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Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Nobody: 4:32pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
There's no point 'discussing the situation' with your wife, op. If you have to ''discuss'' with your partner in order for her to show you basic affection, then there's really no point, as anything that comes out of that will likely be forced (pretence). Best thing is to get someone else to start some sort of relationship with and see how that goes. Don't be afraid to end the 'relationship' with your wife either. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by oochi123(f): 4:34pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Jacksparrow0712:.u wey ur mama don forget u. Born trowey. See hair like shit. Common go comot dat were tin wey u put for head.irresponsible born trowey pikin.no responsible girl wil ever marry a tout dat wears earring. Shashasha! Da iska.just be gud.wnt waste my time again. Enjoy. Immature rat |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Wetin this arugbo ojo dey talk sef? Is it my fault to you aren't exposed? Is it my fault you've never been out of your village to see new trends? Is it my fault you still live in the 18th century? Is it my fault you are ugly? Madam abeg go do find husband. You don turn burden on your parents. Go do advert for OLX oochi123: |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by loswhite(m): 4:49pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
DrGroove:Lame reasoning is the course of so many broken relationship. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by loswhite(m): 4:52pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
vincent7447:Get a side chick |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by miriamgroove: 4:54pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
I think its the way u started the relationship...wh en u were dating her...she is so used to it nw...if u want her to luv u back..I think u should change. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by DrGroove(f): 4:58pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
donald14:NOT A GOOD IDEA.such may not bother a woman who doesn't care so much about the man.instead it can infuriate her and she quietly ends the man's life without regret.when u feel say person no like u,u need to tread carefully.Many women instead of fighting, crying have killed their husbands with just rumours of "side chic" or "new wife". |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Nobody: 5:01pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
yemi1261: Still contemplating? Better speed it up. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by DrGroove(f): 5:06pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
yemi1261:Lol... If she was showing u love,u won't even contemplate cheating.u would cheated right away,rub it on her face to hurt her.Women are learning."Give men some space,dont show u love them no matter how deep,they will be worried n loyal". |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by yollychika(f): 5:13pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
I understand da way she feels about you, SHR DOESNT LOVE YOU |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by yollychika(f): 5:14pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
*SHE |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by loswhite(m): 5:16pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
coolsegun2002:like seriously? He needs to do more? Please it takes too to tangle. She needs to come out from her shell or loose her man. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by amalder: 5:26pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
germainediva:God bless you MAMA! My sis |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by harveyspec: 5:35pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
charlezok: 1. Has she always been like this? at the inception of the union or during courtship 2.if the answer to No1 is NO, start doing those things that used to thrill her & make her feel loved, this will only work on the grounds that there are no issues between you two 2a. If she is angry at you cos of what you did or did not do, then all ur entreaties will be irritating to her, so find out 2b. Find out is she is having any medical issues eg depression, is she in some kind of trouble, maybe money issues, is all well with her family etc 3.if the answer to No 1, is YES. Why then are you complaining? 4. I will recommend 5 love languages by Dr Gary chapman, go read it It talks about how we give & show love, if you keep showing love to your wife the way u want & not how she wants, then ur efforts will be futile eg some ladies feel loved when u spend quality with them, show them attention. If you substitute this action with gifts, you will find out no matter the gifts you buy, if you don't spend time with them it will mean nothing to them You hear such women say" I want to spend time with my husband" while another says " my husband can travel all he wants, he should leave enough money for me & the kids" there is nothing wrong with them, it's just their love language, so if u spend quality time with the one that loves money/gifts without the gift, all that time will amount to nothing The love languages are 1.words of affirmation 2.gifts 3.acts of service 4.quality time 5.physical touch Can you identify yours? Can you identify that of your spouse? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by MarieSucre(f): 5:49pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
charlezok:Na wa o. See home breakers o. The man never complained about his wife being rude or confrontational, she is just what Nigerians would call ' unromantic'. OP kudos for trying to get involved with your wife's activities. what I suggest in my humble opinion is you need a heart to heart talk with her. Why do I say so_ making it as a sort of ultimatum, subtly or not will create a robot wife and a robot relationship which might develop cracks when your wife is tired of pretending. Is there something that is going on in her life that you don't know that might be a factor? Are there somethings you might have been ignoring not deliberately because of work or other activities? Get involved with parts of her life and try to schedule a lot of activities you guys can enjoy together. Your wife might also be a victim of societal wide conditioning on notions of virtue, virginity and sexuality placed on girls resulting in her frigidity. In this case please seek the services of a professional therapists NOT YOUR PASTOR!! Best of luck on your journey to a fulfilling relationship with your wife. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Bro WORK it out with her. Attack d underlying issues Do you live in Akwa Ibom State? Do you relish the desire to own your own business with little start up capital and promising returns in investment? Do you hope to look into the mirror each morning and know you are talking to the boss? Are you enterprising?/Would you love to be? Do you have an aptitude for thinking out of the box? Then call or add me up on whatsapp 08085188110. You will be glad you did |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by MarieSucre(f): 6:02pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
harveyspec:THANK YOU! Bro this is top notch comment. I wish this was on the first page. I hope he gets to read this before he reads any of the other filth. Pls keep it up. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
otiigba1: You disappeared Lol I said I'll show him not that I'll touch him or do anything to him |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by ElFenomeno1: 6:16pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Jacksparrow0712: The reason why your father is not your biological father Your mother had to get spunked out by the village goat.... why you look like a troglodyte! Brainless product of a reckless and unfortunate mating between a nymphomaniac mother and a randy goat ashiere jatijati! |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Adeyeancah(m): 6:48pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
germainediva:Too much attention u say. This is a married man for crying out loud...Do you think say na bf gf thingy ni? |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by otiigba1(m): 6:52pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
datalossvictim1:LOL okay o! Show him not touch him? Its not you i don't trust, its him.*jokes* hian! Russia kwa? Kedu ife i na eme na Russia? Abi you go see MR putin? |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Nobody: 7:10pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Epistle of a pained impotent who's wife has been sleeping around with potent neighbours ElFenomeno1: |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by bobojoshua(m): 7:16pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
germainediva: |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Her ex is somewhere around the corner. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by ElFenomeno1: 7:52pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Jacksparrow0712: Fixed |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by pointzero30: 7:53pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
d same is applicable to me. mine was that my husband scared me away at d begging of our union dat he does not v time for me. he gives me everytin but did nt show me luv. I was pregnant he did nt show me luv during dat period. he send me away frm his room dat d bed (6 by 6)was nt enough 4 us at 7 months pregn. am a student in different state so we r always separate but whenever I visit he will always remind me to go bak. we v two children now, I luv him but .... there r many more to it. he is now asking me to com to his bed with two children n asking me when am finishing. but when a rope is cut to tie it is hard. he asks me why I dnt demons for sex and so many others. is a long story. pls ask ur self question if u r quilty for more call me at 08039546578. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
At your old age, I think you can do better than this ElFenomeno1: |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by ElFenomeno1: 7:54pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Adeyeancah: I wonder. That does not apply to a marriage situation and on a general basis, it doesn't apply to all... some females love the attention like the air they breathe! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by ElFenomeno1: 7:55pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
pointzero30: Why you don't demons for sex? |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by cococandy(f): 8:45pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Try harder OP The lord is your strength. |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by Ayoolajumoke(f): 8:54pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
ROSSIKE: You sound harsh, haba! So, he should divorce his wife because of that when he can work things out? |
Re: My Wife Shows No Affection by ZianaJordana(f): 9:02pm On Jul 05, 2015 |
Hmm... |
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