jul 04, 2015 |
cotmag: I love this piece...kudos!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by onelife97: 7:28am On Jul 04, 2015 |
It is always good to marry early.because we human beings tend to fall in real love at early ages. When one passes the age of 25-30 mostly in ladies they bcome desperate in getting a husband in which most women just settle with any man that comes around and initially put love aside.Well it also happens in men. It's always difficult to find someone u really love it that will really love u back when u pass the age of 30. I got married at the age of 33 but I now think it could have bn better if I did it earlier. |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Enice(m): 7:39am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Joromi1:it is better to experience and deal with difficulties at a younger age than when you are old. Getting married should not be about how old you are but about how emotionally matured you are. The question you should be asking is what if you don't make it? Would you still get married. If yes, then there is no need waiting. If no, then keep waiting. |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by gamaliel121(m): 7:41am On Jul 04, 2015 |
TheFLIRT: Errmm..bro. Most guys in nigeria @ 25 are either still in school or just graduated and so many of them won't have the means to sustain a family.. U get? For me I say 29 -30. Buh if we are capable @25. Den yes, we should get should get married |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by kelvyn7: 7:53am On Jul 04, 2015 |
2tips: Yeah, very true. |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by kelvyn7: 7:56am On Jul 04, 2015 |
blesoh: hmmmmmn. U see. Imagine dat kain tin nau |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by trapQ: 8:03am On Jul 04, 2015 |
a man can be ready for marriage at 18 and another 35 or 40. when you've found the right person whom your heart beats for, Go head and marry emotional maturity is something I think most people never attain. except for a few people like JEGA. my point is, if you keep waiting and waiting till you're emotionally mature, the coming of Christ may be sooner than your marriage. bye! coogar: |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Joromi1: 8:04am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Enice:That's if the young man or woman willingly decides to marry. Not when parents or neighbours force u to do it before ur time |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Raalsalghul: 8:13am On Jul 04, 2015 |
TheFLIRT:It's not just fear, but it's healthy fear. |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Joromi1: 8:13am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Jman06:This ur theory funny o |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Jman06(m): 8:16am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Joromi1:But that's the truth nau. |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Joromi1: 8:17am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Monikween:So what are we waiting for? I'm young and single too 1 Like |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Monikween(f): 8:19am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Joromi1:I have someone .Am planning with... Thanks for d offer |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by baba11(m): 8:25am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Jman06: This made me to remember when I went to do a work in the east. The person that got the hotel told me that if I want a 'service',it was just #300.I abstained... Can this happen in the North?? |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by 9jatatafo(m): 8:30am On Jul 04, 2015 |
Earlier the better. Sometimes as a woman giving birth at late age comes with complications. |
Re: Is Early Marriage Really Advantageous? by Simple26(m): 8:38am On Jul 04, 2015 |
I think its cool, got married at 22 now at 25 I have two lovely kids. |
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